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Advice Hi Girls,
Just wondering if any of you would freak if you found out your lover was Bi!??? 
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Not at all. Been there done that. | |
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I wouldn't freak out, but I would probably wouldn't be comfortable with it. | |
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No but it would be good if he is honest about it.
Wait, what kind of advice are you looking for? [Edited 2/18/09 7:36am] "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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I'm bi myself, so why would I freak out... Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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Nope. I prefer it. | |
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MarySharon said: I'm bi myself, so why would I freak out...
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I was just curious really as to what people thought.
Not causing an argument or anyting. | |
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Found out? As in, he was already my lover and it somehow came out that he was bi?
That would bug me. Not that he was bi, but that he hadn’t told me and I had to find out another way. If I know going into it, fine. |
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um, my partner is MY partner. Anything else is unacceptable.
If she was bi in the past, no big deal as long as she was up front about it and didn't wait a year to inform me of it. | |
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Nah, but I'd sure as hell stay for the ride... A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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JustErin said: I wouldn't freak out, but I would probably wouldn't be comfortable with it.
I agree. I also agree with Carrie. I don't want to find out after we had already started dating. I'd want to know up front. | |
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hokie said: JustErin said: I wouldn't freak out, but I would probably wouldn't be comfortable with it.
I agree. I also agree with Carrie. I don't want to find out after we had already started dating. I'd want to know up front. oh, BTW, I might have forgotten to mention before...but umm... I'm bi... lingual.  | |
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I wouldn't be comfortable knowing the man Im dating has been with other men....
and I sure wouldn't have starting dating him if I knew this up front... just a lot of drama that goes along with a guy who goes both ways... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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I wouldn't freak out. Nothing surprises me these days.
Would I stay with him...No. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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Is it really that big a deal? | |
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I'd let him bring a cute guy home for us to share!  | |
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Fauxie said: Is it really that big a deal? Apparently.  | |
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amorbella said: I wouldn't be comfortable knowing the man Im dating has been with other men....
How are we gonna work Saturday out then????    2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I'm bi too so we can joke around. But I would not be happy if someone else infected him with something, though that can happen even if he's straight and cheated. | |
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Vendetta1 said: Fauxie said: Is it really that big a deal? Apparently. I'm not even sure if I know whether I'm straight, bi or what. Is it important that I make a decision?  | |
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Fauxie said: Vendetta1 said: Apparently.
I'm not even sure if I know whether I'm straight, bi or what. Is it important that I make a decision? | |
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Vendetta1 said: Fauxie said: I'm not even sure if I know whether I'm straight, bi or what. Is it important that I make a decision? Well I'm glad you told me up front. I would've hated for us to get deep into a relationship only for you to unleash that bombshell on me. It would have actually changed your personality and everything about you that I thought I knew, just by you telling me that. The whole thing would be suddenly rendered a lie. I couldn't continue to live with the exact same person I loved after they said those words to me. | |
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I'd likely be put off by the fact they hadn't disclosed it to me without my "finding out." (And how I found out may have some bearing.) But fidelity would be my bigger concern. If I could trust we'd both be fulfilled in and honor a monogamous relationship, orientation wouldn't faze me much. [Edited 2/18/09 17:49pm] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Fauxie said: Vendetta1 said: I'm bi. Apparently I can't make a decision.
Well I'm glad you told me up front. I would've hated for us to get deep into a relationship only for you to unleash that bombshell on me. It would have actually changed your personality and everything about you that I thought I knew, just by you telling me that. The whole thing would be suddenly rendered a lie. I couldn't continue to live with the exact same person I loved after they said those words to me. 
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: amorbella said: I wouldn't be comfortable knowing the man Im dating has been with other men....
How are we gonna work Saturday out then???? you are an exception ton the rule!!!!  Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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Why is this even a question? I don't get it. Why would it be an issue?
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Who cares? My wife is hot and she loves me...end of story | |
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CarrieMpls said: Found out? As in, he was already my lover and it somehow came out that he was bi?
That would bug me. Not that he was bi, but that he hadn’t told me and I had to find out another way. If I know going into it, fine. Agree. | |
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