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PrintableJustErin said: heartbeatocean said: I'm just curious, what do you see it as? Threadbare summed it up perfectly. yeah, that was brilliant. | |
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heartbeatocean said: I don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I could be considered middle age
 and I have never been more boy crazy. I think I'm a very late bloomer. 
So what's going on? Guy asks me out. We have a fantastic talk. He doesn't ask me out again. Every time he sees me, he doesn't say hello, but PERFORMS. Acts all silly. Is this a distancing technique?   I can relate...I am almost always alot more interested in guys than they are in me  I don;t know what it is, or how to stop it but it's become the story of my life!
Things seem to be going well, and I'm really into a guy, but he sees me as "more of a friend" or is more interested in somebody else  If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: heartbeatocean said: I don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I could be considered middle age
and I have never been more boy crazy. I think I'm a very late bloomer.
So what's going on? Guy asks me out. We have a fantastic talk. He doesn't ask me out again. Every time he sees me, he doesn't say hello, but PERFORMS. Acts all silly. Is this a distancing technique? I can relate...I am almost always alot more interested in guys than they are in me I don;t know what it is, or how to stop it but it's become the story of my life!
Things seem to be going well, and I'm really into a guy, but he sees me as "more of a friend" or is more interested in somebody else ugh... That was the story of my life until my mid-30's. THEN suddenly I became the one sought after. For some reason, that whole pattern really turned around. Late bloomer. | |
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heartbeatocean said: thekidsgirl said: I can relate...I am almost always alot more interested in guys than they are in me I don;t know what it is, or how to stop it but it's become the story of my life!
Things seem to be going well, and I'm really into a guy, but he sees me as "more of a friend" or is more interested in somebody else ugh... That was the story of my life until my mid-30's. THEN suddenly I became the one sought after. For some reason, that whole pattern really turned around. Late bloomer. well blooming late sucks  If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: heartbeatocean said: ugh... That was the story of my life until my mid-30's. THEN suddenly I became the one sought after. For some reason, that whole pattern really turned around. Late bloomer. well blooming late sucks NO IT DOESN'T 
It's better than getting all dumpy | |
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heartbeatocean said: thekidsgirl said: well blooming late sucks NO IT DOESN'T
It's better than getting all dumpy well I don't want to be dumpy! 
why are there only 2 choices  If you will, so will I | |
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heartbeatocean said: JustErin said: Threadbare summed it up perfectly. yeah, that was brilliant. Naw, let's just say it's the story of my life. Somehow, I'm still optimistic. Mostly.  | |
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thekidsgirl said: heartbeatocean said: NO IT DOESN'T
It's better than getting all dumpy well I don't want to be dumpy!
why are there only 2 choices I dunno, there's something quite nice about going from an ugly duckling to becoming a swan, especially at 40, when many women my age are getting a little dumpy (at least the ones I saw at my high school reunion ) But it's easy for me to say now that those painful years are over. And if I had better luck back then, maybe I wouldn't be chasin' jerks now!!! | |
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ThreadBare said: heartbeatocean said: yeah, that was brilliant. Naw, let's just say it's the story of my life. Somehow, I'm still optimistic. Mostly. Me too! Life gets richer, no matter which way it goes. | |
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Iam kinda not bothered with hooking up with anyone at the moment. Its great! | |
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