I've decided to go by myself, too much worry when I'm with people, even if they are awesome

alphastreet said:

With all due respect to your choices, but lecturing someone for not going to church ? ... do you have a choice if you want or don't want to go and do you enjoy yourself going there ?
Being expected or forced to go, can imo put someone off eventually. Apologies if i got it wrong.

I was turned off too years ago with that kind of talk. I don't really hear it anymore, I go when I want to, even if it's once in 3 months or something like that. The fact I have self-motivation to go at any random time without being told is good enough for me, but some people just don't understand.

They were just saying that cause there was an important day, but to each her own

Okay, i understand. Thanks for your explanation

np lol

Hell, I wish we had a night like that in my area. Not only would I be all up in there, but I would prefer to go by myself so I could whore around and try to pick someone up for the night.

I will go myself the next time they have it too. I went to a club a few days ago with a few buddies and wasn't interacting very much anyways, I was in my own world and danced even better with a couple of guys who hit on me.

I don't know how to hit on guys, but I think I'm better at getting to know girls more.

alpha alpha
end of days
beta blocker
old dance craze

draw your blinds
dance in thin air
draw attention
every ware

all to geth er
on lonly street
shuffle your 2
special feet

put letter together and
watch it form
keeping all your
home fires warm

there are many baby
sometimes few
im one you can
always talk 2

Just walk up to one and ask him what his name is. When he tells you, then you tell him that you don't know why you even asked that question because it's not his name that you're interested in anyway. If he tells you he already has someone, tell him that they can come along too and join in. If he says he doesn't share, ask him did he ever have any home training and did his mama ever teach him how important it is to share. If he insults you or tells you to get lost, tell him it's his loss and he wasn't worthy of you anyway other than just 20 minutes of fun.
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aw shausler, that was nice

and lol vainandy, I'm not assertive enough but will try that