Mysterioso said:

We are!

All sorts of chicks used to walk to me like, "Why do you always look so grim?" Answer: What? Do I have to hold a crazy, nutjobbish smile on every time I'm walkin' down the hall? "Your fingernails!" "Black Burt Reynolds/Tom Selleck (Mustache)" Blah-Blah-BLAH! Nice shoes, though. *Scoffs* Really?

its hard enough 2 find friends with similar musical interests let alone attractive females

plus random outbursts in falsetto can throw some people off

minneapolisFunq said:

You choose your mate by their musical tastes?

Mysterioso said:

Are you angry?

JustErin said:

I wouldn’t say I choose people to date based on their taste in music, but if someone’s taste in music is incompatible with mine, I can say with relative certainty that a long term relationship wouldn’t work out. I couldn’t date someone who only listens to hip hop or Shania Twain, for example.
Just like I can’t see dating someone who is super into sports of any kind. We just wouldn’t have much in common.

I can say musical preference is one of the main things i would look for


music is the focal point of my interest so im sure someone would get annoyed quickly if they didnt want to hear me rave about andre cymone's debut album

Purely by choice. At first I thought it was because I was too hurt to trust again, but over time I found that I just valued my freedom far too much to let it go. At least right now... I find that I'm opening up more and more to the idea of it. But not immediately.

I'm single because I enjoy it. I don't need a man/significant other to make me feel complete.

psychodelicide said:

:fingers:

CarrieMpls said:

Oh wow. Interesting.

I love music and it's a huge part of my life but what he listens to doesn't really matter all that much to me.

Sure, it's nice to have some common interests but I'm really not interested in dating a male version of me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

JustErin said:

I wouldn’t say I’m looking for a male version of me either. A man’s taste doesn’t have to match mine to a tee. But if it’s utterly incompatible I just can’t imagine it working out. I think about things like cleaning the house with music to move you along and it would honestly be torture if he was trying to blast Rascal Flatts throughout the house. Or if he couldn’t handle my playing Radiohead on a rainy Sunday morning.
These are things I’m not willing to compromise on.
These are the things I think about.
It’s no wonder I’m single.

haven't met anyone nor really do i want to.

I'd just rather have sex with a bunch of different females with no strings attached than "be in a relationship." I have no desire to get married either, since it's just a contract with the Government. Divorce lawyers are getting rich off of divorces, and men are left with nothing. No woman is getting half my money... house... any alimony, or child support. There is no benefit to marriage. Also, women today are very shallow and superficial, most make me sick. Plus, the world is generally insane, so it's better to stay single and in control of myself. I think all marriage should be abolished.

Last guy I was with screwed me over big time.
I want to be single forever.

CarrieMpls said:

Then there's me....I can adapt pretty well to things and I've been single for 3 years. I've enjoyed being single for about 2 1/2 years but now I wouldn't mind finding someone to settle down with for a little while. There are just slim pickings here in RI, it's starting to get depressing.

Because I haven't met any girls/women that are interested in me.
Besides, I don't want any kids, so that might turn most off that would meet me.

Because I want to, I guess

And there's still stuff I need to get over, so I don't want to hurt people because of *my* issues

I've been shat on way too many times, and I have a fragile heart..

In a way, I have no idea. The people I've been interested in have either not had the balls to tell me what was wrong with me or lied to me about it.

One friend has told me that a man is less interested in the fact that I have kids. The same friend said that I have emotional baggage.

I've boiled it down to not be worthy.

lspear76 said:

Ya know what? I agree with about 3/4 of this.

i'm kinda single but probably not much longer though.

Vendetta1 said:

I think you should settle down with a nice lady from Australia, nevermind the losers where you live

I'm single because nobody wants to date me

ScarletScandal said:

I think maybe guys might be intimidated by me.. but its not like Im about to change myself for anyone...

thekidsgirl said:

bitch please.

JustErin said:

...atleast, no one has asked in a long while

JerseyKRS said:

jus keeping it real