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Thread started 12/08/02 12:35pm

IceNine

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Is it racist if a black person calls a white person "white boy" when arguing?

I only ask because someone called me "white boy" in an orgnote and I found it amusing as this person claims not to be a racist.

What do you think, is it racist or not?

It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?

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[This message was edited Sun Dec 8 13:30:46 PST 2002 by IceNine]
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Reply #1 posted 12/08/02 12:39pm

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Depends on my position. If its just a friend saying it - no problem. If I had a boss who was black and we had a professional distance - I'd find it offensive and disrespectful But mote the "boy" than the "white".
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Reply #2 posted 12/08/02 12:41pm

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IceNine said:

I only ask because someone called me "white boy" in an orgnote and I found it amusing as this person claims not to be a racist.

What do you think, is it racist or not?

OF COURSE NOT!!!
UNLEEESS:
he calls you a 'whiteboy' them punches you in the mouth.
cos any racist black man knows a whiteboy can't fight.
OR...
if he calls the 'whiteboy' a HONKY!!!
now that's RACIST.
OR,
if in the middle of the argument, he looks around
for a group of blacks, get their attention the yells.
"YOU HERE WHUT THIS 'WHITEBOY JUST SAID TO ME."
if you're white and you hear this... RUN!!!
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Reply #3 posted 12/08/02 12:43pm

IceNine

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soulpower said:

Depends on my position. If its just a friend saying it - no problem. If I had a boss who was black and we had a professional distance - I'd find it offensive and disrespectful But mote the "boy" than the "white".


It was certainly not a friend and the person used it as a derogatory term multiple times in the same orgnote... I think that the person is a racist.

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Reply #4 posted 12/08/02 12:45pm

AzureStar

IceNine said:

I only ask because someone called me "white boy" in an orgnote and I found it amusing as this person claims not to be a racist.

What do you think, is it racist or not?


If said jokingly... no. Otherwise, yes, I would take it as a racist comment.

What other reason would there be to call someone "white boy" while arguing?
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Reply #5 posted 12/08/02 12:47pm

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I remember when I lived in LA I was invited to a friends house (he was black) in the hood. There was a Foreman fight on that night and all family and neighbours were there, Mama cooked some Gumbo and we all sank out teeth in some homefried chicken.
We were watching the opening fight, some african american against an italian dude. People in the room got really excited. Its so funny, but it happened more than once that brothers watching the fight would shout out:" Dayum, white boy's gonna get his ass kicked!" They'd realize what they just said, look at me and repeat: "I mean, that ITALIAN dude's gonna get his ass kicked..."
Obviously there gotta be something wrong with that term. But honestly, it did not bother me lol
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Reply #6 posted 12/08/02 12:48pm

00769BAD

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IceNine said:

soulpower said:

Depends on my position. If its just a friend saying it - no problem. If I had a boss who was black and we had a professional distance - I'd find it offensive and disrespectful But mote the "boy" than the "white".


It was certainly not a friend and the person used it as a derogatory term multiple times in the same orgnote... I think that the person is a racist.

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tell the PUNKMOTHAFUCKA that you may be a 'whiteboy'
but you 'DOWN WITH' too many CONNECTED folks to be
hearin that shit...
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Reply #7 posted 12/08/02 12:49pm

IceNine

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soulpower said:

I remember when I lived in LA I was invited to a friends house (he was black) in the hood. There was a Foreman fight on that night and all family and neighbours were there, Mama cooked some Gumbo and we all sank out teeth in some homefried chicken.
We were watching the opening fight, some african american against an italian dude. People in the room got really excited. Its so funny, but it happened more than once that brothers watching the fight would shout out:" Dayum, white boy's gonna get his ass kicked!" They'd realize what they just said, look at me and repeat: "I mean, that ITALIAN dude's gonna get his ass kicked..."
Obviously there gotta be something wrong with that term. But honestly, it did not bother me lol


It wouldn't bother me at all among friends, but this was from someone who is decidedly not a friend. You know what I'm saying?
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Reply #8 posted 12/08/02 12:50pm

LaVisHh

Yes it is.

I tend to stay out of these types of discussions, mostly because the point is moot.

Any time something other than a person's name is used to communicate to, with, or about that person is racist. It may not be I hate you racist...but racist nevertheless.

The name the person goes by is the name that should be addressed.

The only time this is a difficult situation is when describing the appearance of a person. White/Yellow/Red/Black? Nobody is any of those things...but how would you describe a person's skin tone? I tend to say on the darker side, or medium skinned, or light-skinned...but I have been known to use white or black as a short-cut (although I don't feel good about it).

To summarize, I think it is whenever a name other than the person's name/handle/nick - of which is agreed upon by that person - is used, that makes it wrong - racist if color is used.

Thank you.

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Reply #9 posted 12/08/02 12:50pm

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Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile
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Reply #10 posted 12/08/02 12:53pm

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teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?
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Reply #11 posted 12/08/02 12:54pm

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IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?
Yep. No question.
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Reply #12 posted 12/08/02 12:56pm

AnotherLover2

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.
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Reply #13 posted 12/08/02 12:56pm

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IceNine said:


It wouldn't bother me at all among friends, but this was from someone who is decidedly not a friend. You know what I'm saying?


Well, sometimes it might come from an ignorant person, like in the case I have mentioned above.
But when the term is used for provocation it surely is racist.
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Reply #14 posted 12/08/02 12:58pm

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IceNine said:


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?



Hell yeah, it was racist in that context...
But I'd be even more offended being called "Texan" lol
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Reply #15 posted 12/08/02 1:04pm

AzureStar

It's sad how people are so quick to point out the color of ones skin when they are arguing.

What was wrong with just calling you a "Pussy Texan"?
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Reply #16 posted 12/08/02 1:07pm

LaVisHh

I think SP is George Bush's illegitimate son!


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Reply #17 posted 12/08/02 1:09pm

MrBliss

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?




yes






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Reply #18 posted 12/08/02 1:21pm

Lleena

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?
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Reply #19 posted 12/08/02 1:22pm

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That's what I thought... this person is clearly a racist although he/she claims not to be a racist.

The way I see it is this:

If you are a racist, just come out and admit it. What's the problem? You have the right to be a racist if you want to be one... it takes all kinds in this world... sweet, sour, mean, nice, etc.

Come on, confess.
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Reply #20 posted 12/08/02 1:23pm

AnotherLover2

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.
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Reply #21 posted 12/08/02 1:25pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.



racist

adj 1: based on racial intolerance; "racist remarks" 2: discriminatory especially on the basis of race or religion
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Reply #22 posted 12/08/02 1:26pm

MrBliss

soulpower said:



Hell yeah, it was racist in that context...
But I'd be even more offended being called "Texan" lol



lol




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Reply #23 posted 12/08/02 1:28pm

4LOVE

Calling you "whiteboy" isn't such a problem.If he calls you "cracka" he's looking for some chin music.But i guess
it would still depend on the situation.
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Reply #24 posted 12/08/02 1:30pm

IceNine

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4LOVE said:

Calling you "whiteboy" isn't such a problem.If he calls you "cracka" he's looking for some chin music.But i guess
it would still depend on the situation.


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"chin music!" I like it.

I thought that "fucking Texas white boy" was going a bit too far into racist territory, as was "white pussy."
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Reply #25 posted 12/08/02 1:30pm

Lleena

AnotherLover2 said:

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.


racism - belief in innate superiority of partucular race; antagonism towards members of different race based on this belief- Collins dictionary.

I don't hold the view that racism implies only action, racism can manifest itself in a multitude of ways, including verbal.
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Reply #26 posted 12/08/02 1:31pm

AnotherLover2

IceNine said:

AnotherLover2 said:

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.



racist

adj 1: based on racial intolerance; "racist remarks" 2: discriminatory especially on the basis of race or religion


Guess you're ignoring my greeting from before? lol Hell, ya go away for a coupla months and... rolleyes anyway--it was my opinion based on attending conferences on racism, and the so-called "professionals" definitions of the difference between racism and prejudice.
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Reply #27 posted 12/08/02 1:34pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

AnotherLover2 said:

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.



racist

adj 1: based on racial intolerance; "racist remarks" 2: discriminatory especially on the basis of race or religion


Guess you're ignoring my greeting from before? lol Hell, ya go away for a coupla months and... rolleyes anyway--it was my opinion based on attending conferences on racism, and the so-called "professionals" definitions of the difference between racism and prejudice.


I guess I missed the greeting... sad

Are you the REAL AnotherLover or another imitation?

Anyway, HELLO!

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BTW: the person who sent those orgnotes was a racist.
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Reply #28 posted 12/08/02 1:38pm

AnotherLover2

IceNine said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

AnotherLover2 said:

Lleena said:

AnotherLover2 said:

IceNine said:

teller said:

Only if the "white" part is a reflection on something other than your being white.

You are white, after all. smile


It was used in this way:

"I knew you were just a fucking Texas white boy..."
"You are just a pussy white boy..."

That sort of thing... would you say that the person who said this was a racist?


Hi, IceNine...

My opinion is that it's 'prejudiced' as opposed to 'racist'.


How?


Because racism implies action taken to prevent a person from obtaining priviledges, whereas prejudice is a state of mind and a way of thinking that may or may not involve action.



racist

adj 1: based on racial intolerance; "racist remarks" 2: discriminatory especially on the basis of race or religion


Guess you're ignoring my greeting from before? lol Hell, ya go away for a coupla months and... rolleyes anyway--it was my opinion based on attending conferences on racism, and the so-called "professionals" definitions of the difference between racism and prejudice.


I guess I missed the greeting... sad

Are you the REAL AnotherLover or another imitation?

Anyway, HELLO!

smile

BTW: the person who sent those orgnotes was a racist.


sigh Yes, I'm the "real" one. But based on the rumors and things I'm hearing, I'm tempted to disappear again. Geez!

Obviously, your Org Note admirer was using race to attempt to humiliate you.
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Reply #29 posted 12/08/02 1:41pm

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White IS actually a colour of the spectrum!

"Nigga", "Wigga", "Honkey" or "Nonkey" are not.

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There is no intent on behalf of the DreZone 2 apply any of the a4mentioned in a malicious or racist context.
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