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Why do folks seem to come out of the woodwork when,,,, you are in a happy and joyful relationship? this is wild! I could not get a halfway decent female human being into my life for a year and a half. Part of the problem was just getting folk to notice in the first place. So I kinda gave up looking and God blessed me with an outrageous beauty far better than I could ever deserve, and guess what happens, all of the sudden I am bombarded with offers to go out on dates, devious lustful stares from women I'd never recieved before and even a few nasty propositions! What is up with this scenario, when you dont want it it happens Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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2 reasons I believe...
People are drawn to what they can't have and When you are happy and in love, it shows on your face and that draws people to you. ...plus it doesn't hurt that you are a catch too!   If you will, so will I | |
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sometimes i think people mistake contentness for confidence. | |
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Because women become complete sluts around us half-breeds! | |
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Anxiety said: sometimes i think people mistake contentness for confidence.
I'd say there is also condidence there that may not have been there before. Confidence is way more attractive than desperation | |
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thekidsgirl said: 2 reasons I believe...
People are drawn to what they can't have and When you are happy and in love, it shows on your face and that draws people to you. ...plus it doesn't hurt that you are a catch too! you can only be sure someone IS a catch once they have been caught! | |
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thekidsgirl said: 2 reasons I believe...
People are drawn to what they can't have and When you are happy and in love, it shows on your face and that draws people to you. ...plus it doesn't hurt that you are a catch too!  Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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This is so true! My boyfriend was inundated with emails,texts & IM's when we got together. When he had blue balls they were non existant
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ZombieKitten said: Anxiety said: sometimes i think people mistake contentness for confidence.
I'd say there is also condidence there that may not have been there before. Confidence is way more attractive than desperation well, that's true too. | |
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ThreadCula said: This is so true! My boyfriend was inundated with emails,texts & IM's when we got together. When he had blue balls they were non existant
I'm gonna step out on a limb here and make a speculation. if the guy is someone without obvious appeal (ie. the once you get to know him, you love him type) then some women who don't take the time to get to know him, may have dismissed him before he even had a chance. However, once he is seen with a very attractive lady (as is the case with both of you here) they are gonna think again, there obviously IS something about him that these women have noticed and HELD ONTO, and since it might not be an obvious thing, they are intrigued and possibly the ones without scruples could be determined to find out | |
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Anxiety said: ZombieKitten said: I'd say there is also condidence there that may not have been there before. Confidence is way more attractive than desperation well, that's true too. I mean karma is stepping about town with a totally hot chick these days! That is a confidence boost if I ever saw one! | |
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ZombieKitten said: Anxiety said: well, that's true too. I mean karma is stepping about town with a totally hot chick these days! That is a confidence boost if I ever saw one! Thankyou for the compliment of her! She is quite stunning! Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: ZombieKitten said: I mean karma is stepping about town with a totally hot chick these days! That is a confidence boost if I ever saw one! Thankyou for the compliment of her! She is quite stunning! no worries! Dude, this thread could've been a hit - you need to do some better thread-hosting | |
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ZombieKitten said: ThreadCula said: This is so true! My boyfriend was inundated with emails,texts & IM's when we got together. When he had blue balls they were non existant
I'm gonna step out on a limb here and make a speculation. if the guy is someone without obvious appeal (ie. the once you get to know him, you love him type) then some women who don't take the time to get to know him, may have dismissed him before he even had a chance. However, once he is seen with a very attractive lady (as is the case with both of you here) they are gonna think again, there obviously IS something about him that these women have noticed and HELD ONTO, and since it might not be an obvious thing, they are intrigued and possibly the ones without scruples could be determined to find out True! ZombieKitten said: karmatornado said: Thankyou for the compliment of her! She is quite stunning! no worries! Dude, this thread could've been a hit - you need to do some better thread-hosting And True! "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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Because - the energy you are "in" attracts like energy
if things are good it attracts more good if things are bad - likewise SEEK BALANCE 
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Erin swears girls hit on me all the time. I think she's just being over-protective.  | |
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ZombieKitten said: ThreadCula said: This is so true! My boyfriend was inundated with emails,texts & IM's when we got together. When he had blue balls they were non existant
I'm gonna step out on a limb here and make a speculation. if the guy is someone without obvious appeal (ie. the once you get to know him, you love him type) then some women who don't take the time to get to know him, may have dismissed him before he even had a chance. However, once he is seen with a very attractive lady (as is the case with both of you here) they are gonna think again, there obviously IS something about him that these women have noticed and HELD ONTO, and since it might not be an obvious thing, they are intrigued and possibly the ones without scruples could be determined to find out Makes total sense. | |
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See it in reverse, a test of your worthiness. Pass the test!  Well look whom I found dipping their toe in the murky waters! :eyeroll: At least offer me a damn cup of coffee! | |
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