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Reply #30 posted 05/07/09 10:41am

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NDRU said:

heartbeatocean said:



Yes, that's my own observance. But the movie does emphasize that there is something peculiar about Golden Gate Bridge suicides...because it is such a beautiful, iconic place. And there is a collective element too, the idea of people dying together there. The act is full of irony.


I wonder if there's a natural pull to it as well. When I'm up there it's a weird feeling, like I can feel myself going over. It's hard to not imagine it, sick as that sounds.


this is very true. I feel this also.

Like people attacking the Mona Lisa, for example, because it causes a psychological crisis in them.


eek how strange! lol
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Reply #31 posted 05/07/09 10:44am

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heartbeatocean said:

NDRU said:

Like people attacking the Mona Lisa, for example, because it causes a psychological crisis in them.


eek how strange! lol


specifically, the theory behind the story related to me was that the smile of the Mona Lisa is that of a mother to her child (just a theory, of course), and yet there's a subtle sexual quality to it, and that that causes some to freak out, as if their mother is giving them the eye right there in front of everyone in the Louvre lol
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Reply #32 posted 05/07/09 10:50am

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NDRU said:

heartbeatocean said:

NDRU said:



eek how strange! lol


specifically, the theory behind the story related to me was that the smile of the Mona Lisa is that of a mother to her child (just a theory, of course), and yet there's a subtle sexual quality to it, and that that causes some to freak out, as if their mother is giving them the eye right there in front of everyone in the Louvre lol
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I need a shower after that theory. Ewwwww.
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Reply #33 posted 05/07/09 10:52am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

NDRU said:



specifically, the theory behind the story related to me was that the smile of the Mona Lisa is that of a mother to her child (just a theory, of course), and yet there's a subtle sexual quality to it, and that that causes some to freak out, as if their mother is giving them the eye right there in front of everyone in the Louvre lol
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I need a shower after that theory. Ewwwww.


lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?
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Reply #34 posted 05/07/09 10:57am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:




I need a shower after that theory. Ewwwww.


lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?




...or Da Vinci in drag? Heehee. Another rumor.
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Reply #35 posted 05/07/09 10:58am

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NDRU said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




I need a shower after that theory. Ewwwww.


lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?


I heard they finally figured out the real-life identity of Mona Lisa, just last year!
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Reply #36 posted 05/07/09 10:59am

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heartbeatocean said:

NDRU said:



lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?


I heard they finally figured out the real-life identity of Mona Lisa, just last year!



Really wow!!!I gotta look that up.
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Reply #37 posted 05/07/09 11:03am

MIGUELGOMEZ

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NDRU said:



lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?


I heard they finally figured out the real-life identity of Mona Lisa, just last year!


Her identity.

Lisa Gherardini, a member of a minor noble family of rural origins. She later married a wealthy Florentine silk merchant, Francesco del Giocondo.
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Reply #38 posted 05/07/09 11:06am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

NDRU said:



lol I know, people love to read into that painting. It's most likely just a picture of a woman, right?




...or Da Vinci in drag? Heehee. Another rumor.
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lol yeah I have heard that too
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Reply #39 posted 05/07/09 2:15pm

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NDRU said:

heartbeatocean said:



Yes, that's my own observance. But the movie does emphasize that there is something peculiar about Golden Gate Bridge suicides...because it is such a beautiful, iconic place. And there is a collective element too, the idea of people dying together there. The act is full of irony.


I wonder if there's a natural pull to it as well. When I'm up there it's a weird feeling, like I can feel myself going over. It's hard to not imagine it, sick as that sounds. If I was more unstable, those feelings might be harder to ignore. Of course I only go to the bridge with tourists, not because I'm suicidal, so your question still stands--specifically, what brings a suicidal person to the bridge?

But there are stories of certain objects causing strange reactions. Like people attacking the Mona Lisa, for example, because it causes a psychological crisis inside them.

These iconic places/things are magnets for us & since we tend to not see them every day (maybe we see the bridge every day but we don't walk it every day) it causes extreme reactions in people, like when they see Sanjaya in person.
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oh that's really interesting hmmm
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Reply #40 posted 05/07/09 2:17pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

heartbeatocean said:



I heard they finally figured out the real-life identity of Mona Lisa, just last year!


Her identity.

Lisa Gherardini, a member of a minor noble family of rural origins. She later married a wealthy Florentine silk merchant, Francesco del Giocondo.


i always thought it was old leonardo himself, in drag biggrin
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Reply #41 posted 05/07/09 2:57pm

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I saw a documentary about this.
They are thinking about making the railing higher so that people
can not do this anymore.

Depression is a treatable medical condition.
For more information you can go to www.depression.com
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Reply #42 posted 05/07/09 3:07pm

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Only on the org can we start out talking about Golden Gate Bridge Suicides and end with Leonardo Da Vinci in drag.....
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Reply #43 posted 05/07/09 3:17pm

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matthewgrant said:

NDRU said:



I wonder if there's a natural pull to it as well. When I'm up there it's a weird feeling, like I can feel myself going over. It's hard to not imagine it, sick as that sounds. If I was more unstable, those feelings might be harder to ignore. Of course I only go to the bridge with tourists, not because I'm suicidal, so your question still stands--specifically, what brings a suicidal person to the bridge?

But there are stories of certain objects causing strange reactions. Like people attacking the Mona Lisa, for example, because it causes a psychological crisis inside them.

These iconic places/things are magnets for us & since we tend to not see them every day (maybe we see the bridge every day but we don't walk it every day) it causes extreme reactions in people, like when they see Sanjaya in person.
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oh that's really interesting hmmm

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Learned something new.
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Reply #44 posted 05/07/09 4:51pm

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Depression is a treatable medical condition.
For more information you can go to www.depression.com


thanks for that
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Reply #45 posted 05/07/09 4:57pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Only on the org can we start out talking about Golden Gate Bridge Suicides and end with Leonardo Da Vinci in drag.....


lol indeed
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Reply #46 posted 05/07/09 10:11pm

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like when they see Sanjaya in person.



lol
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Reply #47 posted 05/07/09 11:17pm

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i suppose a lot of people died while building and rebuilding it....lol
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Reply #48 posted 05/08/09 9:19am

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Wow that is quite sad and yet on the flip side it's disturbing because what kind of person does it take to sit there and film a suicide... neutral


Maybe so, but the film is a philosophical inquiry. I could ask that about myself...what kind of person does it take to sit there and watch multiple suicides on film?

The film also aimed to be a public service announcement on the subject of suicide, which is often treated as unspeakable and swept under the rug. The filmmaker was making a case to build a barrier on the Golden Gate Bridge. If you've been there, you know how easy it is to jump over the four foot railing, an act that can easily be done on impulse.

I know someone who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and died. And another friend of mine took his life a few months after I saw the movie. Though harshly disturbing and unforgettable as the movie is, I was glad I saw it. In some way, it helped me cope with the experience by presenting a platform for dialogue and giving me a glimpse into the minds of the suicidal.

Not to mention, the quality of filmmaking in this movie is profound -- on a purely cinematic level. It asks many questions about the ethics of documentary.


True I hear what ur saying and it is quite a depressing subject for peeps to watch and the filmaker to cover for his reasons but there is a clear message about understanding humans with broken spirits at an absolute crisis point. As clear as the message is and necessary for many it is as you say disturbing to watch.

Sorry about your friend.

I've heard time and again that drowning is meant to be a peaceful way of dying but I would think that couldn't be until the euphoric stage from the total lack of oxygen. Prior to that I would say it would be so traumatic and terrifying. neutral
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Reply #49 posted 05/08/09 9:29am

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i shouldnt have watched that
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Reply #50 posted 05/08/09 9:44am

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you'd think they'd have people monitoring for that stuff...

if i saw someone on the verge, i'd approach them and try to start a friendly conversation.


Agreed. I would call 911 first, then approach the person and try to find out what is going on in their life, and why they want to just end it all. I would feel terrible if I saw someone looking like they wanted to end their life, and if I didn't reach out to help them, then saw them on the news, saying that they had jumped off the bridge and died. That would haunt me for the rest of my life.
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Reply #51 posted 05/08/09 9:47am

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Okay, why did the Tom Petty song "Free Falling" start playing in my head while I watched this video? omg boxed
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #52 posted 05/08/09 10:03am

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They could market it as a scenic ride..lol
All you others say Hell Yea!! woot!
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Reply #53 posted 05/08/09 10:08am

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PanthaGirl said:

heartbeatocean said:



Maybe so, but the film is a philosophical inquiry. I could ask that about myself...what kind of person does it take to sit there and watch multiple suicides on film?

The film also aimed to be a public service announcement on the subject of suicide, which is often treated as unspeakable and swept under the rug. The filmmaker was making a case to build a barrier on the Golden Gate Bridge. If you've been there, you know how easy it is to jump over the four foot railing, an act that can easily be done on impulse.

I know someone who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and died. And another friend of mine took his life a few months after I saw the movie. Though harshly disturbing and unforgettable as the movie is, I was glad I saw it. In some way, it helped me cope with the experience by presenting a platform for dialogue and giving me a glimpse into the minds of the suicidal.

Not to mention, the quality of filmmaking in this movie is profound -- on a purely cinematic level. It asks many questions about the ethics of documentary.


True I hear what ur saying and it is quite a depressing subject for peeps to watch and the filmaker to cover for his reasons but there is a clear message about understanding humans with broken spirits at an absolute crisis point. As clear as the message is and necessary for many it is as you say disturbing to watch.

Sorry about your friend.

I've heard time and again that drowning is meant to be a peaceful way of dying but I would think that couldn't be until the euphoric stage from the total lack of oxygen. Prior to that I would say it would be so traumatic and terrifying. neutral


I used to tell people that if I were ever going to kill myself, I would jump off the Golden Gate Bridge. I just remembered this yesterday from all this talk. I think I thought it would be spectacular and fun. boxed Now after seeing the movie, I can't believe I would ever think that. How mortifying. But indicative of the sort of universal attraction it offers.
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Reply #54 posted 05/08/09 10:16am

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psychodelicide said:

sinisterpentatonic said:

you'd think they'd have people monitoring for that stuff...

if i saw someone on the verge, i'd approach them and try to start a friendly conversation.


Agreed. I would call 911 first, then approach the person and try to find out what is going on in their life, and why they want to just end it all. I would feel terrible if I saw someone looking like they wanted to end their life, and if I didn't reach out to help them, then saw them on the news, saying that they had jumped off the bridge and died. That would haunt me for the rest of my life.


It's so common, they have emergency suicide medics on call near the toll. They do monitor and prevent many jumps. The coast guard is also quite active on the water below. I mean, it happens VERY often.

Many people interviewed in the movie were witnesses. It's horrifying. There is a group of people that goes out to the bridge to try to talk to people and prevent suicides. I had a co-worker that did that. They found out on the internet that a bunch of people planned to do it on the same day. People fly from all over the world just to kill themselves in this place.
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Reply #55 posted 05/08/09 10:17am

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2freaky4church1 said:

They could market it as a scenic ride..lol


bingo!
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Reply #56 posted 05/08/09 5:17pm

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heartbeatocean said:

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Agreed. I would call 911 first, then approach the person and try to find out what is going on in their life, and why they want to just end it all. I would feel terrible if I saw someone looking like they wanted to end their life, and if I didn't reach out to help them, then saw them on the news, saying that they had jumped off the bridge and died. That would haunt me for the rest of my life.


It's so common, they have emergency suicide medics on call near the toll. They do monitor and prevent many jumps. The coast guard is also quite active on the water below. I mean, it happens VERY often.

Many people interviewed in the movie were witnesses. It's horrifying. There is a group of people that goes out to the bridge to try to talk to people and prevent suicides. I had a co-worker that did that. They found out on the internet that a bunch of people planned to do it on the same day. People fly from all over the world just to kill themselves in this place.

I'm glad that they're taking this approach of intervening.
That could make a difference if they could just reach out and care enough to place the workers on the bridge there.
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