Communication?

Love?

Sex?

kindness?

honesty?


For me it is all of the above... after 15 years it is still great!

I really don't know

ZombieKitten said:

Time 4 a new significant other

We compliment each other emotionally. There is an unexplainable comfort that we find with each other. total acceptance.
And his patience. I'm crazy












somethingelseedit
[Edited 4/3/09 17:50pm]

see for yourself:



i really liked how shy he was when we first started dating, and how he smiles a certain way only for me...he makes me feel beautiful, and in doing so, helps me to see what he sees...

he's nifty.

ocean said:

I reckon!

We're friends. We can talk about anything, and be silly together. We like all the same goofy things and have stupid private jokes. I can be myself and not worry about being judged.

chocolate1 said:

I agree... it is really important to be friends before dating if you want the relationship to last. I get this very warm mushy feeling when I look into his eyes.

For some reason, I like being treated like shit. So treat me like shit and you're a winner. Maybe the ladies will flock, then. Seems like I gotta compromise.

sammij said:

That's great...

heybaby said:

Agree!

Oh wait. I'm sorry. I thought it was speaking in hypothetical context. I guess in this case, these rules don't apply. Hell, it's not like I have options.
[Edited 4/3/09 19:39pm]

Everything?

pplrain said:

Yah def all those along with loyalty, trust, understanding, acceptance, desire, affection, laughter etc. He's beautiful and wonderful, a good match for me, literally 1 in 6 billion.

The absolutely fearless way he'll throw himself into a joke or a character in the name of being funny.

The way he looks when he's rushing out of the house and throwing some gunk in his hair, with no clue that he looks so fucking sexy I want to tear him apart.

His hands. The night we met, we went out dancing. During one song we got closer than we had been before, and his hand on my hip slipped under my shirt a little bit and touched my skin. Dude, that was a moment. We're married now and it still feels the same.

His brain.

His old-school, Italian-male dedication to "doing the right thing." Sometimes it drives me nuts, especially when it runs up against my touchy-feely, more complex worldview, but for the most part I find it wildly attractive.

We're extremely compatible in bed. It's the best I've ever had.

His brutal honesty. He never lies. Even when it would save my feelings.

The way he balances me out, and I him. So many of the things missing in me exist in him, and vice versa. That's what a partnership needs.

I am crazy about him.

PanthaGirl said:

Aren't we all?

FunkMistress said:

As the saying goes....

I feel so comfortable around him.
I can be Steph around him and not feel judged. He's the only one that knows my deepest secret. And I dont regret telling him.
He cooks for me! The way he talks to me. Everytime he kiss me it feels different.

I love his smile. The way he holds me when im sleep. His deep sexy voice makes me melt. His body is delicious.
The way he held me in the shower that day

My mother and grandmother adore him so much. When he's around my brothers..its the funniest thing ever The love they have for him is amazing.

The fact that we can lay in bed and watch cartoons. How our jokes are so damn hilarious..but only to us!

I love how we can go into a grocery store and get our own seperate carts and race

How we can be driving in the car and we always a "remember that time..." moment.


And the fact that we can sit in the house with pure silence..and feel so comfortable. I love him.

FunkMistress said:

so sweet!

me, on the other hand...im gonna have to agree with charlotte....i really dont know...we make pretty babies though hehehe

pplrain said:

That's awesome
what you have is rare and special

I don't have a significant other...
I kinda like it that way

I love my man's mind. He seems to know so much about a lot of different things and I think that's so hawt

Other than that, we "get" each other. I understand him and he understands me, and that says a lot being that I'm a Sagittaruis and he's a Gemini We can sit and talk for hours about all types of things; and on the flip side, we can sit and not say anything, without it being awkward. He can make me laugh like no one else. I also think that he makes me stronger. I can easily feel defeated, but he is the only person that can pull out the inner beast that makes me stronger. He has this great ability to see things in myself that I would NEVER see. We usually have different opinions on things, but are able to see and accept where the other person is coming from. I appreciate him for that and much more

Plus, he's a former football player and though he isn't in tip top shape, he still has those muscles He's taller than I am (he's 6'4" and I'm 5'3"), has big arms, big legs and big feet! YUMMY!




Smooches;)
[Edited 4/4/09 9:37am]

yes l agree with pplrain ....
all those things are the main points tht attracts a good relationships..

is communications
kindness
honesty
sex
love

also loyalty, trust, understanding, , desire,
more importantly its best to be friends to start with before u form a very good relationships tht how u make a relationships last longer in tht way u get to knw the person a bit more
and thats the way to build a strong foundations..
always compliments each other to make each other feel special ...
and always kiss and make up if u had a little tiff....
always have patience too...
always try and make time for each other ...

I like my bf's 9" cock the best.

If we had more intimacy/connection, I'd be INSANE over him... but the sex is great, I love his face, his body (ass in particular), & his sense of humor. & he snuggles

simple, uncomplicated, easy, smart, and he gives me the big one

Wowugotit said:

Gotta love that



Smooches;)

FunkMistress said:

Very cool.

His smile, his easy laugh, the way he's given my a whole new prospective to the world. His intellect, and patience. And his kiss.