peb319 said:

it's a fact

pplrain said:

Well, someone has to. Would you rather have monkeys stare at you?

ArielB said:

sometimes it's hard to tell the difference

ZombieKitten said:

Nonsense. :flingspooatzombie:

ArielB said:

Either:

1) Men like to check out a woman's body parts and admire their beauty, or;

2) Have nothing better to do but stare and fantasize

luv4u said:

it's well known that no matter what better things they DO have to DO, they will always make time for a perv

ZombieKitten said:

pplrain said:

Stare back - or stare at them and slowly lick your lips - they usually look away at that point



Or flash them - that works too

Mach said:

or take a photo of them!

It s like getting a hit off a crack pipe. Pure chemistry baby!! Don t take it personally. Although it can feel uncomfortable.

No home training. Staring is rude, period.

I don't stare at people, but I will notice someone who's dressed particularly well and looking good. I've no interest sexually in anyone I might see here so I don't really perv. I'm more likely to have a lingering look at someone's picture here on the org.

IRL much of the time I walk with my head kinda down (which I'm consciously trying not to do now), and I'm usually in a daydream or on autopilot (say if I'm out grocery shopping). It's not a self-esteem issue, just habit from being quite tall and having to look down a lot to talk to people, look at stuff and whatnot.

ZombieKitten said:

jockeyb4u said:

Well I don't dress up or put make up on so that random guys stare at me. But I am cool with it as long as they do it in a polite way.

jockeyb4u said:

There is discreet staring... and just out there staring. Sometimes I am guilty of discreet staring but it is usually for reasons other than sex ... and I am always aware it is bad manners so I avoid it.
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People other than ourselves are interesting. Men or women stare at each other of opposite or same sex just out of curiousity and not necessarily out of sexual intentions.

Prince's Sarah

Serious said:

Exactly.

Don't look at me like I'm a chicken & biscuit value meal from Bojangles you're about to devour.

pplrain said:

Well said. And that makes the difference to me.

pplrain said:

Is this your way of trying to brag to the org that you're hot?

JustErin said:

Why are you jealous?

pplrain said:

Soooo jealous!!

I wanna be stared at too!!!!

JustErin said:

SHUTCHO PONK ASS UP!

JustErin said:

I knew that... can't bear to share the spot light, can you?

pplrain said:

hokie said:

Can you hand me some too please !

I'll get the butter and salt

Mysterioso said:

Cool

Mysterioso said:

Or margarine, if we want to keep threads linked together.