What is more important in your life?
Money? Being able to buy whatever your heart desires.
Family? Having a loving family that cares about you.
Love? Having that wonderful person in your life.

Does it have to be one or the other? I want it all.

Love is the most important thing for me.

love and martina

ehuffnsd said:

IB?

johnart said:

I am sorry you have to choose... you can never have both.

I don't have money, nor "a wonderful person in my life".

I see my family about once every two months or so.

Why do I need to choose one?
They both make me happy.

Love and family.

Because there was a time when my family and I wasnt blessed with the things we have now such as money. Being able to buy whatever we wanted didnt happen. But mom loved us and kept loving us. Thats why love is more important to me.












wow i went too deep into this

Money alone doesnt make me happy. Billie Dee said it best.

pplrain said:

If only one...then love.
But I love my man and we're workin on the money part. So

johnart said:

that's cheating

If I'm honest it's probably money. Don't get me wrong. Love is great but along with it comes all kinds of junk....

I'm officially.....bitter. Mark the date.

Family - which to me is real love

then money

then romantic love

Money, first, last and always.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Welcome to the club. You should come to the next meeting. We're serving chocolate (dark, of course) and Boddington's.

My lovelife is anything but happy, but I still cannot understand how anybody can choose money over love. If I could choose to be poor and happy in love or rich and not loved I wouldn't hesitate for one second what I'd prefer.

pplrain said:

Love & family - pretty much equally and intertwined

then $ I guess but not really - that's not second on my what makes me happy list at all

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

And money let's you buy junk!

Money come & go in a heartbeat.

Family STAYS,,,,even if they hate you, and you hate them.

Harlepolis said:

Then what good is that?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

move over.
Well, I love money...

CarrieMpls said:

Because loneliness is a bitch,,,,,and I'm not a good loner.

Harlepolis said:

Eh, I'd much rather be alone than surrounded by people I hate or who hate me.
Or people who simply aren't good for me for that matter.


Although, I do love my family. But it took many years and plenty of distance to get there. So it's best off that way.

CarrieMpls said:

It was a figure of speech of course we don't hate each other even though I would love to strangle afew of them

But I'm so sensitive when it comes to my family, its disgusting and worst of all, I'm REALLY aloof when it comes to strangers,,,,,not a healthy behaviour. I'm trying my damndest to work on it though, thats for sure.

Money.

"Money can't buy you happiness, but it will pay for the search"

Love makes me happy. Being in love is just as good if you are rich or poor.
But being rich and no one to share your life with would suck. The less money I have had in life, the less complicated things were. I'd sleep curled up next to my sweetie in a cardboard box.

rnljs said:

I like your answer.

LOVE. you can get creative with money but I'd rather have true love over wealth

To me family = love. You can decide to make money or not, you can also decide who to call family, but you can't make someone love you, that you have to earn.

love makes me happy, real love... like the love I have with my children like the love I intend to share with the right man when the time is right. Love, not lust or infatuation.... Love.