japanrocks said:

Actually my question had nothing to do with an affair of any kind. I was asking if you guys on here that are married use condoms with your spouses.

SCNDLS said:

Yes but it is a 'don't want anymore children thing' not an STD thing

endymion said:

Condoms SUCK!

hokie said:

Well obviously don't use them for the sucking part

Awhile before i was married my girlfriend at the time was on the 'pill'

to cut a long story short i now have an 18 year old daughter

so maybe i am a little wary about these things

endymion said:

Uh oh.


Well, yes I can see why you're scared.

For me, there was always another alternative that was even more effective than condoms and much nicer. (When I was married.)

hokie said:

So when you get back out there again Hokes are you not gonna insist on condoms?

endymion said:

Yes. I guess.

did anyone catch the part in this thread where johnart said I was cute and smart?

Imago said:

no i think you were hallucinating

endymion said:

Actually, I think you're cute.

Imago said:

Yeah, but i have said it before thick as shit

Imago said:

Boo whore.

Lammastide said:

That's my point - who the hell is gonna monitor his pre-ejaculatory fluid?

HIV aint the only thing to worry about
STD's too (obvious)
and what about Hepatitis? You dont want to get that either.

Serious said:

the presence of oxygen kills hiv. outside of the body it's very weak virus.

johnart said:

I sided with you then, and I will now.

Monogamy is a lovely idea, and in a perfect world everyone could trust that their spouse was faithful. But we don't live in a perfect world, and people will cheat.

Unless you're a straight couple trying for a kid, or both of you get regular -and I do mean regular -std checks, keep it wrapped up. Trust should never trump safety.

Imago said:

Lawd.

CalhounSq said:

when i watch judge judy

SCNDLS said:

johnart said:

Imago said:

I eat pussy and I like it.

PvMarchingStorm05 said:

What about th' ol' school "pulling out" strategy. (A personal favourite of mine )

meow85 said:

big momma jugglin'the facts. 'like it.

Rightly said:

I seriously hope you're joking. Not only is that almost a surefire way to get the chick pregnant, it doesn't protect against STD's either. Pre-cum carries disease too.

meow85 said:

In my experience, if da lady loves her body, she'll know when she can and can't get preggerz. admittedly this isn't always the case. As for STDs, that usually only gives reason for concern in a non-monogamous welationship.

I'm talking about my own, personal and subjective experiences, I'm not preaching to the masses. So, don't try this at home kids!

Rightly said:

Yeah sure

Rightly said:

SOME women can tell, but it takes a whole lot of work to figure it out and most women, no matter how self- and body-loving they are, are not going to take the time to figure it out. It's too much of a gamble to hope you ended up with a chick who does measure her body clock, and even if you do it's not an exact science. Mistakes can be made, and you could end up with 18 years of responsibility. And like I said before: Monogamy is a great idea but no matter how much you might trust and love your partner you cannot 100% guarantee their faithfulness.

Only a dumbass uses pulling out as protection against anything.

I recently turned down a guy for offering to just pull out. Told him I thought he was awesome and cute and all kinds of shit, but no thanks. Neither of us had a condom on hand and I'm not currently on the pill or anything so getting freaky was just not going to happen. I don't know if he has anything, he shouldn't trust that I don't, (I don't, but the point is...) and I'm sure neither of us wanted to see a Meow85 Junior kicking around anytime soon.