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PrintableVendetta1 said: JayJai said: But there are actually people here on the org who think it's ok for a woman to punch a man in self defense, but the man should walk away in self defense 
There are double standards everywhere, even on the org...  I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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ThreadBare said: SUPRMAN said: I have no idea why we expect to impose rational thought on people who are obviously in and reacting in an emotional state. We know the right answer for the quiz, but life isn't that black and white and unemotional. In a relationship of length, you know verbally when someone sucker punches you, throws a low blow, or uses a knife. But we expect people to act as if these things don't exist anymore. But, you know when you're in an unhealthy relationship. When the warning signs are there, before anything gets physical and is still verbally abusive, leave. is/are edit. [Edited 2/18/09 4:57am] It was my house. I had to formally evict him unless he left on his own. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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uPtoWnNY said: JayJai said: But there are actually people here on the org who think it's ok for a woman to punch a man in self defense, but the man should walk away in self defense
There are double standards everywhere, even on the org... The only time it's ok for a man to hit a woman is if she has a weapon and is threatening his life. Other than that, he has to walk away. How would it look for a man to hit a woman half his size? Even if she's assaulting him? I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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SCNDLS said: luv4u said: No one deserves to be abused Ummmm, I was alluding to the wacky assertion of many in another thread that Rihanna prolly started the fight with Chris and deserved to get beat down. Yeah, and if she gave him herpes, he definitely gets a pass, he just didn't go far enough. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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uPtoWnNY said: JustErin said: What the fuck does size or sex have to do with anything?
To me, size has a lot to do with it. I'm 205 - how would it look if I struck a 90 lb. woman if she hit me first? I'd just walk away in that situation. As I said before, only time I'd retaliate is if she comes at me with a weapon. [Edited 2/18/09 10:08am] [Edited 2/18/09 10:09am] Really? and if she followed you? I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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SUPRMAN said: uPtoWnNY said: To me, size has a lot to do with it. I'm 205 - how would it look if I struck a 90 lb. woman if she hit me first? I'd just walk away in that situation. As I said before, only time I'd retaliate is if she comes at me with a weapon. [Edited 2/18/09 10:08am] [Edited 2/18/09 10:09am] Really? and if she followed you? So what if she followed him. She can't beat his ass without a weapon. not enough to put him in the hospital like I've seen men do to women Under certain circumstances, urgent circumstances, desperate circumstances, profanity provides a relief denied even to prayer. | |
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LiquidGold said: SUPRMAN said: Really? and if she followed you? So what if she followed him. She can't beat his ass without a weapon. not enough to put him in the hospital like I've seen men do to women Is that the yardstick we're using? I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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SUPRMAN said: LiquidGold said: So what if she followed him. She can't beat his ass without a weapon. not enough to put him in the hospital like I've seen men do to women Is that the yardstick we're using? He said he would only retaliate if she was using a weapon, so I mentioned that there wasn't much she could do without a weapon 90 lbs vs 205 Do you really think you can be objective here since you're not in relationships with women? Under certain circumstances, urgent circumstances, desperate circumstances, profanity provides a relief denied even to prayer. | |
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LiquidGold said: SUPRMAN said: Really? and if she followed you? So what if she followed him. She can't beat his ass without a weapon. not enough to put him in the hospital like I've seen men do to women It depends on how rageful the woman in question is, and whether or not the man being attacked makes any effort whatsoever to guard himseld against her blows. | |
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Ottensen said: LiquidGold said: So what if she followed him. She can't beat his ass without a weapon. not enough to put him in the hospital like I've seen men do to women It depends on how rageful the woman in question is, and whether or not the man being attacked makes any effort whatsoever to guard himseld against her blows. I can guard myself and try to stop her from hitting me, but I will not hit her back Under certain circumstances, urgent circumstances, desperate circumstances, profanity provides a relief denied even to prayer. | |
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That arrogant SOB is not new to abusing females. I know! I live in his home town, Philly!  [Edited 2/19/09 3:41am] | |
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LiquidGold said: Ottensen said: It depends on how rageful the woman in question is, and whether or not the man being attacked makes any effort whatsoever to guard himseld against her blows. I can guard myself and try to stop her from hitting me, but I will not hit her back  | |
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no one in any circumstances deserves to be hit. Especially the mother of your children. For gawd's sake self retraint and act like an adult!
Bloody bullys - yes men and women who are violent - shame... "I may not agree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it"
Be proud of who you are not what they want you to be... | |
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LiquidGold said: I can guard myself and try to stop her from hitting me, but I will not hit her back
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LiquidGold said: SUPRMAN said: Is that the yardstick we're using? He said he would only retaliate if she was using a weapon, so I mentioned that there wasn't much she could do without a weapon 90 lbs vs 205 Do you really think you can be objective here since you're not in relationships with women? Umm I have been in relationships with women, thank you. I've also dated a woman who gave me permission to hit her. I ended that relationship because I didn't want to be tempted and get caught up. Why does the gender matter? As I mentioned earlier I was in a relationship with a guy, who was a lot smaller and constantly provoked a physical reaction. Not just in his relationship with me but apparently every relationship he was in. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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SUPRMAN said: LiquidGold said: He said he would only retaliate if she was using a weapon, so I mentioned that there wasn't much she could do without a weapon 90 lbs vs 205 Do you really think you can be objective here since you're not in relationships with women? Umm I have been in relationships with women, thank you. I've also dated a woman who gave me permission to hit her. I ended that relationship because I didn't want to be tempted and get caught up. Why does the gender matter? As I mentioned earlier I was in a relationship with a guy, who was a lot smaller and constantly provoked a physical reaction. Not just in his relationship with me but apparently every relationship he was in. I think a lot of people agree with your point that it shouldn't matter. I do. But, there's a more frequent difference in size and strength along gender lines. I mean, after a while -- and this goes beyond abuse -- we all have to take a look at the folks we choose to allow into our lives, especially if we start to see a pattern. I include myself in that "we," by the way. | |
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Yeah, I wonder if his wife looked like this.
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SCNDLS said: Yeah, I wonder if his wife looked like this.
Oh my fucking god. I want to beat Chris Brown's ass. | |
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Vendetta1 said: Oh my fucking god. I want to beat Chris Brown's ass.
Yeah, a sizable portion of the country apparently has for a while now. | |
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Vendetta1 said: SCNDLS said: Yeah, I wonder if his wife looked like this.
Oh my fucking god. I want to beat Chris Brown's ass.But she "supposedly" started it tho, so she shoulda expected to get beat down.  | |
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SCNDLS said: Yeah, I wonder if his wife looked like this.
 so sad. I just don't understand this shit  I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09   | |
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SCNDLS said: Vendetta1 said: Oh my fucking god. I want to beat Chris Brown's ass.
But she "supposedly" started it tho, so she shoulda expected to get beat down. I have a friend who never hit her husband but he beat the crap out of her all the time. He choked her once until she was unconscious and she woke up in the hospital. It took 15 years for her to leave that asshole. Funny how it's going to God now that he messed up. He shoulda been calling on the Lord to stop him from hitting her. | |
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Vendetta1 said: SCNDLS said: But she "supposedly" started it tho, so she shoulda expected to get beat down. I have a friend who never hit her husband but he beat the crap out of her all the time. He choked her once until she was unconscious and she woke up in the hospital. It took 15 years for her to leave that asshole. Funny how it's going to God now that he messed up. He shoulda been calling on the Lord to stop him from hitting her. Especially after witnessing his mother be abused. | |
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SCNDLS said: Vendetta1 said: I wonder why people find it so hard to believe that he could just be an asshole.
I have a friend who never hit her husband but he beat the crap out of her all the time. He choked her once until she was unconscious and she woke up in the hospital. It took 15 years for her to leave that asshole. Funny how it's going to God now that he messed up. He shoulda been calling on the Lord to stop him from hitting her. Especially after witnessing his mother be abused. | |
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Dayclear said: That arrogant SOB is not new to abusing females. I know! I live in his home town, Philly!
[Edited 2/19/09 3:41am] I always got a mean vibe from him so I'm not really surprised. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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