I am quite happy flirting with guys, i just don't wanna fuck em. Simple.

Good answers, albethem brief answers

For me, I don't even go that route - once I find out a guy is straight, I lose all interest, and don't go the rough trade route. But if it didn't matter to me, or I didn't know (sometimes one can't tell), I would like to think that I could hope for a situation where I would be turned down without anything more than that (especially physical) happening. I know there are some instances where this is not realistic to expect, but that those instances are fewer than they were 20 years ago. I would like to be afforded the dignity of the person being flattered, not insulted.

a person with self worth will feel flattered I think, those without it will worry what others will think of them, and act accordingly

I like flirting with guys that I find attractive.
But finding a guy attractive doesn't mean I want to sleep with him.
For some reason that concept confuses people, but I have definitive taste so being attractive is not enough for me to want to sleep with a guy.
Doesn't stop me from wishing he were my type so I would want to sleep with him.

are some straight guys convinced they will be raped by a gay man who finds them attractive? or that they themselves will become gay by admitting or accepting they may indeed be attractive to a gay guy? Or that their mates will think they are gay because of it? Really, I can't understand the reactions some of them have!

I don't get approached by anyone.

you go into the ladies alone or with your posse?

For me, I think guys think I've seen something about them that suggests gay.
Which isn't the case, I just speak to guys I find attractive.
Doesn't usually lead to sex, but I generally enjoy it.

Guys also seem flattered that I'm interested, even if they aren't.

Alone with my posse?


I go pee by myself.

that must be it!!!
that would be the thing that would make the homophobes mad

I never even thought of that. If a girl approached me in the restrooms, which for some reason they always do not once would I assume it's cause they think I'm gay, but cause maybe they think I looked nice

sorry forgot the OR

I'm always alone with my posse of voices in my head

I don't posse pee.

my science teacher used to say girls were like oxygen, always going to the bathroom in pairs

hmmmmm

Oxygen is the slut whore of the chemical world. Oxygen hates to be single and has no problem shacking up with anything that comes along.