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PrintableMars23 said: He had a small penis, didn't you know then he was a terrible person? Why would you keep seeing such a horrible small dicked person?
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mayebelle81 said: I am so angry right now. I just found out that a guy that I was talking to and got a little close too had a girlfriend when I met him. I had asked him if he had a girlfriend or something, and he said or something. I said to myself maybe he thought that I was asking him if I was his girlfriend, but I just wanted to know if he was involved with another woman before I decided to take it to the next level, if you know what I mean. I should have went the other way, but I said let me give him the benefit of doubt. I just didn't want to believe that he would be kissing me if he was involved with someone else.
I would meet with this guy at his job and we would talk and kiss. I liked him a lot. He seemed like a nice guy and very smart. One day we went to the penthouse. We started to get hot and heavy, but I stopped it because I said to myself I don't really know him as well as I wish. I should slow down. I felt really bad about what I did and didn't call him for a while. He tried calling me a couple of times and would bring candy by my job. A couple of weeks ago, I let him know how I felt about the situation and he said he understood. He also said he is not the type of guy who disrespects women because he has a daughter. I called me to check on me after that and we've kind of been talking every since. Last night, he kept mentioning his girlfriend and I am thinking to myself when did this happen. So I asked him, "Is my seeing going to cause a problem?" He said, " I won't tell on myself!" As he was leaving my car I asked, "When I first met you, did you have a girlfriend?" He hesitated and said,"Yes." He closed the door and I said GOODBYE!! I said to myself, I don't deserve a man like him anyway and he had a little penis.(No we didn't have sex. We would always talk in my car, with the exception of the one time on the 28th floor.) I was so angry at myself and at him. I want to cry. I've had some much bad news lately. I can respect a man who is man enought to say, "I have a woman, but if you still wanna get down, that's up to you." Let me decide. Don't be a maricon mutha fucka and just keep stuff from me. Part of me wanted to believe that when I met him, he was a decent individual, but I guess I was wrong. What really hurts is that for many years, I didn't date black men. I wouldn't even look at them. I gave him a chance and what happens? I get dogged out. I am a good woman and knows how to treat a man and I don't understand what it is about black men and them mistreating me. When I see him on Monday, I will give him a peace of my mind and never contact him again. I have to say it. Once and for all, under no circumstances will I ever get involved with a black man EVER AGAIN!!! AND THIS TIME....I MEAN IT!!! only whale wieners for you huh? To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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CalhounSq said: mayebelle81 said: No. I just wish he had of told me. That's what bothered me. But after I stopped calling him, that's when Steve Harvey's book came out. I read it and it reminded me of a lot of things that I knew about men. I guess I was just giving myself a hard time and thinking I was the one in the wrong for not talking to him anymore. sometimes when you go through things, you have to let it out. I felt better after I talked about it. I have moved on already. I didn't have anyone to talk to about the situation so I posted here. Some respect a lot of the responses here and as for the people who want to name call.....YOU CAN KISS MY ASS AFTER I SHIT BECAUSE THAT WASN'T CALLED FOR!!!!  You are just problematic all around I'm sayin'! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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Why when some women get mad, they talk about the size of a man's penis? What kind of fucked up shit is that? | |
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Vendetta1 said: Why when some women get mad, they talk about the size of a man's penis? What kind of fucked up shit is that?
They're mad because they either wanted to fuck them bad OR got fucked real good by the dude and is mad because they won't be getting the goodies no mo'. surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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Vendetta1 said: Why when some women get mad, they talk about the size of a man's penis? What kind of fucked up shit is that?
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Vendetta1 said: Why when some women get mad, they talk about the size of a man's penis? What kind of fucked up shit is that?
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Genesia said: Vendetta1 said: Why when some women get mad, they talk about the size of a man's penis? What kind of fucked up shit is that?
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mayebelle81 said: SCNDLS said: So . . . if you're done dating brothas why in the Sam Hill is you reading a book written by one for dating advice???  When I posted my issue, I was very upset, about to cry. When I am angry, I get emotional and can go off the deep end. It happens. I doubt if I post here again because I prefer to have the opinions of real friends. It just means more to me. The first love was a black man and I left him because my family didn't approve of him. I regret it to this day, six years later. I still love this man and always will. I was just mad at the situation. I still support my people no matter what. I listen to Steve because he is smart and I know he would tell it like it is and that's what I needed to hear. He confirmed that I was right in not calling him back. I was the one second guessing myself. That's on me. People take things and over analyze it or take it out of context. sometimes i have a problem with conveying exactly what I mean. I am trying to learn to communicate better and more often. I realized my errors and have learned from my mistakes. Not only was I upset with him, but I was more upset with myself. I am okay now though. 
Ya know... I wasn't gonna take the obvious bait, but this moves me to. Sounds like you do have communication problems (among others), but might I suggest a productive approach wouldn't be to communicate better and more often, but to communicate better and less often... at least until you have better control of yourself? That is to say, keep your hands, lips and whatever else off of men as a mode of communicating to them how much you... uh... "like" them until you are more certain of who they are as respectable men, who you are as a respectable woman, and what exactly you present for one another. Likewise, forgo the urge to have public temper tantrums, showing your own shortcomings and dissing entire groups of people because you screwed up. It's not only offensive, but it makes you seem... "off." I appreciate your pain, but do some growing up... and at least until you do, I'd urge you to please not date any black men. We have enough problems. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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Lammastide said: mayebelle81 said: When I posted my issue, I was very upset, about to cry. When I am angry, I get emotional and can go off the deep end. It happens. I doubt if I post here again because I prefer to have the opinions of real friends. It just means more to me. The first love was a black man and I left him because my family didn't approve of him. I regret it to this day, six years later. I still love this man and always will. I was just mad at the situation. I still support my people no matter what. I listen to Steve because he is smart and I know he would tell it like it is and that's what I needed to hear. He confirmed that I was right in not calling him back. I was the one second guessing myself. That's on me. People take things and over analyze it or take it out of context. sometimes i have a problem with conveying exactly what I mean. I am trying to learn to communicate better and more often. I realized my errors and have learned from my mistakes. Not only was I upset with him, but I was more upset with myself. I am okay now though.
Ya know... I wasn't gonna take the obvious bait, but this moves me to. Sounds like you do have communication problems (among others), but might I suggest a productive approach wouldn't be to communicate better and more often, but to communicate better and less often... at least until you have better control of yourself? That is to say, keep your hands, lips and whatever else off of men as a mode of communicating to them how much you... uh... "like" them until you are more certain of who they are as respectable men, who you are as a respectable woman, and what exactly you present for one another. Likewise, forgo the urge to have public temper tantrums, showing your own shortcomings and dissing entire groups of people because you screwed up. It's not only offensive, but it makes you seem... "off." I appreciate your pain, but do some growing up... and at least until you do, I'd urge you to please not date any black men. We have enough problems.  | |
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Lammastide said: mayebelle81 said: When I posted my issue, I was very upset, about to cry. When I am angry, I get emotional and can go off the deep end. It happens. I doubt if I post here again because I prefer to have the opinions of real friends. It just means more to me. The first love was a black man and I left him because my family didn't approve of him. I regret it to this day, six years later. I still love this man and always will. I was just mad at the situation. I still support my people no matter what. I listen to Steve because he is smart and I know he would tell it like it is and that's what I needed to hear. He confirmed that I was right in not calling him back. I was the one second guessing myself. That's on me. People take things and over analyze it or take it out of context. sometimes i have a problem with conveying exactly what I mean. I am trying to learn to communicate better and more often. I realized my errors and have learned from my mistakes. Not only was I upset with him, but I was more upset with myself. I am okay now though.
Ya know... I wasn't gonna take the obvious bait, but this moves me to. Sounds like you do have communication problems (among others), but might I suggest a productive approach wouldn't be to communicate better and more often, but to communicate better and less often... at least until you have better control of yourself? That is to say, keep your hands, lips and whatever else off of men as a mode of communicating to them how much you... uh... "like" them until you are more certain of who they are as respectable men, who you are as a respectable woman, and what exactly you present for one another. Likewise, forgo the urge to have public temper tantrums, showing your own shortcomings and dissing entire groups of people because you screwed up. It's not only offensive, but it makes you seem... "off." I appreciate your pain, but do some growing up... and at least until you do, I'd urge you to please not date any black men. We have enough problems. I know you didn't mean that to be funny, but dammit that made me giggle!    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Mars23 said: He had a small penis, didn't you know then he was a terrible person? Why would you keep seeing such a horrible small dicked person?
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