When ya first start dating all LOVEY DOVEY....Married and it's PROBLEMS. Lies..Fights. Tears. IRRECONCIABLE DIFFERENCES. I Cannot Forgive and Forget. Things Change and then it's just NO Good. And I Can't wait for it to be LEGAL. Well, it's never been in any Church. I don't think I'll get Married Again and if I do it's gonna be in a long time. I'm gonna just Date and have Fun.

Thing is OPPOSITES DO NOT ATTRACT....LIFESTYLES MUST BE THE SAME. I'm TOO YOUNG 2 GET OLD. I Miss Prince so Much. I wish I was in CALIFORNIA right now. I just wanna be where Prince is. I Hate where I Live. It's Boring and Cold and I Hate Florida too.
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Actually I'm married for 14 years now and yes it is not smooth sailing but I was friends with my hubby before dating him. We still disagree on key issues. Now most of our decisions revolve around our daughter.

i hope things get better for you!

Thank you Kim.

Going on 12 years here. I don't think things necessarily get worse as a rule.
Things do change, for sure. Everything is no longer "cute" or new and you both have real problems to deal with...together. But if it's a good pairing (partner and I are pretty opposite in a lot of ways) and the love is still there I really believe relationships can last.

Sorry it didn't work out for you. Hope in the future it will be better.

johnart said:

Ditto.

My wife and I are... um... about as "opposite" as two spouses can get. Or, on second thought, maybe we have a bit too much in common. (+) ...But it works with a bit of work, faith, give and take, trust and devotion.

Be well, take your time, and don't give up on finding something long term.
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Thanks. You think it's gonna last forever. Seems like my relationships with my boyfriends lasted longer. I mean Marriage hasn't worked for me at all. First one lasted 2 years this one has lasted well it's under a year. Both didn't want the Divorce and still want the Sex. I always pick the ones who are my opposite and it Never works. I really think one has to live together first to make sure you are Compatiable. I'm a Night person and also like Music and Clubbing and I always have significant others that are DAY PEOPLE. I think I need a Musician or some NightWorker or Actor. Actually, none like Prince to the degree that I do or care about Music really that much or like Sushi so I should have known. It always was about Sex.they only want me for Sex , but all other things ,well we don't have the same Tastes. And then I just don't want them anymore. It's always me. I get so BORED.. Men honestly don't want a woman with a Brain.
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Well, we FINALLY fully agree on something!
Yes I think living together should be a MUST before marriage.

Don't worry about them liking Prince.
My partner only tolerates the "hits".
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Don't worry I'm sure you'll find your soulmate.

My partner won't go see Zappa plays Zappa with me

ZombieKitten said:

kick his ass...I would never ever pass that up

IAintTheOne said:

I concur, kick his ass

ZombieKitten said:

Who?

ocean said:

mdiver said:

I had a feeling that was coming

ocean said:

You got off lightly.

Frank Zappa's son playing Frank Zappa's music

mdiver said:

Dweezil

mdiver said:

Huh? ...Im really asking for it huh

ocean said:

Oh God!

mdiver said:

Him....why didn't u say so
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ocean said:

How did you get this far in life?

mdiver said:

Stubble my way through and hope for the best

keep lookin for that kindred, they'll show up :

MRGee said:

Marriage has it's advantages Ever heard of "Why buy the when you can get the milk free". Besides packing all your "stuff" over to their crib, there is till the chance they could kick your butt to the curb with a smile and good riddence. Then what? When did morals into Hummm. Date single "women" and single "men" cool. But trust is a must, is what I tell myself. keep it fresh, young and be Wild...alittle.

MRGee said:

And sorry to hear.

MRGee said:

But if they only want you for sex then you DO have something in common because you both seem to be sex oriented people. How important is sex in your life?

Why don´t you like Florida ? It´s sunny, it´s hot, it´s humid. What´s not to like about it ? And it has those beautiful keys.

I've had bad luck with both my wives.
The first one left me, and the second one didn't.

Florida is just that HOT! All The Time...California is MUCH BETTER as is NYC. Plus, I'm allergic to the sun so I can't go out in it. Well, on the Sex tip it's a Great thing,but once you have IRRECONCIABLE DIFFERENCES you don't feel like having Sex anymore with that person and you are still Married and it really sucks cause you have to wait for it to be FINALIZED.