But what's funny is, is how some of y'all don't want to place ANY accountability on her. None. And that's one of the prime reasons these sorta things happen. Some of you will say she lied but you won't hold her accountable for making an unwise decision to begin with? That shit makes no sense.

MuthaFunka said:

Huh?

MuthaFunka said:

You make no sense. What is your definition of her "holding herself accountable" in that situation? HOW DOES SHE DO THAT?.

JustErin said:

Just what I said: Everytime you go to these rooms with these unknown men, you're telling us that you know EXACTLY what's gonna happen each and every time?

MuthaFunka said:

Wise or unwise, she doesn't deserve to be raped nor should she be blamed for it. Woman kind is reduced to Jody Foster in the Accused the way you explain things. It's sickening.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Dude, if you honestly don't know...then you're not equipped to discuss this with me. For real.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'll make a deal with you - If you can show me where I said "She deserved to be raped" I'll delete my account. If you can't, then you delete YOUR account. Deal?

MuthaFunka said:

You don't know exactly what is going to happen to you EVER



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Oh My God! He dared to walk in the crosswalk. Now he's dead. He needs to take responsibility!



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MuthaFunka said:

I don't know. That's why I'm asking you to define what you mean by she needs to hold herself accountable. How does she do that. Define it for me. And don't take the pussy way out by doing what you just did. Educate me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

And that's the problem. You REALLY don't and I doubt you'll ever know the point of all this.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Actually this guy did not die.

Graycap23 said:

Well all the better for him to hold himself accountable for his actions!

MuthaFunka said:

Exactly as I predicted

Graycap23 said:

HE PARALYZED? BRAIN DAMAGED? RICH OFF THE LAWSUIT AT LEAST?

MuthaFunka said:

No. Where did I say that?

JustErin said:

I never said you said that. I just said you don't know what's gonna happen when you go to a strange man's room. And you agree, because you don't. So why INCREASE your chances of something bad happening to you when you could avoid the situation altogether?

DesireeNevermind said:

If I remember correctly, he was not even injured.

Graycap23 said:

No, what Soopa's saying is: Desiree had the same exact chance of being sexually assaulted that night, whether she stayed in her hotel room or wther she went to Mike's room. The chances were the exact same. Going to a stranger's hotel room at 3am made no bit of a difference because that night she was gonna get sexually assaulted wherever she was.

MuthaFunka said:

That is not what I said. You are putting the oness on the woman, making it all about her. Women can be as careful as possible and still get raped. The issue is that a woman, no matter if she has bad judgement or not, has ALL RIGHTS to say no and the responsibility is on the man for perpetrating a crime on her.

DesireeNevermind said:

Ummmm, Mike Tyson, "harmless???" He made his living beating mofos down and had confessed to hitting his wife on national tv. I wouldn't use the word harmless to describe that ear chomping nut.

As for Prince, sure I'd go but I got a good 50 pounds and 4 inches on that lil nucca so he would be more at risk of being sexually assaulted by ME.

Oh, and in THIS case she had been flirting with him all day and he had been saying nasty shit to her all day at the pageant rehearsal. She admitted to this. So I'm STILL calling "bullshit" on her going up to conversate with that crazy muthafucka at 3 in tha morning.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Nope. Wrong. That's pretty much what you said "It can happen anywhere".

MuthaFunka said:

How about we deal with the root of the problem instead of "avoiding situations"?

But no one ever wants to do that, do they?

SCNDLS said:

now now... i wont say she was flirting. i saw the rehearsal vidz and she was just being that shy girl all amped cuz ole Mikey boy was paying attention to her. There were plenty other more attractive girls there who let their adoration be fully known. I read where someone had told him to stay away from her cuz she was a "good girl" which translates to virgin and you know thats gonna put a mofo like Mike in bull heat! While I don't condone her or anyone going to a man's, no wait, an athlete's room at 3 am unchaperoned, I still dont think she brought the rape on herself. Mike was gonna get him some that night from somebody. She just happened to be there and its terrible what happened to her. I mean the police reports said he bit her pussy in addition to raping her!!! WTF?

SCNDLS said:

Yeah, they can almost pass for "the harmless twins":

JustErin said:

Ok, so how do we end sexual assualt?

MuthaFunka said:

Prince is not physically capable of rape?

MuthaFunka said:

It all starts with how we are raising our boys.

DesireeNevermind said:

But how do you know any of that? Based on what? And she just didn't "happen to be there" - she WENT there and that's how she "happened" there.

JustErin said:

Show me where I said that.

DesireeNevermind said:

They had interactions that were not on that brief film. I don't believe anyone brings a rape on themselves, but in this case I don't believe she was raped at ALL. Besides, how can you be a virgin if you accused a former boyfriend of rape??? Nuthin' but game.