Natisse said:

Why?

Can one be sexy in their own mind? If so, should they?

JustErin said:

because I don't think I'm attractive at all, and am pretty damn sure men don't either lol

JustErin said:

Maybe its just me then
I can think of loads of people that are attractive but I don't necessarily think their sexy ....but I can't think of one that I think is sexy but not attractive

Graycap23 said:

Yes, that's why I asking. And why not, right?

Hells yeah. Why? Because I am totally awesome and hot. Nuff said?

JustErin said:

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder.....have u seen these overweight women in very tight clothes? Not a good look.

If you find yourself sexy, then you don't need anyone else. Fuck everyone else! It's all about what YOU think! SHIT! If you don't find yourself sexy, what makes you think someone else should? Even though I REALIZE that most women don't find me sexy, I STILL know that I'm sexy. It's about YOU! YOU should acknowledge the positive within. All that peripherally diverted bullshit is so diluted and trite in matter. Focus on your cerebral. Don't rack your brain of what others think. I sometimes do that a lot. Well, I'll tell you this much; even if I don't exactly practice what I preach WHOLEHEARTEDLY, at least I acknowledge the vices. Let's all get a grip on our self-love. It practically dictates the weight of your efficacy.
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JustErin said:

I'm a bit scared of my sexiness sometimes I feel it's an unknown quantity - like it's there bubbling under the surface and I've never even tapped it's potential.
Like yesterday, this guy came to measure up our bathroom for the shower screen (that still hasn't been put in ) and he was so early I was still in my tank top and mini and sweaty from my walk. I could feel it. The sexiness. If he had been remotely attractive and it was a scene from a porn film, it would have been so ON
Anyway, the quote he gave me was $300 lower than the same company had given the master, and when I told him my story he had to bend me over and give it to me hard.
Normally I wouldn't even think about it! Being sexy so does NOT cross my mind in usual day to day stuff.

ZombieKitten said:

This would make a great porn
I'm getting turned on just imagining it

thekidsgirl said:

It was going through my mind while it was happening it was SUCH a porn situation
Like our hallway was quite narrow, and me having to back up against the wall to let him pass through, and I KNOW he stole a peek at my heaving bosom - how could he not, it was in his face

MoniGram said:

that's 31,556,926 moments right?

I couldn't act conventionally sexy to save my life. Believe me, I tried in my early 20s. But I'm an excellent tapdancer and have an okay voice, as well as cutting sarcasm when cornered. Guys looking for "something different" are the ones who give me their numbers. It's a rare occurence, I'm a rare breed, and I'm the last descendant of my almost-extinct bloodline. Wait, what is this thread about?

JustErin said:

have you heard the album?

RenHoek said:

INSATIABLE said:

Conventionally sexy is so droll. Who wants a drone sex robot when you can have a sex kitten that oozes sex in a different fashion (Zooey Deschanel). You don't need to be raunchy or raucous to exude sexiness. It's natural. Just let it flow like a waterfall. *SPLASH*

ZombieKitten said:

!!!!!

OMG, what I wouldn't have done to be a fly on the wall, though I think I probably would have laughed at the whole thing!

ZK: 'Wow, that sure is a big tool box you got there'

Guy: 'I hope my tape measure is long enough for you'

Zk: 'Let's step in the shower and see'

ZombieKitten said:

Zombie..just screams sexy!

Mysterioso said:

There's a few of us where it's far from natural. Some of us are as awkward as day-old giraffes until the day we croak. Survival of the fittest, and all that. Maybe 'conventionally sexy' folk are the ones with the golden genes, the ones who will save us from ourselves. The rest of us, well, God's got his own Equal Opportunity bullshit going on, mayhap.

I think I can be. But don't think I really am. Pretty ordinary here.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Hence, being the reason why she's my little CyberSexKitten.

thekidsgirl said:

Imagine how hard you would have killed the moment when they heard a fly laughing!

ZombieKitten said:

I agree. This story is a major turn-on. It's not impossible you could have gotten more than $300 off. Sexiness is so powerful.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

x 10000!!!!

ZombieKitten said:

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Hot

BlueZebra said:

I think it's the way my mind works that makes me sexy.

I think I'll change my answer and say that I do feel nerd sexy.

I think it's sexy to be intellectual.





Ooooh. My dimples are sexy too. I know it's a physical feature, but the fact that I have them makes me feel sexy.
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