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how long do u normally hold a grudge? do you let shit go..or do you rocke that shit like you want the person to be cursed forever?
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a long, long, long, long ass time. | |
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For as long as I possibly can. | |
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I don't hold grudges at all. I either fuck with you or I don't. There's usually no malice involved. | |
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CarrieLee said: For as long as I possibly can.
I second this....I am a grudge holding mf'r... I'm not proud of this by the way...just the way I am wired...I never let anything go... | |
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pardonme4livin said: CarrieLee said: For as long as I possibly can.
I second this....I am a grudge holding mf'r... I'm not proud of this by the way...just the way I am wired...I never let anything go... That is so hot. I love you so hard for that. | |
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Imago said: pardonme4livin said: I second this....I am a grudge holding mf'r... I'm not proud of this by the way...just the way I am wired...I never let anything go... That is so hot. I love you so hard for that. | |
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pardonme4livin said: Imago said: That is so hot. I love you so hard for that. | |
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I hold a grudge for as long as I remember why I'm holding that grudge. Only thing is I have a shockingly bad memory, so it's not usually for too long I'm not stopping. I haven't even taken my coat off
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Ex-Moderator | Depends on what it is and who it's against.
I don't think I'm much of a grudge holder, but if you break my trust I may never trust you again. That's not really a grudge, though. That's self-protection. |
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CarrieMpls said: if you break my trust I may never trust you again.
That's not really a grudge, though. That's self-protection. I'm pretty nonchalant with people, but I'm EXTRA hypersensitive when it comes to my family & closed circle,,,,,everybody I LOVE dearly don't take shit from them slightly. | |
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Not long. I'll blow up at the time and hand you your ass and then some, then I'm usually over it in a week. | |
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Probably like a day | |
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I'm generally a quiet person but If I get angry I get really angry. But it doesn't last long. I'm usually on to something else after the fact. | |
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2 1/2 minutes, give or take a couple of seconds . Far, far less time than that if a sincere apology is offered. | |
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I don't...but if I made the choice to move on, I've moved on, sorry. | |
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Depends... I've "forgiven" people for some pretty despicable shit There's one grudge that I'm seriously trying to let go but I swear I might have to take that shit to the grave w/ me It's useless, but it still burns my asshole | |
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JustErin said: I don't...but if I made the choice to move on, I've moved on, sorry.
...You described me almost to a mf "T" there lol. | |
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Byron said: JustErin said: I don't...but if I made the choice to move on, I've moved on, sorry.
...You described me almost to a mf "T" there lol. | |
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Not long at all. I usually immediately let it go if the person apologizes sincerely. Even if they don't I usually get over it. But then again, I've never been seriously wronged so I can't completely answer this question. I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09 | |
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It really does depend on what i'm upset about. On average though, I hold it for about a day or two. Outliers: 1hr, and 2 years. Let's have a little fun....
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It depends on what it's about. There are some things I can get over... other things U may think I forgot, but... "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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I have some going on 30 years now Le prego di non toccare la macchina per favore! | |
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I try not to hold grudges since life is too short for all that, but sometimes, I do get caught up in the moment and hold a grudge for a couple of hours, then I let it go. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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Depends on who the person is and how bad they burned me. Some grudges can last a week, couple of months or for life. I have cut people off - they're "dead" to me, no longer exist in my world. | |
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I only held one, and it was for two years. It was only for two years because that was the time period in which I didn't see the other guy.
He was an opposing kiddie basketball coach, and he ran up the score on my team when we only had three players. He pressed the whole game. Then this year, our kids ended up on the same basketball team. I decided I'd rather have no grudges, so I went up and apologized for what happened two years ago (or, at least, my part in it. I wouldn't shake his hand after that game, and I told him he had no class). It's all good now. We're friends, and I feel a lot better. | |
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RodeoSchro said: I only held one, and it was for two years. It was only for two years because that was the time period in which I didn't see the other guy.
He was an opposing kiddie basketball coach, and he ran up the score on my team when we only had three players. He pressed the whole game. Then this year, our kids ended up on the same basketball team. I decided I'd rather have no grudges, so I went up and apologized for what happened two years ago (or, at least, my part in it. I wouldn't shake his hand after that game, and I told him he had no class). It's all good now. We're friends, and I feel a lot better. Well in the case of friends, I don't hold grudges like that. I usually just let them go if I get that mad about whatever the situation may be. I just cut off a few friends over some bullshit in which I was treated in a shitty way, and that was my way of letting go of the grudge, by letting them go because they simply weren't worth it. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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depends on who it is.....a while.....holding a grudge now...been more than a month. | |
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grudges eat away at your soul, so i dont do it. i just take note an continue on through life | |
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About a minute and a half. Might just be my short attention span. | |
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