thekidsgirl said:

JustErin said:

that would be mine, because, as I just pointed out on another thread, as an adult i somehow turned into a weird Crispin Glover/Vincent Gallo hybrid. anxiety thinks that's hot, but nobody else does. i've pretty much made my peace with that.

ZombieKitten said:

I think I smell bad or something

thekidsgirl said:

if i were straight and lived in the same town i'd be all over you.

ehuffnsd said:

Hell, if I were gay, and male, and on the other side of the country you'd be the love of my life

thekidsgirl said:

if we are both single at 55 we should just get married for the hell of it.

ehuffnsd said:

ehuffnsd said:

Agreed!!

Because I choose to be. I can't imagine a worse thing for me (or another person) right now than to devote my life and soul to someone else's emotions and needs. I'm unwilling to compromise at the moment. Life is too much fun to worry about someone else's bullshit when there's so much of my own bullshit to worry about.

thekidsgirl said:

yay!

my dress for the big day

the maids

flower girl

okay, I'm gonna have to work hard to look good, cause obviously you're going to be hot!
Plus you've had more practice in heels! Perhaps I'll just wear a suit

errant said:

I can agree with the last part. I look at my life now as doing what I really want to do. I want to study Spanish and Dutch an d lose weight. I am actually pretty happy to be single. I found myself throwing myself on the sword for people who didn't give as much of a damn about me as I did for them. When I get my shit together, putting up with BS is out the window. I would rather stay single than settle.

thekidsgirl said:

i think a genderbending wedding would be fun.

ehuffnsd said:

Stacey will look hot in a suit

ehuffnsd said:

oh I soo agree!

ZombieKitten said:

one like this maybe?

thekidsgirl said:

YES!

[Edited 2/12/09 15:33pm]

ehuffnsd said:

I was thinking of Madonna! you stole my idea

thekidsgirl said:

great minds think alike that's all

My expectations are way too high but I keep them high for a reason. Having a boyfriend sounds good on paper and yeah, I get lonely but I really, really do love my freedom.

That and I'm socially awkward which makes it hard since I'm someone who has to rely on my charm to attract someone. Unfortunately, I attract pussy vulchers and I will never lower my standards for those kind.

JustErin said:

No. I'm as chipper as they come, dear. Just weirded out by this stigma.

Vendetta1 said:

Shut up right now.

I'm single because I choose to be single and stress free than unhappy with some guy who can't seem to have any goals in his life. I'd rather be single and looking for a man who is about something in life than in a relationship with a loser who holds his loser friends on a pedestal.

I honestly have 0 desire for a boyfriend.
Just not something I wanna do, no pun intended, right now.

(Unless its my hot ass pre calculus teacher. But that AIN'T happenin', so...)
[Edited 2/12/09 17:49pm]

ToraToraDreams said:

hot ass teachers

JuliePurplehead said:

'Cuz I'm always on the Org. That's why.





[Edited 2/12/09 21:06pm]

Ultimately it's because I choose to be single, but in addition to personal freedom a big reason is because I feel that I have a lot of personal issues and insecurities I need to deal with before I am ready to go back out into the dating world. On the one hand, it scares me because I see some really hot and sexy young women who turn me on but find out later that I can't relate to them socially and feel like an old pervert , yet on the other hand the women closer to my age have already gone through an ugly divorce and/or have children at home. I have nothing against dating single mothers, but I have to resign myself to the fact that no matter how much a single mother I'm dating tells me that she loves me and can't envison her life without me, I will always be second place in her life after her children (which I would fully expect from her).

ThreadBare said:

ummm yeah that might have something to do with my situation too