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PrintableI'm entirely TOO 'middle of the roadish", and that's something about my personality I'd like to change  If you will, so will I | |
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I used to be all or nothing and it made me miserable. I gave everything for what I wanted and it threw me way out of balance. I went into debt, lost an ability to have a social life...
I AM MUCH HAPPIER BEING A REGULAR DRONE.  | |
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Mach said: 'All or Nothing' person ! In life, I am passionate and totally involved in a project / my work / my hobbies And with love and relationships, - passion, excitement, to be loved and to give love
'Middle of the Road' kind of person, I am happy to compromise, feel content, have no drama, no complaints, I am a bit of everything mentioned and I like it that way 
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All or nothing, and I'm currently having to mitigate that part of my nature, and it's really distressing.  | |
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Left of the Middle.... 
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All or nothing with the big things in life, but probably generally more middle of the road with most things. I like a dull, contented, drama-free life 99% of the time, but occasionally I'll be glad for some drama and a bit of a challenge to keep me on my toes - something I have to put all my effort into for a while in order to pull through.  | |
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evenstar3 said: All or nothing, and I'm currently having to mitigate that part of my nature, and it's really distressing.
Same here, still a long way to go...  Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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I don't identify strongly with either attitude
maybe that is called balance? | |
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Fauxie said: All or nothing with the big things in life, but probably generally more middle of the road with most things. I like a dull, contented, drama-free life 99% of the time, but occasionally I'll be glad for some drama and a bit of a challenge to keep me on my toes - something I have to put all my effort into for a while in order to pull through.
 99% of the time... that's quite a lot isn't it?  | |
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ZombieKitten said: I don't identify strongly with either attitude
maybe that is called balance? Yeah, something like that Sounds quite 'sorted'! | |
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PanthaGirl said: Left of the Middle....
I like that! | |
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thekidsgirl said: I'm entirely TOO 'middle of the roadish", and that's something about my personality I'd like to change
Maybe you could just die your hair purple or something, to start with! | |
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Jeffiner said: ZombieKitten said: I don't identify strongly with either attitude
maybe that is called balance? Yeah, something like that Sounds quite 'sorted'!and I think each thing applied appropriately, for example the amount of effort for end result should kind of match Like my dad's cousin he was having a yard sale, but on his way down the stairs the night before, he dropped 2 jigsaw puzzles, and then he and his son were up until 4 in the morning, doing the puzzles so they could be put back in each respective box, and were unable to sell them anyway even for 20 cents, because he'd written "one piece missing" on the box  instead of putting them all in one bag and saying 2 jigsaw puzzles, only $1
That was a lot of effort for NO GAIN, and he's like that with everything  | |
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I am definately all or nothing
if I want a man....it is all or nothing...nothing in between...none of this friends with benfits crap. But when I am angry...nothing can stop the all or nothing....you get the wrath (the ALL) and get crushed or out of my life forever. I am passionate on how I love and firey in distaste. | |
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Jeffiner said: PanthaGirl said: Left of the Middle....
I like that! | |
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I've seen the right side, i dont like it...
i've been on theleft side.....hard to stay up there.... ..whats a fella ta dew????? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Yep. All or nothing. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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CarrieMpls said: mdiver said: Well, if you don't mind me saying it comes down to embracing things. It is exciting to go all out, run fast,think fast and act fast, live on the edge. That is the great adrenaline/endorphine part of it that we thrive on. However there is a down side, sometimes things go tits up, sometimes one gets hurt, falls flat..etc. however we cant have the one without the other so we have to embrace that chance, in fact sometimes it is the chance of failure/getting hurt that makes us feel alive. The closeness of death or pain is what makes it so much fucking fun. Unfortunately until one realises that one is not really ready for the chase  That is SO not how I want to live my life. I don't need to get close to death to appreciate life.
I think we all have our own way of looking at things. That reminds me of some of my favorite Pulp lyrics:
"I was having a whale of a time until your uncle Psychosis arrived. Why do we have to half kill ourselves just to prove we're alive? I'm here whenever you need me & whenever you need me I won't be here." because for me, that statement rings true. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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if i cant argue or it becomes increasingly rude to do so...gotta say later. yall reallyneed to check your temps tho...  THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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All or nothing.... | |
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All or nothing. | |
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wouldn't that be the same tho....????? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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