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So good I feel like Dancin Dancin Dancin!!! I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite? WOOT! I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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quite a journey you've embarked on   She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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GurrLLL, you're still young and hot enough to snag a rich dude.
Stax is single! Just sayin' Oh, and I've missed you. Now you can add me to your myspace without fear of retribution: http://www.myspace.com/AsianBomb777 | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite? WOOT! Yes. I can't say I know what it feels like for this feeling to be a "new" thing (was a single mom at 18), but I do think you're right that your children will benefit more from learning self-reliance and sacrifice than from having fancy things handed to them. The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: TotalANXiousNESS said: I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite? WOOT! Yes. I can't say I know what it feels like for this feeling to be a "new" thing (was a single mom at 18), but I do think you're right that your children will benefit more from learning self-reliance and sacrifice than from having fancy things handed to them. Indeed 
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shanti0608 said: FunkMistress said: Yes. I can't say I know what it feels like for this feeling to be a "new" thing (was a single mom at 18), but I do think you're right that your children will benefit more from learning self-reliance and sacrifice than from having fancy things handed to them. Indeed
Raised by a single mom myself. Now your poor children will have to endure sharing their fancy toys with daddy.  | |
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So nice to read about your changes and growth
 I told you you could do this
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Imago said: shanti0608 said: Indeed
Raised by a single mom myself. Now your poor children will have to endure sharing their fancy toys with daddy. I know. Poor, poor thing. | |
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Thanx guys! I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite?  |
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Mach said: So nice to read about your changes and growth
I told you you could do this
I remember her posting how she could never do it/be like that. And I remember telling her that absolutely wasn't true. 
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CarrieMpls said: Mach said: So nice to read about your changes and growth
I told you you could do this
I remember her posting how she could never do it/be like that. And I remember telling her that absolutely wasn't true.
I'm so happy for you, lady.  | |
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YAY!! I'm glad you figured it out. Us wemens don't need a damn man!! | |
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To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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You guys.....
I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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Good for you.
(I'm moving too, as soon as I find a place.) | |
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CarrieMpls said: Mach said: So nice to read about your changes and growth
I told you you could do this
I remember her posting how she could never do it/be like that. And I remember telling her that absolutely wasn't true.
I'm so happy for you, lady. Thank You!!!! I love strong women! YAY! I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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FunkMistress said: TotalANXiousNESS said: I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite? WOOT! Yes. I can't say I know what it feels like for this feeling to be a "new" thing (was a single mom at 18), but I do think you're right that your children will benefit more from learning self-reliance and sacrifice than from having fancy things handed to them. Yeah. It sounds so logical to me now. It just didn't a few yrs ago. I don't how I finally got the sense knocked into me.  I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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Ace said: TotalANXiousNESS said: I just have to share how good it feels to depend on yourself for shit. Who knew??!!!!
It feels so good to have to work hard and struggle to get your shit straightned out. And I'm so grateful that I am teaching my daughter to depend on herself for stuff. Even with pangs of guilt here and there for decisions I've made and stuff my kids will do without....it's worth it to have such a feeling of freedom and accomplishment. I can't believe it!!!!! Why I EVER thought it was okay to teach my kids that you need to be stuck somewhere even if you're unhappy, I'll never know. Just so they would have a nice yard to play in, and the best sneakers on their feet. In the end, they'll be happier and more well adjusted without that stuff. Rite? I'm many many years younger than you remember.....I don't know who or what this is in reference to... I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: Ace said: I'm many many years younger than you remember.....I don't know who or what this is in reference to... It's a movie. Rent it and you'll understand. |
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this thread needs bikini pics Dani. | |
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I definately have been through that.
When I had to depend on someone, things always got pulled out from under me. When I pulled it together and did it on my own, it felt powerful.No one can take it away now. Congratulations!!! Your children have an awesome role model. Peace. Love. Prince | |
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