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question about your ex's...and their new boo would it bother you more if your "replacement" was a carbon copy of you (looks, personality, body size, etc) or the total opposite of who you are? | |
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i find that it's really best to not dwell on it. don't you?  | |
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It wouldn't 
But my ex's new boyfriend is very creepy-looking so  | |
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Not at all, there is so much more essence in life then having to brood on the past. An EX is just an EX meaning they are now EXcluded from my life.
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It depends on how it ended. If I was dumped and replaced by someone like me, I'd be pissed. Luckily that never happened. I did dump a girl who went on to date one of my best friends. In this case, I felt like she was going for the lesser version of me and I turned it into an ego boost. | |
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ex is an ex for a reason, what she does with her life is her lookout. In fact i am/would be more worried for him because i know she has not changed. Poor fucker. | |
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Knowing my leafy green ass, it would bother me a bit either way. But I'd write a blog, do some poems, and get over it because that's their life. If they wanna carbon copy or play polar opposites to forget me, it shows I'm still on their mind.
Matter of fact, the little curly haired mutha DID try to replace me as a lover AND a friend and according to him, he ended up going to this blasphemous church where the pastor is a pimp and they drink in the church. He found that chick in a yahoo chatroom. Since we hardly talk anymore, I dunno if he's found someone else and frankly I don't care. He's triflin' as hell anyway and even his mama can't stand him. When he left Roni land, he lost ALL the privileges. Mint-infused shampoo treatments, cupcakes, pedicures, and unconditional love.  He gave up Lobster Bisque, y'all. | |
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My ex's current girlfriend and I really aren't much alike -but I think she's great. I think they're much better together than he and I ever were.
So I think it might weird me out a little if he'd chosen Me v2.0, but since he didn't it's all gravy.  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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LadyLuvSexxy said: Knowing my leafy green ass, it would bother me a bit either way. But I'd write a blog, do some poems, and get over it because that's their life. If they wanna carbon copy or play polar opposites to forget me, it shows I'm still on their mind.
Matter of fact, the little curly haired mutha DID try to replace me as a lover AND a friend and according to him, he ended up going to this blasphemous church where the pastor is a pimp and they drink in the church. He found that chick in a yahoo chatroom. Since we hardly talk anymore, I dunno if he's found someone else and frankly I don't care. He's triflin' as hell anyway and even his mama can't stand him. When he left Roni land, he lost ALL the privileges. Mint-infused shampoo treatments, cupcakes, pedicures, and unconditional love. He gave up Lobster Bisque, y'all.
That poor, lost soul.... "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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It wouldn't bother me as much if they looked like I do. Obviously, it would mean that she wasn't over me yet...which is actually what happened to me. My ex did cheat on me with a guy that did surprisingly look very similar to me. The great thing was...he treated her like crap!!! Karma is a bitch sometimes!  --If a man is considered guilty for what goes on in his mind, then give me the electric chair for all my future crimes.-- Electric Chair/Batman/Prince | |
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meow85 said: LadyLuvSexxy said: Knowing my leafy green ass, it would bother me a bit either way. But I'd write a blog, do some poems, and get over it because that's their life. If they wanna carbon copy or play polar opposites to forget me, it shows I'm still on their mind.
Matter of fact, the little curly haired mutha DID try to replace me as a lover AND a friend and according to him, he ended up going to this blasphemous church where the pastor is a pimp and they drink in the church. He found that chick in a yahoo chatroom. Since we hardly talk anymore, I dunno if he's found someone else and frankly I don't care. He's triflin' as hell anyway and even his mama can't stand him. When he left Roni land, he lost ALL the privileges. Mint-infused shampoo treatments, cupcakes, pedicures, and unconditional love. He gave up Lobster Bisque, y'all.
That poor, lost soul....  I treated him to some Omaha Steaks type of stuff. Oh well. Karma's on that azz now. I tried to defend his butt when my dad said that's what he gets for doin' me wrong. Now, I agree a thousand times over. He surely is a lost soul... | |
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The majority of my exes do seem to date people eerily similar to me. One or two are with the exact opposite.
I think it's the opposite that bothers me more. | |
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The people I've dated have almost all told me I'm much different than any other girl they've dated. I never know how to take that.
I don't really know who they go on to date after me. I don't think I really care. |
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Ya man, it irks me a bit. Especially if she's me with an upgrade. But I'm on good terms with my ex's so it's not something that drives me nuts or really, really upsets me. | |
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I couldn't have cared less when I was single about my ex or her new boo....what bugged the crap out of me was when they'd go out of their way to say hello to me if they were out together and we crossed paths....complete with the overemphasized introductions....or worse, when I ran into a couple of them after I'd gotten married and THEY acted all out of sorts....like "I can't believe you got married?" or like one who got pissed off, cursed me out, turned on a heel and walked off....and SHE'S the one who broke it off with me....
people are fucking crazy.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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PanthaGirl said: Not at all, there is so much more essence in life then having to brood on the past. An EX is just an EX meaning they are now EXcluded from my life.
 Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here | |
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i tend to go for a certain type, and most of my exs do so we all kinda look the same. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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It doesn't bother me either way. I have actually become friends with some of my different ex's boyfriends. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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PanthaGirl said: Not at all, there is so much more essence in life then having to brood on the past. An EX is just an EX meaning they are now EXcluded from my life.
Truth! But I'll have to come back to answer the thread question when/if it happens to me. I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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Fury said: would it bother you more if your "replacement" was a carbon copy of you (looks, personality, body size, etc) or the total opposite of who you are?
I don't think it would matter to me either way. I am moving on with my life and so is he. You like who you like.
That being said he'll never find anyone cuter than me. 
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The easy thing is just to avoid having 'ex's' altogether. | |
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violator said: The easy thing is just to avoid having 'ex's' altogether.
I hope I never have another one. The emotional damage is really painful. | |
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hokie said: violator said: The easy thing is just to avoid having 'ex's' altogether.
I hope I never have another one. The emotional damage is really painful. 
It takes courage to give yourself to someone to the degree that you risk the hurt. I try to avoid that, so I'm more emotionally vacant than most people. | |
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violator said: hokie said: I hope I never have another one. The emotional damage is really painful.
It takes courage to give yourself to someone to the degree that you risk the hurt. I try to avoid that, so I'm more emotionally vacant than most people. I was young and sort of naive to the workings of a real relationship. I want to get married again some day. It is going to be very different this next time though. It sounds bad, but it (getting married again) will be on my terms. I spent too many years holding back about my true feelings. Never again. You're hot. That makes up for being emotionally vacant. | |
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hokie said: violator said:
It takes courage to give yourself to someone to the degree that you risk the hurt. I try to avoid that, so I'm more emotionally vacant than most people. I was young and sort of naive to the workings of a real relationship. I want to get married again some day. It is going to be very different this next time though. It sounds bad, but it (getting married again) will be on my terms. I spent too many years holding back about my true feelings. Never again. You're hot. That makes up for being emotionally vacant. You say the most wonderful things...  | |
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Fury said: would it bother you more if your "replacement" was a carbon copy of you (looks, personality, body size, etc) or the total opposite of who you are?
I had an ex that did that, even down to the SAME NAME as me! I went up to her and said "So, how's the fake-ass twin version?" and she found it amusing...then fucked me a few weeks later. Ain't a stinker? nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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violator said: hokie said: I was young and sort of naive to the workings of a real relationship. I want to get married again some day. It is going to be very different this next time though. It sounds bad, but it (getting married again) will be on my terms. I spent too many years holding back about my true feelings. Never again. You're hot. That makes up for being emotionally vacant. You say the most wonderful things... OK, stop being nice to me lest Erin come here and punch me. | |
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MuthaFunka said: Fury said: would it bother you more if your "replacement" was a carbon copy of you (looks, personality, body size, etc) or the total opposite of who you are?
I had an ex that did that, even down to the SAME NAME as me! I went up to her and said "So, how's the fake-ass twin version?" and she found it amusing...then fucked me a few weeks later. Ain't a stinker? Only if you told her she shouldn't let the door hit her ass on the way out as soon as y'all were done..... 
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: MuthaFunka said: I had an ex that did that, even down to the SAME NAME as me! I went up to her and said "So, how's the fake-ass twin version?" and she found it amusing...then fucked me a few weeks later. Ain't a stinker? Only if you told her she shouldn't let the door hit her ass on the way out as soon as y'all were done.....
In fact, I said "Tell ya dude 'Thanks'" and her jaw DROPPED and she laughed and was like "That's fucked up". nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
MuthaFunka - Black...by popular demand | |
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