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PrintableFunkMistress said: I'd kill him.
I'd kill her. | |
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Honey said: FunkMistress said: I'd kill him.
I'd kill her. If the current relationship were healthy and both partners satisfied, there wouldn't be an affair. In other words, it ain't her fault. If it weren't her, it'd be someone else. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: Honey said: I'd kill her. If the current relationship were healthy and both partners satisfied, there wouldn't be an affair. In other words, it ain't her fault. If it weren't her, it'd be someone else. Exactly. | |
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yeah....no..... | |
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Genesia said: Honey said: I'd kill her. If the current relationship were healthy and both partners satisfied, there wouldn't be an affair. In other words, it ain't her fault. If it weren't her, it'd be someone else. So why risk jail time. | |
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i have an ex from over 9 years ago that still looks me up....seems he never gives up!  he's married now and everything, it frustrates my husband, he's had to tell him off more than a few times!  i have told the guy to give up, go away...move-on, but he doesn't seem to get it.  i can understand being curious and everything, but after you've been told a million times to move-on..... | |
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I hear y'all.  | |
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I'm in my 15th year exclusive relationship with my hubby.... no chance of that happening now.  | |
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I just found out that my ex was leading a double life while he was with me!
At least it explains the strange behaviour he had at the time. I wouldn't blame the other girl cuz I'm sure she didn't know either. And 3 years after breaking-up I don't see the use of making him endure an interrogatory. Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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MarySharon said: I just found out that my ex was leading a double life while he was with me!
At least it explains the strange behaviour he had at the time. I wouldn't blame the other girl cuz I'm sure she didn't know either. And 3 years after breaking-up I don't see the use of making him endure an interrogatory. Do you still talk to him? | |
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newpower99 said: Just want to get peoples take on this subject or if anyone had to deal with something similar . The return of your lovers ex boyfriend/girlfriend into their lives.
situation : Ive been with my man nearly a year and a half now. Before our relationship he was invoved with another guy (18 years old ..he was 37) and they lived together for about a year. There has been some contact between the two since we have been together but not alot. Until the last couple weeks. His ex has contacted him as he is feeling down on life and looking for people for support. So now they have been talking daily . He says hes trying to be like a father figure for him My man wants me to meet him and have us all hang out possibly on a regular basis. Something about all thing makes me uneasy. I dont want to be an ass because the kid is going through a rough time appearantly . But knowing that the two of them were once lovers and all of us just chilling out together is a little weird to me. I trust him and weve talked about it and Im being supportive about the whole situation even though im not particularly thrilled about it . A bit of background ... his ex would occationally contact him in the first few moths of OUR relationship asking him if he missed having sex with him. My man was upfront with me and said this was happening and buffed off any advances. So as a result of that something in the back of my mind question his ex motives now. So has anyone had to deal with exs coming back into you or your significant other lives and how did you feel about it handle it? This statement alone is enough for you to stand up and say HELL NO!  I wouldn't allow his ex anywhere near my man. It's not about you trusting your man, it's about you not trusting the ex. I would be very clear with my man about my feelings. If he loves and respects you, he would let that go fast. I don't see the need to have relationships with exes, unless you have children together  I'm sure the ex could find someone else to lean on for support. My personal opinion
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MsMisha319 said: newpower99 said: Just want to get peoples take on this subject or if anyone had to deal with something similar . The return of your lovers ex boyfriend/girlfriend into their lives.
situation : Ive been with my man nearly a year and a half now. Before our relationship he was invoved with another guy (18 years old ..he was 37) and they lived together for about a year. There has been some contact between the two since we have been together but not alot. Until the last couple weeks. His ex has contacted him as he is feeling down on life and looking for people for support. So now they have been talking daily . He says hes trying to be like a father figure for him My man wants me to meet him and have us all hang out possibly on a regular basis. Something about all thing makes me uneasy. I dont want to be an ass because the kid is going through a rough time appearantly . But knowing that the two of them were once lovers and all of us just chilling out together is a little weird to me. I trust him and weve talked about it and Im being supportive about the whole situation even though im not particularly thrilled about it . A bit of background ... his ex would occationally contact him in the first few moths of OUR relationship asking him if he missed having sex with him. My man was upfront with me and said this was happening and buffed off any advances. So as a result of that something in the back of my mind question his ex motives now. So has anyone had to deal with exs coming back into you or your significant other lives and how did you feel about it handle it? This statement alone is enough for you to stand up and say HELL NO! I wouldn't allow his ex anywhere near my man. It's not about you trusting your man, it's about you not trusting the ex. I would be very clear with my man about my feelings. If he loves and respects you, he would let that go fast. I don't see the need to have relationships with exes, unless you have children together I'm sure the ex could find someone else to lean on for support. My personal opinion
Nip it in the bud, now! Smooches;) Agreed. and he needs someone to lean on why not come to you? | |
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heybaby said: MarySharon said: I just found out that my ex was leading a double life while he was with me!
At least it explains the strange behaviour he had at the time. I wouldn't blame the other girl cuz I'm sure she didn't know either. And 3 years after breaking-up I don't see the use of making him endure an interrogatory. Do you still talk to him? Sort of. We didn't talk to each other for almost 2 years. We weren't allowed to anyway due to the fact I was pressing charges against him. Let say that we both had to get things out of our chests to find peace of mind and end this for good. Nowadays he's the one who calls and try to conctact me for small talks the way simple acquaintances do and I like it this way, at least he doesn't try to revive all the painful memories from the past. Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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Alej said: I can relate
Except *I'm* the ex and HE looked for me yeah, that shit isn't easy to deal with either  | |
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