You ever met someone that looked decent, but never really grabbed your interests and galvanized you into a state of awe or utter fascination? Yet, they seem overly infatuated with you. Once again, it's a touchy subject (Especially if the person might be AT LEAST slightly easy on the eyes). Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Now I know that sounds cliche, but it IS true. And there's someone for everyone out there; so many fish in the sea. Bla-Bla-BLAND! Well, this is something I was kind of inquisitive about. Not everyone can champion the acquisition of all the prerequisites that are contingently forthright for the qualification of beauty or grandeur. Hullabaloo and all that bugaboo nonsensical, ass-backwards zealousness aside; why not shrug your pride and give a different taste of novel symmetries and shapes a thorough observation. There are women who wouldn't be seen as "up-to-the-standard" of conventional beauty. However, I find that they have sharp features that really jump out at me and literally pull me in. Then there's those who have that arc you've seen on every other arbitrarily purported quintessential beauty's face; or those eyes that stay the same shape and never change form.
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i would take personality over looks any day

beauty fades. boring is forever (and seems like even longer than forever)

i would take personality over looks any day

beauty fades. boring is forever (and seems like even longer than forever)

Oh, the way they carry themselves can totally make a difference, too. I find that a person's humor and sense of style accentuates the idiosyncratic phrasings of their physical form. Sometimes, when you establish a rapport with someone (Whether intimate in terms of entangling your bodies in harmonious matrimony whilst basking in a sea of debauched passion or just in a platonic/gregarious fashion), if they leave a unique mark or pique your interests so well, you'll find that even their personality can enrich the uniqueness of their visually bestowing makeup. OY OY OY! I'm messing up, today. I'm not on-point like usual. Anyway, another digression ensues.

cborgman said:

Everyone's looks fade with age. So that means the boring look fades just as much as the beautiful look so the beautiful is always better looking than the boring.

Or something like that.

Anyway, I've liked plenty of average or 'boring' looking dudes.

There is a case for both sides. You don't fuck a personality.

3121 said:

no. you make love with a personality

You can only think about looks for so long in the heat of passion. If you want to invoke spiritual mantras and....touch, feel, smell, TASTE that person's complete biophysical edifice (Every quality mentioned above) whilst submerging with an entity of the same common bond for an ethereal or cathartic expedition into their minds.....you CAN'T just think "WOW....I love her ass! Great tits! DSL's are working and exerting it!" I mean, everything. From the flutter of her lips to the swaying of her hips. The way she calls your name; begging and pleading for pleasure or pain. The sparkle of her eyes as her lashes whisk with the wind. This is indeed true, cborgman. Wish I knew that feeling. But this isn't about me, anyway. Back to square one we go.

You can only think about looks for so long in the heat of passion. If you want to invoke spiritual mantras and....touch, feel, smell, TASTE that person's complete biophysical edifice (Every quality mentioned above) whilst submerging with an entity of the same common bond for an ethereal or cathartic expedition into their minds.....you CAN'T just think "WOW....I love her ass! Great tits! DSL's are working and exerting it!" I mean, everything. From the flutter of her lips to the swaying of her hips. The way she calls your name; begging and pleading for pleasure or pain. The sparkle of her eyes as her lashes whisk with the wind. This is indeed true, cborgman. Wish I knew that feeling. But this isn't about me, anyway. Back to square one we go.

Thus JustErin's post totally defining the type of guy that I relate to. That's totally ME! I mean....I wish it wasn't. But that's how it is.

i would take personality over looks any day

beauty fades. boring is forever (and seems like even longer than forever)

JustErin said:

Average or Boring Looking = <-----

cborgman said:

I have to agree with Mr. Cborgman.


I guess because I have never been one of those "WOW, look at her" kind of girls. Ppl usually fall for me once they get to know me.

I am sure there are a few naturally drop dead gorgeous ppl out there that have it all, brains, beauty and a great personality.

Mysterioso said:

I thought you always talk about how hot you are...?

cborgman said:

Everyone's looks fade with age. So that means the boring look fades just as much as the beautiful look so the beautiful is always better looking than the boring.

Or something like that.

Anyway, I've liked plenty of average or 'boring' looking dudes.

JustErin said:

guys can pull off boring better

i would take personality over looks any day

beauty fades. boring is forever (and seems like even longer than forever)

cborgman said:

Beauty doesn't just fade over time, it fades as you get to know somebody. If they're boring or unpleasant on the inside, it always colors whether I find them attractive on the outside. This doesn't mean I'm a 'good' person per say, and I don't presume to have any upstanding moral character, but probably just means I'd rather not have to deal with a person whose only going to annoy the fuck out of me in the end.
Of course, if you're really good looking, I'll fuck you--I just wont respect you in the morning.

As far as beauty fading in time, ultimately that's true, but some people look better as they age up to a point( to me anyways)---especially men. I've always found men in their 40's terribly attractive, perhaps because they often know where they are going in life. Younger men, especially gay ones might as well be teenage girls.

Imago said:

does me finding you so dreamy make me a teenage girl?