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Printable728huey said: Ultimately it's because I choose to be single, but in addition to personal freedom a big reason is because I feel that I have a lot of personal issues and insecurities I need to deal with before I am ready to go back out into the dating world. On the one hand, it scares me because I see some really hot and sexy young women who turn me on
 but find out later that I can't relate to them socially and feel like an old pervert  , yet on the other hand the women closer to my age have already gone through an ugly divorce and/or have children at home. I have nothing against dating single mothers, but I have to resign myself to the fact that no matter how much a single mother I'm dating tells me that she loves me and can't envison her life without me, I will always be second place in her life after her children (which I would fully expect from her).
 Pretty much. This is why I am not interested in being with a dude that way right now. I need sex but I don't really miss all the relationship stuff. | |
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emm said: ThreadBare said: 'Cuz I'm always on the Org. That's why.
ummm yeah that might have something to do with my situation too  you need a man who can roast yams for you, girl...  | |
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ThreadBare said: emm said: ummm yeah that might have something to do with my situation too you need a man who can roast yams for you, girl... I ate a sweet potato just the other night. 
I've narrowed it down to not being the type that attracts much attention from guys, having standards that some guys are not able to meet, nor am I willing to settle. Also, I have a habit of being attracted to guys who probably wouldn't be interested in me or not the right fit, and probably living in the wrong place. Even though this city is considered the best place for singles, it is not in my book. "Funkyslsistah… you ain't funky at all, you just a little ol' prude"!
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I'm single because I haven't found the right one. But I have faith in God that he will put somebody in my path one day.
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I am single because I do not have many opporutunities to meet guys and I am picky I guess, but not to the point where I wouldn´t ever meet anyone I´d fall in love with. I did, but none of them was in love with me.  I really do want someone."When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all." | |
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A combination of factors but the overriding one being that I'm attracted to both genders.
It makes life that little bit more interesting but also that little bit more difficult. | |
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Cloudbuster said: A combination of factors but the overriding one being that I'm attracted to both genders.
It makes life that little bit more interesting but also that little bit more difficult. I know some hermaphrodites, Ill introduce you  | |
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LleeLlee said: Cloudbuster said: A combination of factors but the overriding one being that I'm attracted to both genders.
It makes life that little bit more interesting but also that little bit more difficult. I know some hermaphrodites, Ill introduce you Fuck you. | |
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Cloudbuster said: A combination of factors but the overriding one being that I'm attracted to both genders.
It makes life that little bit more interesting but also that little bit more difficult.  | |
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mdiver said: Cloudbuster said: A combination of factors but the overriding one being that I'm attracted to both genders.
It makes life that little bit more interesting but also that little bit more difficult. Thanks. | |
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Cloudbuster said: mdiver said: Thanks. Anytime | |
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mdiver said: Anytime
Does your wife know this? | |
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Cloudbuster said: mdiver said: Anytime
Does your wife know this? She wants to watch | |
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mdiver said: She wants to watch
I bet. | |
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Cloudbuster said: mdiver said: She wants to watch
I bet.  | |
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Because the guys I want don't want me  And I'm not willing to settle for the guys that do want me. They repulsive me. I'd prefer to be single. It's 1000 times more frustrating for me to handle because the 3 guys I do want wanted me first but I didn't like them at the time. I can't work out why they've lost interest 
And also I've never been in a relationship before. Although I've been close many times which leads me to believe I have commitment problems. I always feel like I'm about to be trapped and I hate feeling like I can't have any other options no matter how much I like someone. Same way I feel about full-time jobs, they're hard to get out of and I'm not very good at breaking things off. [Edited 2/13/09 4:32am] | |
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JustErin said: 'Why are you single?' So....? cuz nothing but irrelevance lately. major irrelevance | |
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Christopher said: JustErin said: 'Why are you single?' So....? cuz nothing but irrelevance lately. major irrelevance Just put yourself out there, bitch. You'd pull in a heartbeat. | |
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Oh my GAWD!!!
This has to be one of the most depressing threads ever! Some of yall need luv, hugz and several sessions of therapy for self esteem issues. But thats OK. If everybody already had somebody... then no one would truly appreciate the special somebody they share their life with when they find them. A couple thoughts... Figure out what is truly important to you and never settle for less. But realize that setting standards which are impossible to meet isn't fair to potential partners nor yourself. Never think that you aren't attractive. Everyone has attributes which members of the preferred sex will find appealing about you... and its not limited to just the physical. How you view yourself weighs heavily on how others will view you. Open your eyes to the people whose heads you actually turn and whose interest you peak. Stop focusing so hard on the people who turn their heads from you. You can miss a lot. A lesson I'm thankful I learned early in life. Some say they constantly get hurt or can't seam to meet any one who is worth a damn in a relationship. To these people I say stop pointing the finger and self analyze their own approach towards relationships and the criteria they judge potential partners on. The problem is usually internal rather than external... and can be corrected. Many people who say they are alone by choice are that way mostly due to fear. On some level they fear rejection and/or getting hurt so choose to be alone or engage in unhealthy alternative relationships. But any who.... in case no one else says it... whether I know you or not... whether you've been a friend or foe..... 
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BigDaddyHQ said: Oh my GAWD!!!
This has to be one of the most depressing threads ever! Some of yall need luv, hugz and several sessions of therapy for self esteem issues. But thats OK. If everybody already had somebody... then no one would truly appreciate the special somebody they share their life with when they find them. A couple thoughts... Figure out what is truly important to you and never settle for less. But realize that setting standards which are impossible to meet isn't fair to potential partners nor yourself. Never think that you aren't attractive. Everyone has attributes which members of the preferred sex will find appealing about you... and its not limited to just the physical. How you view yourself weighs heavily on how others will view you. Open your eyes to the people whose heads you actually turn and whose interest you peak. Stop focusing so hard on the people who turn their heads from you. You can miss a lot. A lesson I'm thankful I learned early in life. Some say they constantly get hurt or can't seam to meet any one who is worth a damn in a relationship. To these people I say stop pointing the finger and self analyze their own approach towards relationships and the criteria they judge potential partners on. The problem is usually internal rather than external... and can be corrected. Many people who say they are alone by choice are that way mostly due to fear. On some level they fear rejection and/or getting hurt so choose to be alone or engage in unhealthy alternative relationships. But any who.... in case no one else says it... whether I know you or not... whether you've been a friend or foe.....
I luv all yall mo'fos! Bless you.  | |
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BigDaddyHQ said: Oh my GAWD!!!
This has to be one of the most depressing threads ever! Some of yall need luv, hugz and several sessions of therapy for self esteem issues. But thats OK. If everybody already had somebody... then no one would truly appreciate the special somebody they share their life with when they find them. A couple thoughts... Figure out what is truly important to you and never settle for less. But realize that setting standards which are impossible to meet isn't fair to potential partners nor yourself. Never think that you aren't attractive. Everyone has attributes which members of the preferred sex will find appealing about you... and its not limited to just the physical. How you view yourself weighs heavily on how others will view you. Open your eyes to the people whose heads you actually turn and whose interest you peak. Stop focusing so hard on the people who turn their heads from you. You can miss a lot. A lesson I'm thankful I learned early in life. Some say they constantly get hurt or can't seam to meet any one who is worth a damn in a relationship. To these people I say stop pointing the finger and self analyze their own approach towards relationships and the criteria they judge potential partners on. The problem is usually internal rather than external... and can be corrected. Many people who say they are alone by choice are that way mostly due to fear. On some level they fear rejection and/or getting hurt so choose to be alone or engage in unhealthy alternative relationships. But any who.... in case no one else says it... whether I know you or not... whether you've been a friend or foe.....
I luv all yall mo'fos! That's some good stuff to think about. My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ufoclub said: BigDaddyHQ said: Oh my GAWD!!!
This has to be one of the most depressing threads ever! Some of yall need luv, hugz and several sessions of therapy for self esteem issues. But thats OK. If everybody already had somebody... then no one would truly appreciate the special somebody they share their life with when they find them. A couple thoughts... Figure out what is truly important to you and never settle for less. But realize that setting standards which are impossible to meet isn't fair to potential partners nor yourself. Never think that you aren't attractive. Everyone has attributes which members of the preferred sex will find appealing about you... and its not limited to just the physical. How you view yourself weighs heavily on how others will view you. Open your eyes to the people whose heads you actually turn and whose interest you peak. Stop focusing so hard on the people who turn their heads from you. You can miss a lot. A lesson I'm thankful I learned early in life. Some say they constantly get hurt or can't seam to meet any one who is worth a damn in a relationship. To these people I say stop pointing the finger and self analyze their own approach towards relationships and the criteria they judge potential partners on. The problem is usually internal rather than external... and can be corrected. Many people who say they are alone by choice are that way mostly due to fear. On some level they fear rejection and/or getting hurt so choose to be alone or engage in unhealthy alternative relationships. But any who.... in case no one else says it... whether I know you or not... whether you've been a friend or foe.....
I luv all yall mo'fos! That's some good stuff to think about. You're hot. [Edited 2/13/09 8:29am] | |
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JustErin said: ufoclub said: That's some good stuff to think about. You're hot. [Edited 2/13/09 8:29am] awww... shucks  | |
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JustErin said: ufoclub said: That's some good stuff to think about. You're hot. [Edited 2/13/09 8:29am] Oh, really?  This sig is just a fig of your imago-neigh-shun | |
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Ever see Fatal Attraction? All you others say Hell Yea!!  | |
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JustErin said: ufoclub said: That's some good stuff to think about. You're hot. [Edited 2/13/09 8:29am] You know you are too! Did I miss something good in that edit? My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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Heart been broken too many times!! | |
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2freaky4church1 said: Ever see Fatal Attraction?
yeah, i bet that shit happens all the time.... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here | |
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