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Thread started 04/07/09 8:46am

baroque

Org Advise.

So a I miss my best friend. We been friends since 4th grade. Well two years ago we had a some of a falling out. A big argument happen. Which ended badly. My question is i am missing said friend.(actually he was the only friend i've had)
just I call him and make up or should he call me and make up? should i be to proud to beg?
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Reply #1 posted 04/07/09 8:48am

hokie

baroque said:

So a I miss my best friend. We been friends since 4th grade. Well two years ago we had a some of a falling out. A big argument happen. Which ended badly. My question is i am missing said friend.(actually he was the only friend i've had)
just I call him and make up or should he call me and make up? should i be to proud to beg?



Call him. It's been 2 years. Be a grown up. Life's too short. We can all use as many good friends as possible.

hug
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Reply #2 posted 04/07/09 8:49am

empr

baroque said:

So a I miss my best friend. We been friends since 4th grade. Well two years ago we had a some of a falling out. A big argument happen. Which ended badly. My question is i am missing said friend.(actually he was the only friend i've had)
just I call him and make up or should he call me and make up? should i be to proud to beg?


Call him!!! Friends are on of the most important virtues in life
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Reply #3 posted 04/07/09 8:49am

thekidsgirl

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If I were you I'd call him
If you will, so will I
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Reply #4 posted 04/07/09 10:07am

Graycap23

Life is 2 short 4 ego.....give him a call.
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Reply #5 posted 04/07/09 10:49am

amorbella

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call him. things will be okay hug
Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize
u simply imagined this
So u lean over and give her a kiss
Here on earth, here on earth,
with u it's not so bad
Here on earth, here on earth
eye don't feel so sad
Stay right here
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Reply #6 posted 04/07/09 12:05pm

baroque

thank you guys. i ask this because i had an upsetting dream in which there is something gravely wrong with him. unknown to him is my feelings for him.
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Reply #7 posted 04/07/09 12:08pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
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depends why you aren't speaking.
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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Reply #8 posted 04/07/09 12:09pm

hokie

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

depends why you aren't speaking.



boo


Shut up Richard.
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Reply #9 posted 04/07/09 12:10pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
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hokie said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

depends why you aren't speaking.



boo


Shut up Richard.

I haven't spoken to my best friend of 20 years for the past 2 years. She owes me an apology and after bending over backwards for her for all that time, I'm done! lol
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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Reply #10 posted 04/07/09 12:10pm

Imago

baroque said:

So a I miss my best friend. We been friends since 4th grade. Well two years ago we had a some of a falling out. A big argument happen. Which ended badly. My question is i am missing said friend.(actually he was the only friend i've had)
just I call him and make up or should he call me and make up? should i be to proud to beg?


You have to first ask yourself, why you miss them.

Are you in a place in life where you feel you need to connect with someone, and he's become a proxy for those feelings?

Or do you genuinely miss him for it's own sake? Sometimes, reminiscing about the good times obscures why you fell out.

I've had many best friends, and a few falling outs with some of them. Innocense is lost, and even when we hookup to talk something is missing the second time around. Maturity thrown into the mix doesn't curb these feelings much.


Although I heard good news about one of my ex-best friends recently and it made me joyous beyond words for him. I just don't think calling him up to express this accomplishes much for me. shrug


Do what YOU think is best for yourself. Whatever the consequences, use it as a lesson.

"Be a light unto yourself"--Buddha
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Reply #11 posted 04/07/09 12:12pm

hokie

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hokie said:




boo


Shut up Richard.

I haven't spoken to my best friend of 20 years for the past 2 years. She owes me an apology and after bending over backwards for her for all that time, I'm done! lol



lol I just wanted to use that emoticon.
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Reply #12 posted 04/07/09 12:45pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

I think you should call him.
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
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Reply #13 posted 04/07/09 12:47pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I think you should call him.

Especially since he's a fellow witch and is probably sensing something for real nod
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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