Men always talk about how women are so material, when in fact, in my opinnon, guys tend 2 be more materialized then women. In not so much in a gold diggers fashion, but it has alot do with how a man can't seem to get past a woman's breast size, instead of trying 2 see what's lurking inside the chambers of her mind.For instant, when you talk to a guy on the interent, one of the first thing he will ask you is "how do you look like" I think this is so annoying. You try to have a conversation when in all reality he cares about is how physically atrractive you are, so that he can cyber . In reality, When your in a club, If you look a certain you can get into the clubs for free, you can get free drinks and you have to be bothered with a guy, who you don't feel like being bothered with, trying to get you to dance all night long, just because of what you may be wearing. this is also annoying.
Women seems as if they're more open minded and except people for who they are, I'm not saying all women, but I am speaking for myself in general. You know a woman will date a ugly man, and be proud of her ugly man, she will buy him new teeth, dress him up and give him a whole new life style, but a man, if he had a ugly woman , he would treat her wrong, be ashamed of her and try 2 pretend as if she doesn't exsist at all. I mean I'm not saying all guys are like this, but for the majority it seems this way . What do you think?
[This message was edited Thu Dec 12 10:29:52 PST 2002 by DigitalLisa]

We might be more materialistic, but I think that we all materialized shortly after conception.

I'd like to think i'm still materializing...unfortunately it's all in me belly. Women tend to materialize more in their butt, which is all good.

Men will be men...women will be women...you've made some valid statements.

IceNine said:

Exactly what I was thinking...

MATERIALIZIN AS WE SPEAK...
i haven't yet decided whut form
to take.

Intertesting observation.
People are people and it's not about gender. It's actually about perspective and age.

Of course people (in general) think their good looking and want to hook up with other good looking people (or what THEY think is good looking). The problem with this is that once you're old, all you have is the person under the looks. Then what do you have?

Looks are part of it but when you start there and that is your whole basis of a relationship, you are fucked. Then all you have is the person who you thought was good looking and is in reality just another asshole.

All abstractions, including spirituality, ultimately derive from the material realm.

i think that u have stated some valid points to consider - but at the same time we should remember in the words of our brethren "this is a parade" - all of life...

people hide their insecruities behind something and i feel that in some way...it makes an outward appearance in the way they carry themselves, represent themselves and with whom they associate themselves with, materialisim aside its all there...

I can materialize as alot of things.First and formost a bat,but i can also be a dog,a stove a piece of toast,anything i want.

IceNine said:

LMAO!!

Took the words right outta my mouth...

I IS MATERIALIZEDISTIC
MASSOKISTIC AND CURENTLY
LIVIN WIT DA GOLDDIGGAHS
yall is would rememba dem from
dat show from da '80s

DigitalLisa said:

I think you've got issues.

Well i think we are all materialistic is some way not just guys...Really if you are looking for a date and a nice looking guy approaches you and a ugly one..who ya gonna pick??? But sometimes when we are not looking for anything at all is when we can find some nice people behind those not so good looks.. but hey if ya looking for sex then thats what ya want so hell yeah they are gonna look i would be the same lol OH SIGH arnt we just bad bad people lmao

00769BAD said:

winner!
[This message was edited Thu Dec 12 20:52:55 PST 2002 by AaronUnlimited]

teller said:

... almost as if pre-determined.