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PrintableTD3 said: meow85 said: I know that that's designed to help prevent paternity fraud, but it looks to me like that's leaving way too much room for men to skip out on responsibility. Well no, paternity laws weren't designed to prevent paternity fraud per say. They were establish so that persons would have legal recourse and protection under the law. Paternity laws were designed to provide and protect what's in the best interest of the child and/or children. It doesn't give men room to skip out on responsibility, it does by law make men own up to their financial responsibilities when it's been established they are the biological father of a child. Also, it gives father's legal rights to ask for visitation and/or custody. Establishing paternity provides a child with legal rights to benefit from a father's Social Security, insurance benefits, inheritance rights, veteran's and other benefits. Just as establishing paternity of a child gives women legal recourse to go through the courts to establish educational/medical child support payments. Needless to say it's important psychologically for a child to have a name and to have an identity. The law can't make a dad have an emotional/nurturing relationship with their child but the law can try to make sure society not footing the bills for a mans childcare either. If Mr. Larry Durden had taken a DNA test the subsequent drama could've been avoided. [Edited 5/16/09 5:04am]  and when he faces the judge, he/she may ask him why did he sign the paternity affadavit, why did you suddenly want a DNA test AFTER a warrant for your arrest for back payments for child support. The mother should be dealt with, too. Also people need to put their emotions aside for a minute, and see why the law is after him. Always know what you're signing because the courts don't care about your emotions.[Edited 5/18/09 3:35am] | |
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MuthaFunka said: kpowers said: P & R
 Hold up...Not until "I" post...Ok, NOW it's relagated to P&R.  This is just the maury povich show except you are having the opportunity to hear the thoughts of the audience..... [Edited 5/18/09 4:42am] Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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angel345 said:[quote] TD3 said: Well no, paternity laws weren't designed to prevent paternity fraud per say. They were establish so that persons would have legal recourse and protection under the law. Paternity laws were designed to provide and protect what's in the best interest of the child and/or children. It doesn't give men room to skip out on responsibility, it does by law make men own up to their financial responsibilities when it's been established they are the biological father of a child. Also, it gives father's legal rights to ask for visitation and/or custody. Establishing paternity provides a child with legal rights to benefit from a father's Social Security, insurance benefits, inheritance rights, veteran's and other benefits. Just as establishing paternity of a child gives women legal recourse to go through the courts to establish educational/medical child support payments. Needless to say it's important psychologically for a child to have a name and to have an identity. The law can't make a dad have an emotional/nurturing relationship with their child but the law can try to make sure society not footing the bills for a mans childcare either. If Mr. Larry Durden had taken a DNA test the subsequent drama could've been avoided.[Edited 5/16/09 5:04am] So because this guy didn't know that his woman was cheating and assumed responsbility for a child that, as far as we know, he had no reason to think was not his instead of automatically asking her get the kid DNA tested, he's brought this on himself!!! Is this is the route you think all expectant fathers should be taking? Cause I know if my man asked me to take a DNA test if I fell pregnant and I wasn't cheating he would be getting my foot in his ass right quick.  "I know that living with u baby, was sometimes hard...but I'm willing 2 give it another try.
Cause nothing compares....nothing compares 2 u!" | |
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Neophyte said:[quote] angel345 said: TD3 said: Well no, paternity laws weren't designed to prevent paternity fraud per say. They were establish so that persons would have legal recourse and protection under the law. Paternity laws were designed to provide and protect what's in the best interest of the child and/or children. It doesn't give men room to skip out on responsibility, it does by law make men own up to their financial responsibilities when it's been established they are the biological father of a child. Also, it gives father's legal rights to ask for visitation and/or custody. Establishing paternity provides a child with legal rights to benefit from a father's Social Security, insurance benefits, inheritance rights, veteran's and other benefits. Just as establishing paternity of a child gives women legal recourse to go through the courts to establish educational/medical child support payments. Needless to say it's important psychologically for a child to have a name and to have an identity. The law can't make a dad have an emotional/nurturing relationship with their child but the law can try to make sure society not footing the bills for a mans childcare either. If Mr. Larry Durden had taken a DNA test the subsequent drama could've been avoided.[Edited 5/16/09 5:04am] So because this guy didn't know that his woman was cheating and assumed responsbility for a child that, as far as we know, he had no reason to think was not his instead of automatically asking her get the kid DNA tested, he's brought this on himself!!! Is this is the route you think all expectant fathers should be taking? Cause I know if my man asked me to take a DNA test if I fell pregnant and I wasn't cheating he would be getting my foot in his ass right quick.  Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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noimageatall said: SCNDLS said: But his mother IS a liar.  It's not fair that he's caught in the middle but that's not dude's fault. It's on her to explain who his father is and why she did what she did instead of continuing to benefit financially from what's basically theft by fraud.  Yeah...that's what I meant. But think of how he feels. Maybe his REAL sperm-donor is a crackhead low-life con who beat the shit out of her and she wanted something better for her son and she lied to ensure that. (cue soap opera music) It was wrong. He should not be forced to pay. But damned if I could just up and leave a child I had been mother to for 11 years. Not in me.  Hell, I used to work in child-care and when some of the kids would leave to start kindergarten I would cry. 
Maybe-maybe-maybe...I don't know.  She lied for whatever reason. The boy was ok. The truth comes out..everyone loses. Such is life.
Ponders on why I am the only one in a family of French and NA blood with bright red hair and mom's boyfriend at the time she met my "dad" had bright red hair. MOOOOOMMMM???? Can I ask you somethin'?  I hear ya. 
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Neophyte said: Cause I know if my man asked me to take a DNA test if I fell pregnant and I wasn't cheating he would be getting my foot in his ass right quick.
I think I wouldn't get very upset...I do want him to be a smarty pants, and would take his request as him being sure of himself. | |
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Honey said: Neophyte said: Cause I know if my man asked me to take a DNA test if I fell pregnant and I wasn't cheating he would be getting my foot in his ass right quick.
I think I wouldn't get very upset...I do want him to be a smarty pants, and would take his request as him being sure of himself. That's nice, and I would love to be able to take that route but.....hell no, I kicking that ass. One thing I hate is a cheater, so for him to ask me that   [Edited 5/18/09 5:52am] "I know that living with u baby, was sometimes hard...but I'm willing 2 give it another try.
Cause nothing compares....nothing compares 2 u!" | |
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Neophyte said: Honey said: I think I wouldn't get very upset...I do want him to be a smarty pants, and would take his request as him being sure of himself. That's nice, and I would love to be able to take that route but.....hell no, I kicking that ass. One thing I hate is a cheater, so for him to ask me that  | |
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StillGotIt said: GetAwayFromMe said: The error in your argument is the fact that he has already taken on the role of "father". You'd be ok with him abandoning his position? How would the child take it? Do you even give a shit? Probably not, because you're too focused on the financial aspect of the case. EACH PARTY has a responsibility in this. Not just the "trashy bitch tramp", as you so eloquently called her. My profane insults? Using the big 'ol FU isn't profane? And I do believe you used it against someone who didn't agree with your point of view. What an
[Name calling snip - luv4u]you are. Hypocritical to the bone and can't even see it. I'd hate to be your grandchild, knowing that you'd abandon me if you found out that I wasn't related to you by blood, but had helped raise me my entire life. That, to me, shows your absolute lack of humanity and morals. It's all about the money to some of you. You cannot type anything without attacking someone personally, can you? Again, there you are, exhibiting for all the org to see, your ignorance as well as your complete and utter lack of self control. You just reiterated my prior post concerning your character. 
(Edits: highlighted ignorance) [Edited 5/17/09 12:34pm] Are you completely blind to your own writing? You have been insulting to not just me, but someone else here as well, but I guess that doesn't count in your world???? Laughable, just completely laughable. | |
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Ottensen said: MuthaFunka said: And it's STILL in GD! AMAZING!   Stop that!  nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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StillGotIt said: MuthaFunka said: Hold up...Not until "I" post...Ok, NOW it's relagated to P&R. This is just the maury povich show except you are having the opportunity to hear the thoughts of the audience..... [Edited 5/18/09 4:42am] ...Mutha!...You are NOT the father! [Mutha jumps up off the chair in exhilaration] Whut! Whut! What I tell y'all? Told y'all! Fuck all y'all! I'm outta here! Gotta go and pick up my 6 other kids!nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: StillGotIt said: This is just the maury povich show except you are having the opportunity to hear the thoughts of the audience..... [Edited 5/18/09 4:42am] ...Mutha!...You are NOT the father! [Mutha jumps up off the chair in exhilaration] Whut! Whut! What I tell y'all? Told y'all! Fuck all y'all! I'm outta here! Gotta go and pick up my 6 other kids!But hold 'em up playa . . . we still need you to ante up.  | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: ...Mutha!...You are NOT the father! [Mutha jumps up off the chair in exhilaration] Whut! Whut! What I tell y'all? Told y'all! Fuck all y'all! I'm outta here! Gotta go and pick up my 6 other kids!But hold 'em up playa . . . we still need you to ante up. Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: SCNDLS said: But hold 'em up playa . . . we still need you to ante up. Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race. 
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MuthaFunka said: SCNDLS said: But hold 'em up playa . . . we still need you to ante up. Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? damn. :instigation: | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
SCNDLS cabbage patches outta the studio after learning she won the baby daddy lottery. U guys are getting me in all kinds of HOT water. lol..... | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
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Ottensen said: SCNDLS said: Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
SCNDLS cabbage patches outta the studio after learning she won the baby daddy lottery. Done died from laughing emoticon Once u go Gray.....u have MADE your day. | |
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Graycap23 said: Ottensen said: [/color] Done died from laughing emoticon Once u go Gray.....u have MADE your day. Whatevah, did you send that check? | |
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SCNDLS said: Graycap23 said: Once u go Gray.....u have MADE your day. Whatevah, did you send that check? The next time I pay.....will be the 1st. | |
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Graycap23 said: SCNDLS said: Whatevah, did you send that check? The next time I pay.....will be the 1st. Just don't make it the last and we won't have no problems.[Edited 5/18/09 8:48am] | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
SCNDLS cabbage patches outta the studio after learning she won the baby daddy lottery. [Maury corrects himself]: Maury: My apologies, SCNDLS...phunkdaddy is the other father, NOT Mutha. I read the name wrong. Again, I'm sorry for that. [SCNDLS breaks out of her cabbage patch and copllapses to the floor in tears - again] SCNDLS: But phunk pulled out!...At least that what he SAID he did! Aw dayum! nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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sinisterpentatonic said: MuthaFunka said: Hell naw! Yoiu ain't gettin' NO ENDS! PEACE! [SCNDLS runs backstage in tears and collapses on the couch, as Maury follows]: SCNDLS: I thought it WAS Mutha's! Maury: We can help find who it is. SCNDLS: I already know who it is...Graycap23! Maury: Oh. Him? You were desperate, huh? damn. :instigation: nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Graycap23 said: SCNDLS said: Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
SCNDLS cabbage patches outta the studio after learning she won the baby daddy lottery. U guys are getting me in all kinds of HOT water. lol..... nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: SCNDLS said: Maury: Mutha, you jumped up so fast in your excitement, that you didn't let me finish reading the results. So, as I was saying, it IS true that you are not daddy of ONE of the twins. However, the DNA test shows that you are 100% the daddy of the other one. Mutha: What the fuck??? Nuh uhhh, you lyin' Maury!!! SCNDLS: Ummmmm, 'member that appointment we had. Well, Graycap23 came earlier and apparently it's medically possible for two sperm to win the race.
SCNDLS cabbage patches outta the studio after learning she won the baby daddy lottery. [Maury corrects himself]: Maury: My apologies, SCNDLS...phunkdaddy is the other father, NOT Mutha. I read the name wrong. Again, I'm sorry for that. [SCNDLS breaks out of her cabbage patch and copllapses to the floor in tears - again] SCNDLS: But phunk pulled out!...At least that what he SAID he did! Aw dayum! Fuck that shit Mutha you can't just change the results of the DNA test, willy nilly, cheatin' ass! 
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: [Maury corrects himself]: Maury: My apologies, SCNDLS...phunkdaddy is the other father, NOT Mutha. I read the name wrong. Again, I'm sorry for that. [SCNDLS breaks out of her cabbage patch and copllapses to the floor in tears - again] SCNDLS: But phunk pulled out!...At least that what he SAID he did! Aw dayum! Fuck that shit Mutha you can't just change the results of the DNA test, willy nilly, cheatin' ass!
I didn't change the DNA test...I changed the name ATTRIBUTED to the DNA test! Maury read my name instead of phunkdaddy!nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: SCNDLS said: Fuck that shit Mutha you can't just change the results of the DNA test, willy nilly, cheatin' ass!
I didn't change the DNA test...I changed the name ATTRIBUTED to the DNA test! Maury read my name instead of phunkdaddy!Fuck that, cheatin' ASS!  Besides, Phunk's appointment was the following week and you and Gray were back to back appointments. [Edited 5/18/09 9:11am] | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: I didn't change the DNA test...I changed the name ATTRIBUTED to the DNA test! Maury read my name instead of phunkdaddy!Fuck that, cheatin' ASS! Besides, Phunk's appointment was the following week and you and Gray were back to back appointments.
[Edited 5/18/09 9:11am] Now you sound like the chick in THIS article. Stop ya lyin'! nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: SCNDLS said: Fuck that, cheatin' ASS! Besides, Phunk's appointment was the following week and you and Gray were back to back appointments.
[Edited 5/18/09 9:11am] Now you sound like the chick in THIS article. Stop ya lyin'! Uhhh, no, I, unlike THIS trick, keep impeccable records regarding who's paid a visit to my Paisley Park. The twins just kinda threw me off. | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: I didn't change the DNA test...I changed the name ATTRIBUTED to the DNA test! Maury read my name instead of phunkdaddy!Fuck that, cheatin' ASS! Besides, Phunk's appointment was the following week and you and Gray were back to back appointments.
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