ladies does lube irritate you causing burning and itching? do you forgo this or have you found a solution?

guys (cause you always click on a ladies only thread)- do you prefer lubeless condoms- is the sex better?

opinions please?

Depends on the lube.

Condoms with nonoxynol-9 (spermicide) definitely can cause irritation, however.

If a guy gets a chick ready, there is no need for lube.

Vendetta1 said:

Vendetta1 said:

what are some cues you can give when he's ready and you are not without breaking the mood

Vendetta1 said:

Indeed

Evvy said:

If it's a guy that gives a damn, you can just tell him and still not break the mood. Plus, there aren't any issues with me getting a guy back up again.

Vendetta1 said:

Actually...there are all kinds of reasons lube might be needed that don't have anything to do with a guy getting you ready. I have a man who's very skilled at "all that" - and lube is a fixture on our bedside table.

Evvy said:

You could try "Oi! Cassanova! Its like the sahara-frickin-desert down here! Sort it out will yah!" that ought to do it

Genesia said:

Like?

Vendetta1 said:

understood- but everyone is not at your skill level- is it experience- number of different partners? were/are you a voyeur?

Evvy said:

WTH?

It is having years of bad sex and finally opening my mouth to say what makes me happy. I required loads of foreplay or leave me the hell alone. What does being a voyeur have to do with anything?

Vendetta1 said:

some folk like to watch- they learn from seeing what others do

Vendetta1 said:

That was my experience so far.
A little finger work, lots of and some more and there's no need for lube at all.

blimey! this is making my day go faster!

My lover is amazing and no lube needed!!! lol

ArielB said:

I know people (male and female) who- how can I put it- don't like the taste of certain things....
it's actually disgusting to them

Vendetta1 said:

1. Age. (Wait a few years and you'll know what I mean.)

2. Birth control pills. (One of the ways in which the Pill works is by drying up your cervical fluid. Less fertile-quality cervical fluid, less chance you'll get pregnant. But you can't just dry up cervical fluid without drying up everything else, too. And if you're on the Pill for a long time - I was on it for 20 years - the dryness becomes more or less permanent.)

3. Antihistamines. (They don't just dry up your nose.)

Evvy said:

Then do some more finger work.
I love the taste. I'm not thinking it's a drink, or food, so I'm not expecting Fillet Mignon kind of taste. I'm thinking sex, and that's the taste I get.
LOVE it!

All lube is awful.

Bitch, this ain't the 1800's! Just do what Chris O'Donnel (Robin) did in Batman & Robin when he had to kiss Uma Thurman (Poison Ivy) if you're afraid of the genitalia's edibility (Or should I say, LACK THEREOF).

Genesia said:

wow - didn't know that

JustErin said:

yes- can however, tolerate - "naturals"- glycerin,paraben free

Evvy said:

They problem I have with them is

a) they all tend to get sticky at some point

b) they all taste like shit

I've basically used lube for 2 things in the past but now I won't touch the stuff at all.

Thanks for the suberbad clip! I love that movie! so fucking funny!

Vendetta1 said:

Hear, hear.

Honey said:

But a lot of people use lube for things - which has nothing to do with a chick being ready or not.

JustErin said:

Yeah, I was focused strictly on it's use to ease penetration where natural arousal hasn't done so.

100% no

not in the past
not in the present
and I hope not in the future

it's just ICKY - for me

Vendetta1 said: