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Printablethekidsgirl said: My friend and I have a silly ongoing debate that she brought up yet again yesterday....
She insists that before she procedes to get busy with her boyfriend, she likes to pause first and go wrap her hair, and wash her face to me that sounds 'anti-sexy'! 
"...Ooh baby, hold that thought, I gotta go wrap my hair..." , I say just go with the flow but of course she calls me naïve, and claims that I just don't understand 
and she can't bear to wake up with 'shagging hair' and last nights makeup What do you all think? I would say keep the pre-bed rituals and lose the boyfriend. But that's just me. | |
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I wouldn't but not that I have experience with it. [Edited 2/17/09 13:39pm] | |
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Serious said: CarrieMpls said: What, they ONLY have sex when they're getting ready for bed at night? They can be spontaneous all the livelong day, but clearly they just need to adjust their bedtome routine. omg. Dissecting someone else's sex life is hilarious.Yeah it sounds strange to me that exactly in the few minutes she would get ready for bed he is in the mood. Of course the mood may arise when they lie in bed, but before it's not that likely to happen in that short period of time. She said it's usually at the end of the night, after they've gone to dinner and all. They go back to her place to 'hang out', and usually things heat up...but she tells him to wait a moment while she gets ready for bed If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: Serious said: Yeah it sounds strange to me that exactly in the few minutes she would get ready for bed he is in the mood. Of course the mood may arise when they lie in bed, but before it's not that likely to happen in that short period of time. She said it's usually at the end of the night, after they've gone to dinner and all. They go back to her place to 'hang out', and usually things heat up...but she tells him to wait a moment while she gets ready for bed What's wait a moment though, how long is it? | |
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DanceWme said: Hecky naw!
Her wrap doesnt come loose??? Homegirl got skills Or not. . . | |
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Ace said: thekidsgirl said: My friend and I have a silly ongoing debate that she brought up yet again yesterday....
She insists that before she procedes to get busy with her boyfriend, she likes to pause first and go wrap her hair, and wash her face to me that sounds 'anti-sexy'!
"...Ooh baby, hold that thought, I gotta go wrap my hair..." , I say just go with the flow but of course she calls me naïve, and claims that I just don't understand
and she can't bear to wake up with 'shagging hair' and last nights makeup What do you all think? I would say keep the pre-bed rituals and lose the boyfriend. But that's just me. Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid I was the one saying that it just seemed like it would kill the mood
I don't think I would want to stop between foreplay and sex to tie up my hair and wash my face...I think I'd just wait til afterwards If you will, so will I | |
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She's superwrap instead of superhead?  | |
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thekidsgirl said: Ace said: I would say keep the pre-bed rituals and lose the boyfriend. But that's just me. Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid I was the one saying that it just seemed like it would kill the mood
I don't think I would want to stop between foreplay and sex to tie up my hair and wash my face...I think I'd just wait til afterwards Wow, how sad for him. Some women so suck. | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: thekidsgirl said: She said it's usually at the end of the night, after they've gone to dinner and all. They go back to her place to 'hang out', and usually things heat up...but she tells him to wait a moment while she gets ready for bed What's wait a moment though, how long is it? I don't know 
She takes her hairdos very seriously If you will, so will I | |
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JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid I was the one saying that it just seemed like it would kill the mood
I don't think I would want to stop between foreplay and sex to tie up my hair and wash my face...I think I'd just wait til afterwards Wow, how sad for him. Some women so suck. If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: NMuzakNSoul said: What's wait a moment though, how long is it? I don't know
She takes her hairdos very seriously Well alright then. Least she has the foreplay covered. Sorta... | |
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thekidsgirl said: Ace said: I would say keep the pre-bed rituals and lose the boyfriend. But that's just me. Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid I was the one saying that it just seemed like it would kill the mood Mood-schmood!  Wait 'til they're a few years down the line. He'll be wishin' there was still a mood to kill.  | |
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thekidsgirl said: Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid oh, and here i was coming to say as long as she won't blame him if the joystick didn't function
and to answer your Q: no, and i refuse to be left stood up  | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: thekidsgirl said: I don't know
She takes her hairdos very seriously Well alright then. Least she has the foreplay covered. Sorta... With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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thekidsgirl said: Ace said: I would say keep the pre-bed rituals and lose the boyfriend. But that's just me. Ohh, don't get me wrong...he's okay with it. He's just happy to be getting laid I was the one saying that it just seemed like it would kill the mood
I don't think I would want to stop between foreplay and sex to tie up my hair and wash my face...I think I'd just wait til afterwards For sure  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Damn no way I enjoy being in the moment. Sex for me is fierce, passionate and spontaneous. Anything else can wait  | |
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thekidsgirl said: Serious said: Yeah it sounds strange to me that exactly in the few minutes she would get ready for bed he is in the mood. Of course the mood may arise when they lie in bed, but before it's not that likely to happen in that short period of time. She said it's usually at the end of the night, after they've gone to dinner and all. They go back to her place to 'hang out', and usually things heat up...but she tells him to wait a moment while she gets ready for bed When things have heated up I don't want to wait. And I would be a bit pissed if he doesn't care that I let him wait to be honest. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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PanthaGirl said: Damn no way I enjoy being in the moment. Sex for me is fierce, passionate and spontaneous. Anything else can wait
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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sometimes I pause my bedtime routine for a bit of passion, but not often luckily! | |
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No. If I'm going to do that stuff I either do it before it gets started or wait until after. I don't know why you'd pause in the middle. 
Once I'm in the mood I don't want to stop! | |
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SCNDLS said: DanceWme said: Hecky naw!
Her wrap doesnt come loose??? Homegirl got skills Or not. . . You took the words out of my mouth. All I can visualize is someone laying there worrying about her wrap.
And umm...wouldn't she wanna wash up and stuff after???  | |
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johnart said: SCNDLS said: Or not. . . You took the words out of my mouth. All I can visualize is someone laying there worrying about her wrap.
And umm...wouldn't she wanna wash up and stuff after??? One would think so. Or pee, at least. UTIs are no joke. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: johnart said: You took the words out of my mouth. All I can visualize is someone laying there worrying about her wrap.
And umm...wouldn't she wanna wash up and stuff after??? One would think so. Or pee, at least. UTIs are no joke. Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda.  | |
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johnart said: Genesia said: One would think so. Or pee, at least. UTIs are no joke. Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. | |
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johnart said: Genesia said: One would think so. Or pee, at least. UTIs are no joke. Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. Well, I know I do. But I can't answer for anyone else. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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johnart said: Genesia said: One would think so. Or pee, at least. UTIs are no joke. Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. Wash out what? | |
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hokie said: johnart said: Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. Folk were all up in arms and upset at me for suggesting condom wear with their spouse so I KNOW there's some washin to be done. | |
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JustErin said: johnart said: Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. Wash out what? poontang, vajayjay, baby canal. | |
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johnart said: hokie said: Folk were all up in arms and upset at me for suggesting condom wear with their spouse so I KNOW there's some washin to be done. Without getting too graphic condoms at least keep things less messy. But in general they SUCK!!! They're irritating and they stink. And it really doesn't feel as good. | |
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JustErin said: johnart said: Yes pee. But wash out the pudenda. Wash out what? Kitty | |
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