he or she tended to keep a few girlfriends or boyfriends at one time?

Maybe you found out before you really got "played", or maybe it didn't matter to you?

Thank god no. I've had my fair share of men trouble though.

yup. She wasn't playing me though. I knew about the others. It was just that I cared more about the relationship than she did.

I ran into a guy that had changed his relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship" but it didn't link to any name. I congratulated him on getting together with this girl Lauren that I had seen them paired together all the time, and he got all quiet. And I was like, oh I saw the status change... he shrunk down and said "I'm just trying to stay out of trouble". Then a completely different girl shows up and he introduces her and she asks him what kind of drink he wants. She goes to the bar and he's like "apparently I'm being hit on".

Oh c'mon.

Cinnie said:

I've never dated anybody who had multiple sides. I always get that info tidbit out of the way first, and if they're into dating around, I pretty much run for the hills

I dated other dudes until the one I liked got serious. When I first started seeing my boyfriend, then "friend" I would call him while I was following my date to a show, restaurant, etc. He jokes me about that all the time now. He worked hard for the players card so I handed it over when he requested it.

KatSkrizzle said:

Ottensen said:

Same.

Yes, an ex boyfriend was trying to date another girl and me and when I found out I left him. He claimed that I was the one that was more important to him but I still left. right after that I found out the other woman took all his money and left him with nothing and he called me wanting me back, but I did not and will not take him back, but I guess thats karma for you.

egyptkizzee said:

Of course.

Cinnie said:

Certianly have and, oh it mattered as soon as I figured it out ! That didnt take long cuz the tell tale signs even in the late teens early 20s are easy enopugh to see/hear/feel So that ended that with a quickness

yep.

hokie said:

Only true pimpstresses can pull it off!

Yep. And like a dummy I stuck around for 8 years.

Yes.

It didn't really matter to me, as I didn't want anything serious with her. But the way she said it was a little off-putting. She told me, "I'm dating a few different people right now, and I'd really like for you to be one of them."

I was like, wow, do people generally feel really special when you say that to them? Like I'm one of the lucky few.

PsychoNeverHands said:

THAT sounds ridiculous.

LAWD

Cinnie said:

Bitch really said it like it was a wonderful thing.

PsychoNeverHands said:

some people got it like that.

i like lots of folks, but mostly i shy away from compliments and such. i know, i'm a wreck.

Yes, and all too often

Perhaps I'm too sensitive though

Never!

I don't put myself in that predicament simply because it takes alot for me to trust people even when I like them. It may sound creepy, but I do the background homework on them when we decide to take it further,,,,but fuck it, I'd rather be the creepy broad than the sucker.

And beside, I've seen alot of my girlfriends(and male friends too) go through the same bullshit over & over, it taught me if anything else.

I don't think so

but I've only really gone out with 2 guys properly and one "sorta"

There's plenty of them around unfortunately ....exactly the kinda guy I will be warning my daughter about.....(no I'm not saying girls don't do it too...my sons to young to have to worry about that yet )

Actually how do u describe what type of arsehole/bitches are out there.....what signs to be aware of to a teenager?
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I ran into him again and he was with the original girl Lauren.

Lauren noticed my shirt designed by someone else, and I said "yeah I got it at..." and mentioned this other event that HE WENT TO WITH A THIRD DIFFERENT WOMAN, NOT LAUREN!!



Like, who is getting who in trouble now