Giver or a taker....
do u get more pleasure from giving or receiving?
If ur a giver do u get taken advantage of?

Giver.....and I don't think so...maybe..

I'm a giver.
And i honestly get more pleasure from giving.

People have taken advantage of. oh well.

pardonme4livin said:

How so

DanceWme said:

Same ~

Mach said:

It actually makes me wonder if takers think they are actually givers ...what do u think hun?

We're all both at some point.

ocean said:

I help whenever needed (give assistance), I usually drive when there are more than 4 people coming (give rides), I am a sounding board and shoulder for those who need it (give advice), I am a walking talking ATM (give money)...so a giver... and as far as being taken advantage of...I suppose if I stopped to really look at each situation..there may be times, but in general, I don't think I am being taken advantage of...I hope not anyways....

ocean said:

Oh I would agree with some

I have some friends that are big takers and yet when they talk of self they talk as if they are big givers - it's weird

Alej said:

very true though usually there is a bigger take or give aspect overall in ones experience

Mach said:

Yeah thats what I seem to find..the biggest takers seem to think they are the best friends that give the most LOL ....

ocean said:

Agree




Wait ...


You mean I AM A HUGE TAKER ?

pardonme4livin said:

I hope they know not to take it ...prehaps u should go back to taking

Mach said:

YEAH now shove over to ur own bloody side

ocean said:

touche...

i love to give

hemphizzx said:

That's not the face of love

ocean said:

TAKE THAT !!

Mach said:

ocean said:

apologies

hemphizzx said:

oh well forgiven

ocean said:

cheers

Mach said:

Yep

I'm more of a taker, I believe

I'm far more of a giver than a taker...and I receive pleasure from both. Nobody ever gives me shit, though lol

Do I get taken advantage of? Sure, yeah ...I usually feel that way if there's no real appreciation expressed afterwards for whatever I've given of myself.


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Giver, a bit too much actually.

taker.

gimmee gimmee

Ok, so if you are a giver and you get so much pleasure by being one, doesn't that make you a taker?

I'd say I'm more of a giver.
Equally, I just don't like when I get more than I give, I don't feel very well then.
Maybe people take advantage of me, but I don't think about it.

Alej said:

You'd be "taking" from yourself lol...

Mach said:

Same here too.
I love to see the look on his face knowin that I caused it