most extremely active women are only sexually active like 20days in a month and spend like 5 days in pms and then another like 6 days having their period.
here is the deal, it means no sex for every like 11 days in a month!
how then should a brother who likes to have it every night cope?
easy-get another chick with a different cycle! {nature's approval}

raveon2tnek said:

No sex for 11 days? Where are you getting your information? There's no better cure for PMS and cramps than getting laid, and sex on the period is fun if you don't mind the mess.

meow85 said:

I'd agree to all of this

nothing to make a headache and cramps go away faster than an orgasm or 2

is a must read. no human male or female is programmed to be monogamous
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ehuffnsd said:

Thank you. It's amazing how more people just don't understand this. Monogamy is just a rule in SOME societies and really is not a practical one.

Dayclear said:

I love this argument, i really wish people would just man up and say "i wanna fuck everything that moves" instead of blaming their own wants and desires on some "uncontrollable" force that isn't "their" fault

We're currently spending a lot of time looking after two nephews. One spends a lot of his time in our bedroom and sleeps in here at night. We haven't had sex, as such, in about two weeks and we may well go another two weeks without. It's not a massive deal though. I'm sure we can make up for it once we've more time to ourselves. I think that wait might even add something.

The period thing I don't think is a major issue, for a couple of reasons already stated by others. The 'nature's approval' thing is total bullshit as far as I'm concerned. Being faithful is easy when you love someone. I'd hate to be some horny twat trying to get in the pants of every girl. I couldn't find happiness in that. Creeping around behind the wife's back on the grounds of some spurious reasoning? No thanks, I'm where I am for a reason (or a thousand) and you won't find me in someone else's bed. I'd always rather be here, or else what business do I have marrying someone and telling them I'll devote my life to being with them?

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ehuffnsd said:

Thank you. It's amazing how more people just don't understand this. Monogamy is just a rule in SOME societies and really is not a practical one.

raveon2tnek said:

Then just fuck pregnant women!

GetAwayFromMe said:

mdiver said:

Yes I hate how people will use the 'it's natural' excuse about anything. What is most celebrated about humans is that we have the ability to go against what is considered natural, it's what differentiates us from animals. It's a terrible excuse to use.

Dayclear said:

Monogamy is a rule in THIS society as well.

it's simple, if you want to fuck everything that moves, just be honest about it and tell the other person. THAT is what I don't understand.

Vendetta1 said:

I don't understand why people cheat. Why can't people just be upfront with their partner and say they might no be strictly monogamous? Not everyone is going to be okay with that, but it's easy enough to find someone who is. As long as your honest about your motivations and actions and you've found someone who's cool with that, there's no need to cheat.

Arnotts said:

We ARE animals. Where's the pride in trying to seperate ourselves?

Fauxie said:

You make me swoon. Seriously.

Vendetta1 said:

ditto he gives me hope that not all people are evil cunts

evenstar3 said:

I can be an evil cunt too.

Arnotts said:

We ARE animals. Where's the pride in trying to seperate ourselves?

meow85 said:

We have different mentality and reasoning abilities. Physically of course we are animals of a sort, but we are different on emotional and mental levels. Claiming, "oh i cant help it" is a cop out, weak and just shows selfish tendencies that one does not want to take personal responsibility for. WEAK, in every way

mdiver said:

I see your point, but fighting nature for the sake of doing so, especially as some phoney means of proving our higher place over other animals, doesn't make any sense.

Whether you believe in creation or intelligent design or evolution, we are how we are because that's how we as a species has come to function best. Accepting our nature is a lot healthier than fighting it.

meow85 said:

So you think it is natural to be unfaithful?

raveon2tnek said:

What is wrong with you man? Scared of a little blood? If you are scared of a little red stuff you ain't man enough to be fuckin'

Sounds like an excuse to be an asshole to me

mdiver said:

Not necessarily, but I do think enforcing ideals of strict monogamy in the face of all mitigating circumstances is unnatural.

mdiver said:

Not necessarily, but I do think enforcing ideals of strict monogamy in the face of all mitigating circumstances is unnatural.

meow85 said:

No one can enforce monogamy on another and if you wish to accept excuses for lies and cheating then feel free.

meow85 said:

No one can enforce monogamy on another and if you wish to accept excuses for lies and cheating then feel free.

meow85 said:

No one can enforce monogamy on another and if you wish to accept excuses for lies and cheating then feel free.