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WHY IS IT EASIER TO FANTASIZE ABOUT/WITH THE PERSON YOU AREN'T WITH? anythoughts?  | |
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oh so i have to impress you or post a half naked picture to get a response huh?  | |
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Cuz what's the point in fantasizing about attainable reality?  | |
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SirPsycho said: oh so i have to impress you or post a half naked picture to get a response huh?
So where is the picture???  | |
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sexyone said: SirPsycho said: oh so i have to impress you or post a half naked picture to get a response huh?
So where is the picture???  | |
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Ok probably because if we are not with them we don't know what they are really like so we can fantasise them into what WE want ..whereas if ur with them...u know what they are....(which may or may not live up to the fantasy) | |
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makes sense
i just wanted to hear people share- since it was on my mind | |
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I must be one of very few peeps then that does actually fantasize about current lovers. I find it very stimulating and strangers really don't do it for me.  | |
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Why bother, just ask her to do whatever you are fantasizing about...works for me  | |
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ocean said: Ok probably because if we are not with them we don't know what they are really like so we can fantasise them into what WE want ..whereas if ur with them...u know what they are....(which may or may not live up to the fantasy)
thats it for me, the less i know about the object of my fantasy the better. | |
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PanthaGirl said: I must be one of very few peeps then that does actually fantasize about current lovers. I find it very stimulating and strangers really don't do it for me.
I agree I am not into fantasy over intangables  | |
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Some reasons include:
> You're a freak, your partner is not, and the person u're not with will be down for any and everything sexually whereas your current partner's sex is jus blah. > The emotional connection between u and the outside person is stronger than u and your partner's connection. > You've gotten too comfortable with the fact that your partner is always there, ready, willin and able, especially if y'all stay together or are neighbours. [Edited 4/21/09 7:32am] I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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JayJai said: Some reasons include:
> You're a freak, your partner is not, and the person u're not with will be down for any and everything sexually whereas your current partner's sex is jus blah. > The emotional connection between u and the outside person is stronger than u and your partner's connection. > You've gotten too comfortable with the fact that your partner is always there, ready, willin and able, especially if y'all stay together or are neighbours. [Edited 4/21/09 7:32am] All i know is i wish your avatar picture was bigger  What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: JayJai said: Some reasons include:
> You're a freak, your partner is not, and the person u're not with will be down for any and everything sexually whereas your current partner's sex is jus blah. > The emotional connection between u and the outside person is stronger than u and your partner's connection. > You've gotten too comfortable with the fact that your partner is always there, ready, willin and able, especially if y'all stay together or are neighbours. [Edited 4/21/09 7:32am] All i know is i wish your avatar picture was bigger naughty boy  I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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ocean said: Ok probably because if we are not with them we don't know what they are really like so we can fantasise them into what WE want ..whereas if ur with them...u know what they are....(which may or may not live up to the fantasy)
zackalee 
responsibilities in relationships can alter sexual dynamics totally. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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i dunno...i fantasize about my man. An individualist is a man who lives for his own sake and by his own mind; he neither sacrifices himself to others nor sacrifices others to himself... | |
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endymion said: JayJai said: Some reasons include:
> You're a freak, your partner is not, and the person u're not with will be down for any and everything sexually whereas your current partner's sex is jus blah. > The emotional connection between u and the outside person is stronger than u and your partner's connection. > You've gotten too comfortable with the fact that your partner is always there, ready, willin and able, especially if y'all stay together or are neighbours. [Edited 4/21/09 7:32am] All i know is i wish your avatar picture was bigger Me too.  I'm sick and tired of the Prince fans being sick and tired of the Prince fans that are sick and tired! | |
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Because the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence. | |
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StephaniePlum said: Because the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence.
and sometimes it most definitely isI swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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JayJai said: StephaniePlum said: Because the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence.
and sometimes it most definitely isHell yeah. I'm sick and tired of the Prince fans being sick and tired of the Prince fans that are sick and tired! | |
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because the romance is fading and you have your eye out for something else? | |
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isan't that the idea of a fantasy, it's something not attainable, so u wish it were | |
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because it's much more fun? I can't even think of anything exciting to fantasize about the boring old fart I'm married to  | |
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ZombieKitten said: because it's much more fun? I can't even think of anything exciting to fantasize about the boring old fart I'm married to
 ..see u agree with me lol | |
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because you can't stand the person you're with? | |
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JerseyKRS said: because you can't stand the person you're with?
that too! | |
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ocean said: ZombieKitten said: because it's much more fun? I can't even think of anything exciting to fantasize about the boring old fart I'm married to
..see u agree with me lolanything and anyone ELSE is fair game | |
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i used to... then i bought this for my wife
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Most of the time, you don't fantasize about the one you're with because you know what you've got. It's the case of not knowing what you're getting, so you fantasize because you're curious. | |
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ocean said: Ok probably because if we are not with them we don't know what they are really like so we can fantasise them into what WE want ..whereas if ur with them...u know what they are....(which may or may not live up to the fantasy)
That's it. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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