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Problem.... Ok so I'm moving...
...But I have this 'ere new neighbour in the flat next to mine who keeps hammering on the door at silly hours of the morning/night shouting for me to open the door cause I'm hammering on his??? and throwing things against the wall He clearly has mental health issues.. and IMO should be living in some supported accomodation. Now bearing in mind I aam moving out shortly, should I report this matter or should I leave it to the next poor bugger who moves in! I think I know what I'm going to do... I don't want to cause this clearly troubled guy more angst. However, bearing in mind he tried getting into my place tonight he could pose a threat to others. Opinions please. wacky edit [Edited 4/27/09 17:26pm] | |
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File a police report. | |
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ThreadBare said: File a police report.
I think that might be a bit strong in the first instance... ...Maybe somehow getting some social support for him would be more appropriate... ...I can handle him... but others may not be so tolerant. | |
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When exactly are you moving out??
If it's interfering with your sleep for instance, I would report it to the manager of your flat. If you can put up with it till you move out, then that's up to you. Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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Steadwood said: ThreadBare said: File a police report.
I think that might be a bit strong in the first instance... ...Maybe somehow getting some social support for him would be more appropriate... ...I can handle him... but others may not be so tolerant. OK, but you also said He clearly has mental health issues.. and IMO should be living in some supported accommodation. ... bearing in mind he tried getting into my place tonight he could pose a threat to others.
I'm not sure reporting it to the landlord will do any good -- they'll likely refer you to the police. | |
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luv4u said: When exactly are you moving out??
If it's interfering with your sleep for instance, I would report it to the manager of your flat. If you can put up with it till you move out, then that's up to you. In a week or so It's what I was thinking, but I'm open to suggestions ...Studying for year 2 exams and assessments aint helping | |
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ThreadBare said:[quote] Steadwood said: OK, but you also said He clearly has mental health issues.. and IMO should be living in some supported accommodation. ... bearing in mind he tried getting into my place tonight he could pose a threat to others.
I'm not sure reporting it to the landlord will do any good -- they'll likely refer you to the police. That could be true | |
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Steadwood said: luv4u said: When exactly are you moving out??
If it's interfering with your sleep for instance, I would report it to the manager of your flat. If you can put up with it till you move out, then that's up to you. In a week or so It's what I was thinking, but I'm open to suggestions ...Studying for year 2 exams and assessments aint helping Is it possible to study elsewhere in your flat where it's more quieter?? Or another alternative would be studying in a library or a friends place or at school?? Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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Steadwood said: ThreadBare said: I'm not sure reporting it to the landlord will do any good -- they'll likely refer you to the police. That could be true Keep in mind that they are taking money from him or from a caretaker, too. They might already know about him having some mental issues. You might want to tell them of your police report, if/once you file it. | |
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luv4u said: Steadwood said: In a week or so It's what I was thinking, but I'm open to suggestions ...Studying for year 2 exams and assessments aint helping Is it possible to study elsewhere in your flat where it's more quieter?? Or another alternative would be studying in a library or a friends place or at school?? It's too small ...The flat I mean Ahem | |
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U should say something to ur landlord...especially if you think hes a threat. At least he will then know that the new tenant's are legit if they make a complaint. | |
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Steadwood said: luv4u said: Is it possible to study elsewhere in your flat where it's more quieter?? Or another alternative would be studying in a library or a friends place or at school?? It's too small ...The flat I mean Ahem And what about my other suggested alternatives?? Well??? Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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ThreadBare said: Steadwood said: That could be true Keep in mind that they are taking money from him or from a caretaker, too. They might already know about him having some mental issues. You might want to tell them of your police report, if/once you file it. I may make enquiries with them tomorrow and see what their response is... not just verbal, but in their actual actions as well. | |
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ocean said: U should say something to ur landlord...especially if you think hes a threat. At least he will then know that the new tenant's are legit if they make a complaint.
That is also true ...Why can't life be simple? | |
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I agree with Threadbare.
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luv4u said: Steadwood said: It's too small ...The flat I mean Ahem And what about my other suggested alternatives?? Well??? oops... sorry School is 27 miles away ..I need my own space for study... ... I know... I'm cranky | |
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ocean said: U should say something to ur landlord...especially if you think hes a threat. At least he will then know that the new tenant's are legit if they make a complaint.
Agreed. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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wildgoldenhoney said: I agree with Threadbare.
I might do both | |
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psychodelicide said: ocean said: U should say something to ur landlord...especially if you think hes a threat. At least he will then know that the new tenant's are legit if they make a complaint.
Agreed. I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish | |
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Steadwood said: psychodelicide said: Agreed. I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish Nancy has enough on her plate. Don't scare her Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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Steadwood said: psychodelicide said: Agreed. I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Steadwood said: psychodelicide said: Agreed. I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish | |
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luv4u said: Steadwood said: I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish Nancy has enough on her plate. Don't scare her It's okay, it's kind of a running joke on here between Steadwood and myself. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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luv4u said: Steadwood said: I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish Nancy has enough on her plate. Don't scare her She's eating her neighbour??? ... I've heard of Spanish ommlette but that's crazy ... good with pepper and a bit of cheese ;smile: | |
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ThreadBare said: Steadwood said: I think he might be related to your Spanish neighbour... but he doesn't have a dog... or speak Spanish RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Steadwood said: luv4u said: Nancy has enough on her plate. Don't scare her She's eating her neighbour??? ... I've heard of Spanish ommlette but that's crazy ... good with pepper and a bit of cheese ;smile: Steadwood, you crack me up! RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: Steadwood said: She's eating her neighbour??? ... I've heard of Spanish ommlette but that's crazy ... good with pepper and a bit of cheese ;smile: Steadwood, you crack me up! You are Humpty Dumpty? | |
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I think he's gone to sleep now
DON'T ANYONE DARE KNOCK ON HIS DOOR!!!...oops: | |
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in the news tonight a new tenant in (someplace by blackpool) was sent to hospital with undetermined injuries after opening her door to her next door neighbor... police say the man was highly agitated and had hit her unconscious by the time they arrived...
be safe yourself too he might be a perfectly wonderful neighbor if he's on his meds. but landlords need to know what goes on at night, the new tenant should be alerted and most of all tell the police. tell them you think he has mental health issues might pose a risk to self or others and that you didn't know who else to call. | |
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emm said: in the news tonight a new tenant in (someplace by blackpool) was sent to hospital with undetermined injuries after opening her door to her next door neighbor... police say the man was highly agitated and had hit her unconscious by the time they arrived...
be safe yourself too he might be a perfectly wonderful neighbor if he's on his meds. but landlords need to know what goes on at night, the new tenant should be alerted and most of all tell the police. tell them you think he has mental health issues might pose a risk to self or others and that you didn't know who else to call. Crikey.. That's where I'm going I'll get onto this in the morning.. Ya never can tell ... can ya? | |
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