ArielB said:

I hardly ever doubt, I can almost always justify the decisions I make.....

i'm a poor decision maker for myself but make great choices for others.

most of the time.

I have no problem with big decisions, but small ones I waver
back and forth and almost drive myself crazy

Yes,but it really depends on what the decision is that needs to be made.

Teacher said:

May I get back to you on that?

Decisions at work - make them no problem, not always right decisions but I'm happy to make them.

Decisions at home - that's completely different, I'm totally rubbish at making decisions about my personal life.

I'm the youngest of eight. I'm terrible at making decisions. I have had to work hard to improve this personality trait.

Very good at making them

not that they are always "right, good" decision,

which I am greatful for because most times I leran far more from
"wrong,bad" ones which in turn makes my life "better"



I can not decide if i should post this ...

I'm generally very slow and deliberate. Tend to examine everything from every angle. But there are very few things that are urgent in life and this M.O. has served me very well. Once my mind is made up, I act decisively and don't look back.

I am usually pretty indecisive. (I'm a Gemini, so I have to look at things from at least 2 perspectives.) I am horrible to shop with--having too many choices overwhelms me. I need to only have 1 or 2 options otherwise I will pick one thing out but then have to compare/contrast with all the other styles/options forever; I'll generally change my mind multiple times before making a final decision. And sometimes I'll look at things for an hour and decide I don't like any the choices well enough to buy any of them! I even annoy myself with my inability to decide sometimes.

I also have a tendency to over-analyze everything which compounds the indecisive issue. Because then I'm like, "Did they mean this? Or did they really mean that? If they meant this then maybe I should do x. But what if they meant that--maybe I shouldn't do x because they'll think I meant y."


Even something as great as being somewhere with an open bar is a pain for me...there are too many choices of what to drink so I just end up ordering the same boring beer I always drink instead of trying something new.



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Absolutely not.

I guess...sometimez.

Awful. I overanalyse everything while Im trying to listen to my instincts, and get confused and get nowhere! I want someone else to make all my decisions for me, but I dont react well to other people's control Its a whole bunch of mess!

With most things... . ..there are a few things that have me up and down though

susannah said:

back atcha gorgeous... not long to go!

ocean said:

sure

I guess someone has to do it

I'd like to think I am....I know I'm not the best leader out there, but based on my experience, the ranks and positions I've held, and the general acclaim that I've garnered, I'm fairly certain I don't screw things up too badly....

...seriously, though, no matter how good your decision making skills are, if you don't have good people executing your decisions and plans, you're gonna be sleeping with the fishes in a relatively short time....

ZombieKitten said:

Yes someone does

susannah said:

Me too. I need to get over being that way.