MuthaFunka said:

You had ho's over! Same thing in context of a broad falsely accusing you of rape!

ok... I think I might sound crazy.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

And yet and STILL you haven't figured all this out yet!

MuthaFunka said:

You're obsessed with the hotel part eh?

You admitted to having one night stands with a stranger. Where it happens makes no difference.

peacenlovealways said:

peacenlovealways said:

I'm sure you didn't mean all but men for the most part have no idea what it is to have to live your life aware of the possibility of defense against a man at all times. As a gay man I understand this well.

MuthaFunka said:

Nooooo


well alright

MuthaFunka said:

I wish we were being judged by professors and language experts. You'd surely get an F!

JustErin said:

Hotel's are kinda INFAMOUS for these sorta things taking place. Plus, I'm a man...my risk as being sexually assaulted by woman is EXTREMELY FUCKING LOW compared to women being assulated by men...but hey, don't let THAT FACT keep y'all from "being grown" .

DesireeNevermind said:

MuthaFunka said:

A woman's risk of assualt can happen anytime, anywhere, anyplace. Even in her home.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Trust me, bruh...We wouldn't even be in the same classes...Mine would have windows.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

No, Supa. That only happens in hotels with stangers.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Right, because Desiree didn't increase her chances of being assaulted in no way, shape or form...it's NORMAL to go to strange men's hotel rooms at 3am. People that don't see that are just snobs!

MuthaFunka said:

I understand what you're saying, but I wouldn't term it as her being responsible in any way for what happened. I would just call it stupid.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

True....especially when they make it up. (in this case)

MuthaFunka said:

That says a lot about men, doesn't it. And like it was said here, women can be sexually assaulted everywhere.

But come on y'all. She probably thought he was trustworthy. Don't all fans think their idols are harmless? How many of you wouldn't hesitate to go to Prince's hotel room at 3 in the AM?

Look at how many people dogged Givens. This girl probably thought Mike was getting a raw deal all around and that he was nothing but a misunderstood gentleman. When this story broke there was talk that she didn't really want to go but her friends kept egging her on and Mike kept calling and begging her to come. Maybe she felt pressure.

Graycap23 said:

I posted the new documentary last week. It's been online for some time

Serious said:

And don't forget. Let's place some of the blame on the woman for being there in the first place. Woman should just not be around strange men alone because that's what can happen. Let's not try to change men's attitude towards women in the first place. No, let's just continue to just say, "well, that's just the way things are" and leave it at that.

I. LOVE. THIS. THREAD !

violator said:

She's resonsible for her actions. She went there. Mike didn't force her. She made a bad decision. She needs to hold herself accountable for that bad decision.

MuthaFunka said:

It was not a bad decision, she was not raped and she got paid. Sounds like a good decsion from where I'm sitting.

Serious said:

Yeah, it says "Men sexually assault women more than women sexually assault men" - Now, KNOWING this, why would a woman PUT HERSELF IN THAT SITUATION TO WHERE THAT STATISTIC IS AMPLIFIED? Makes no sense. Shows very poor judgment on that woman's part.

DesireeNevermind said:

Oh fuck! Yeah, because ALL STRANGERS are trustworthy. In fact, that's the first thing that comes to mind when I come across a stranger. Especially Mike Tyson . And if she went there due to peer pressure, then she's REALLY dumb.

MuthaFunka said:

You're assuming she knew what the hell was gonna happen (rape).

What is "accountablity"? Does she not file rape charges? Ce la vie? Que Sera Sera. What the hell is your problem? I know you're not alone with this lunacy but goddamn.

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JustErin said:

Oh, so you know ALL THE TIME what's gonna happen when you're in a hotel room with a strange man?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Dawg, you have absolutely no sense of what you just said. You just said she was accountable for "filing rape charges" - WTF? That makes NO SENSE. At all. Think about that and see why it doesn't make any sense. Wow!

DesireeNevermind said:

EXFUKINZACTLY