JustErin said:

How can I? You already shot me down.

Besides, you'll just twist my words and say I'm a rapist and a monster.

I think in some aspects, I am just sexually demanding. I have spent almost 20 years pleasing the men in my life, having years of bad sex with the same people so I grew tired of it. I let people (men) know what I want upfront: plenty foreplay, oral, hugging and kissing and other things and if they can't get me off, they'll never get called again. I've gone years without now because I refuse to ever have bad sex again.

Luckily, girls are so much easier.

Also I come on very strong to some guys and I think they prefer to be the pursuer.