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CarrieMpls said: f) honesty - but I don't need the brutal
One can be honest and polite at the same time and it's a virtue I think is important. "I don't see this working out" is just fine. 
but at the same time if they say "I don't see this workin out"... I'd like them to expound on that. I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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7e7e7 said: ocean said: A. I guess.....oh and if ur trying to tell me something....the bunny gets it
 that's a horrible thing to say! 
cheers! ~svn seven What happened to wanting ur own ocean Mr ..... 
Btw do u own a bunny  | |
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Hi, I'm not available right now. If this is Derrick Lincoln, please dont ever call me again. I tried to tell you nicely but you ignored me--- because you convinced yourself that you could change my mind. Derrick, dont leave me a message, dont call me, and dont ask about me, dont even dreak about me. I dont like you...never did, never will. All others, please leave a message after the tone and have a wonderful day. Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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ocean said: ZombieKitten said: he broke up with his mum?!?!  hes Tasmanian LOLyou aussie sheilas are doofus numbnuts  but fit though What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: ZombieKitten said: If someone was to drop you, how should it be done for you to get over it with dignity?
a) brutal honesty "you just aren't my type, really. Please don't call me again" b) the "I'll call you!" but she/he never does c) text message d) disappearing act e) new single status on their facebook f) other (please explain)  f) other, i think the person doing the dumping should fake their own death arrange a fake burial and move to another country. Oh and conveniently leave you a letter before they go explaining how you were the greatest love/sex god they ever had the pleasure of being with
insecure men nah!! i luv this one the best - good 4 the ego! As long as we keep our luv strong we'll never shed no tears | |
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Honesty, but without the brutal part. I think people can be polite and mature on both sides. If someone breaks up with me, I'm not going to call him, so I don't need the negative reinforcement. I'd prefer not to have it unless it's going to help me in the next relationship. Then I would consider it a nice thing if their parting words helped me improve something for the next guy. | |
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this thread would have been a classic back in the day | |
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JustErin said: As much as it sucks....A.
well of course, but it is the LEAST sucky  | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: As much as it sucks....A.
well of course, but it is the LEAST sucky I just think the brutal honesty will shake me into reality and help me move on from them. | |
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JustErin said: ZombieKitten said: well of course, but it is the LEAST sucky I just think the brutal honesty will shake me into reality and help me move on from them. Hmmm i guess women can handle reality where as men try to avoid it every which way they can, or is that just me  What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: JustErin said: I just think the brutal honesty will shake me into reality and help me move on from them. Hmmm i guess women can handle reality where as men try to avoid it every which way they can, or is that just me Bingo. And the problem is we break up with each other the way we'd like it done, which isn't the way the breakee would like it! | |
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endymion said: JustErin said: I just think the brutal honesty will shake me into reality and help me move on from them. Hmmm i guess women can handle reality where as men try to avoid it every which way they can, or is that just me Are you kidding me??? Women can't handle reality either.  | |
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ZombieKitten said: endymion said: Hmmm i guess women can handle reality where as men try to avoid it every which way they can, or is that just me Bingo. And the problem is we break up with each other the way we'd like it done, which isn't the way the breakee would like it! The trouble with men is our empathy gene is basically broken so we expect you women to be EXTREMELY mindful of our feelings, but when it comes to us breaking up with you we sorta just worm around a bit and then generally do something very inappropriate 
i really can't understand your problem What you don't remember never happened | |
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JustErin said: endymion said: Hmmm i guess women can handle reality where as men try to avoid it every which way they can, or is that just me Are you kidding me??? Women can't handle reality either. Yeah but women seem to have a morbid desire to hear/know the truth, men on the other hand.... hell where is the sand so i can bury my head tends to be our attitude What you don't remember never happened | |
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I have always called to break up with somebody or told them to their face. Now I have done the rest to other people I have had flings with though. Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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endymion said: JustErin said: Are you kidding me??? Women can't handle reality either. Yeah but women seem to have a morbid desire to hear/know the truth, men on the other hand.... hell where is the sand so i can bury my head tends to be our attitude No, you're mistaken. They have the desire to hear their truth not the actual truth. When a woman pushes to hear the truth, they are pushing to hear what they want to hear. [Edited 5/14/09 7:26am] | |
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JustErin said: endymion said: Yeah but women seem to have a morbid desire to hear/know the truth, men on the other hand.... hell where is the sand so i can bury my head tends to be our attitude No, you're mistaken. They have the desire to hear their truth not the actual truth. When a woman pushes to hear the truth, they are pushing to hear what they want to hear. [Edited 5/14/09 7:26am] Okay.....the more i read the more i figure my initial answer f) etc... is the way to go What you don't remember never happened | |
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CarrieMpls said: f) honesty - but I don't need the brutal
One can be honest and polite at the same time and it's a virtue I think is important. "I don't see this working out" is just fine. you are so wise. | |
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actually, nevermind. Others said the same thing on this thread better than I did [Edited 5/14/09 8:00am] | |
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CarrieMpls said: f) honesty - but I don't need the brutal
One can be honest and polite at the same time and it's a virtue I think is important. "I don't see this working out" is just fine. I'd pick this too If you will, so will I | |
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MoniGram said: I prefer to be sat down and told face to face. Screw the whole text message thing, or email, had that done and that blows. I would rather the person be brave enough to say "Hey, this is not working."
Exactly! tell me to my face so i can kick u in the nuts. | |
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InsatiableCream said: i feel like a jackass cause i've done all of those to people
me too  | |
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DanceWme said: MoniGram said: I prefer to be sat down and told face to face. Screw the whole text message thing, or email, had that done and that blows. I would rather the person be brave enough to say "Hey, this is not working."
Exactly! tell me to my face so i can kick u in the nuts.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: f) honesty - but I don't need the brutal
One can be honest and polite at the same time and it's a virtue I think is important. "I don't see this working out" is just fine. Exactly. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Direct eye contact - comapssionate voice tone
"Baby ~ I just cant live like this anymore" and I would be gone pretty simple really no need for drama  | |
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The simple truth | |
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Mach said: Direct eye contact - comapssionate voice tone
"Baby ~ I just cant live like this anymore" and I would be gone pretty simple really no need for drama You wouldn't ask why? | |
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CarrieMpls said: f) honesty - but I don't need the brutal
One can be honest and polite at the same time and it's a virtue I think is important. "I don't see this working out" is just fine. I completely agree..... | |
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