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I really don't believe marriage is for everyone and society puts too much pressure on people to live out a certain lifestyle. Just try to enjoy life and do what feels right Good Luck!  If you will, so will I | |
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MRGee said: When ya first start dating all LOVEY DOVEY....Married and it's PROBLEMS. Lies..Fights. Tears. IRRECONCIABLE DIFFERENCES. I Cannot Forgive and Forget. Things Change and then it's just NO Good. And I Can't wait for it to be LEGAL. Well, it's never been in any Church. I don't think I'll get Married Again and if I do it's gonna be in a long time. I'm gonna just Date and have Fun.
shiut I can't even date and have fun. And here I was wondering recently will I ever get married but after reading this thread maybe I ain't missing much. To Sir, with Love | |
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My husband and I have been good friends for going on twenty years. We love each other very much, but this grew with time and patience. I wouldn't trade him for the world. | |
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GetAwayFromMe said: My husband and I have been good friends for going on twenty years. We love each other very much, but this grew with time and patience. I wouldn't trade him for the world.
Marriage is not always bad, if you find the right partner, it is great. After years of being together you feel a certain closeness to your spouse. They become a part of your life. They know you better than anyone else and you can have great conversations with them. You don't feel the need to hide anything from them. You can discuss any problem with them and know they care and understand you. When they hug you, you feel the love and return it. | |
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pplrain said: GetAwayFromMe said: My husband and I have been good friends for going on twenty years. We love each other very much, but this grew with time and patience. I wouldn't trade him for the world.
Marriage is not always bad, if you find the right partner, it is great. After years of being together you feel a certain closeness to your spouse. They become a part of your life. They know you better than anyone else and you can have great conversations with them. You don't feel the need to hide anything from them. You can discuss any problem with them and know they care and understand you. When they hug you, you feel the love and return it. you give me hope To Sir, with Love | |
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A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong. | |
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PEJ said: pplrain said: Marriage is not always bad, if you find the right partner, it is great. After years of being together you feel a certain closeness to your spouse. They become a part of your life. They know you better than anyone else and you can have great conversations with them. You don't feel the need to hide anything from them. You can discuss any problem with them and know they care and understand you. When they hug you, you feel the love and return it. you give me hope I have to say when I first met my hubby I was not attracted to him. I was actually scared to date him. I also thought he was gay LOL. He's tall, blonde, green eyes. Totally opposite of me. He kinda grew on me. Not saying this is the receipe for finding someone  but you never know from which direction love can come and strike you blind. LOL.[Edited 2/11/09 10:23am] | |
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pplrain said: PEJ said: you give me hope I have to say when I first met my hubby I was not attracted to him. I was actually scared to date him. I also thought he was gay LOL. He's tall, blonde, green eyes. Totally opposite of me. He kinda grew on me. Not saying this is the receipe for finding someone but you never know from which direction love can come and strike you blind. LOL.
[Edited 2/11/09 10:23am]  To Sir, with Love | |
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Graycap23 said: A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.
always forgives....nope i dont think so....admit shes wrong, okay thats fair. Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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pplrain said: Actually I'm married for 14 years now and yes it is not smooth sailing but I was friends with my hubby before dating him. We still disagree on key issues.
 Now most of our decisions revolve around our daughter.14 years, congratulations girl! Friends first is the way to go and i aprreciate how you all think of your daughter when you make desicions. Stay together girl and keep the passion alive! I learned that whenever you argue you gotta forgive, let go and let God.  Cuzzin'... when Spooky say dead, u better say died. | |
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MRGee said: When ya first start dating all LOVEY DOVEY....Married and it's PROBLEMS. Lies..Fights. Tears. IRRECONCIABLE DIFFERENCES. I Cannot Forgive and Forget. Things Change and then it's just NO Good. And I Can't wait for it to be LEGAL. Well, it's never been in any Church. I don't think I'll get Married Again and if I do it's gonna be in a long time. I'm gonna just Date and have Fun.
I'm sorry. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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MRGee said: Thing is OPPOSITES DO NOT ATTRACT....LIFESTYLES MUST BE THE SAME. I'm TOO YOUNG 2 GET OLD. I Miss Prince so Much. I wish I was in CALIFORNIA right now. I just wanna be where Prince is. I Hate where I Live. It's Boring and Cold and I Hate Florida too.
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Marriage only works when you're both investing in it - if one partner neglects the other then its only a matter of time before they're going to try to find what they're lackng by other means(or if not actively seek it, then not reject an advance from someone new). Even the most 'loved up' and faithful person can only live their life so long without being loved and appreciated by their partner, before they start to doubt their own worth. I'm not stopping. I haven't even taken my coat off
C'mon and dance while you, while you still have your cherry babe, cherry babe.. www.KerrysCakes.org.uk | |
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I've known my partner for 19 years and we've been a couple for 14 of those years, I have no intentions of getting married, just don't see the point after all these years. Sometimes Life is like the post...You just don't get it! | |
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pplrain said: PEJ said: you give me hope I have to say when I first met my hubby I was not attracted to him. I was actually scared to date him. I also thought he was gay LOL. He's tall, blonde, green eyes. Totally opposite of me. He kinda grew on me. Not saying this is the receipe for finding someone but you never know from which direction love can come and strike you blind. LOL.
[Edited 2/11/09 10:23am] There is no such things like secrets recipes anyway but your example and opinions are relevants
As long as two people don't understand that loving someone is also respecting eachother's freedom then nothing is possible. Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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