for so many here....that I feel it can't hurt....positive thinking can do wonders...
So Im asking for your prayers for my Dad...he had surgery on his lungs a couple of weeks ago as he keeps getting fluid building up and they didn't know why.....(they drained 2 litres during the op.)

They have told us it is abestos related but no more than that.....they are sending the results to his GP for him to tell him ...(he saw his GP a couple of days ago but he still didn't have the results)

He has been staying with me since the op so I can change his dressings ....but I have spent all last night trying to convince him to go to the hospital as the wound is oozing...no spurting fluid ...if he sneezes or coughs it goes everywhere ..even with the thick dressing....last night he sneezed and it was all over his clothes and the floor....I don't know if they just took the drain out to soon or if this is fluid from his lungs just using the wound as an escape

I'm also terrified that we are going to be told he has x amount of time to live ....my father who has always been so big and strong....I can't lose him

hi baby. I will have him in my thoughts and wish with all my might for his recovery. I love you

I'm sorry Kylie, hang in there

Oh Ocean! I'm so sorry to hear that your dad is ill. I really would bundle him into the car pronto and get him back to the hospital to have it looked at, I'm no expert but I'm pretty sure it's not supposed to leak like that.

I'm sending you both loads of positive thoughts (cosmic ordering) and I hope he'll have a super-speedy recovery

And as for you, young lady, you know we're here if you need some more support

Thinking of you both.

he's in my prayers! i hope he will be fine and make a full recovery!

MrsGoodnight said:

Yes. Knock him over the head if you have to get him there Sorry hon, get his booty to the doctor. If he's being stubborn tell him there are crazy Prince people that might show up to do it for you

Fluids coming from a surgical wound I don't think would be a good thing. You could call the hospital,and ask them if it's something you should be concerned about or if it's nothing serious. If they say that it should'nt be doing that I would'nt even bother with taking him in your car I would call an ambulance to take him in.

Kylie I'm so sorry to hear this... you are all in my thoughts

Sorry 2 hear about that Ocean. I will say a prayer and keep u in mine. The miracle of prayer does work. Continue 2 have faith and we "The Org" are here with u. So lean on us when u feel as if u don't have the strength 2 stand. We will not let u fall. We love U Ocean and we will keep u in our hearts and prayers.

I'm so sorry to hear this.
You MUST get him to the hospital. That spurting thing sounds like there could be an infection or something involved.

I am sending positive thoughts his way.

Oh man Kylie.

I hope everything will be fine.

i would be terrified too.

back to the hospital...

Take matters in your own hands and call the Dr. They can easily tell you if it is normal and or not. To the extent you spoke of, it sounds like it needs a good look over.

oh man hun. Positivity coming ur way honey!!!!!

He should get it check out hun! Tell him some people u hang out with are telling him 2.

I know what that feels like, it's scary and terrifying. Think positively and all will be fine, thats what i've been getting from the org, and 2 not put the energy out there.

If u want 2 talk orgnote me! and ill give u my number.


Love M

I can understand why you're terrified...I would be too....
my heart and thoughts are with you and your Dad...hopefully everything's OK. (((hugs)))

Oh no! I'm sorry Kylie. That must be so tough. I'll be thinking of you guys and hoping that he gets better soon.

Thank u everyone ...u have no idea what it means to me ...*hug to u all*..
We took him to the hospital and they rung the hospital that he had his op at and they told us the results that we had been waiting to arrive at the GPs...

He has cancer ....and he is already talking about having no treatment...I can't type anymore as im lost for words and can't see through the tears

ocean said:

check your orgnotes...

You're in my prayers

It's absolutely worth a try, these days surgeons even ask patients' families to pray and get everyone they can to pray

and

Hun...good vibes and wonderful thoughts are with you! I truly hope all will be okay. Stay strong!

You have our positive thoughts and our prayers with him,you and the family. You know where we are if we can do anything.
Love always dear friend
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ocean said:

hang in there, girl!

you & your dad are in my thoughts!

I'm so sorry to hear, Ocean.

You and your family are in my thoughts. I was a wreck the year my mother had cancer.