...hmm?

Maybe.

wildgoldenhoney said:

I suck, I procrastinate but once I've decided then I do it.

'Tisse!

Teacher said:

hey hon! ...and I'm the same. With big decisions I'm terrible but once I've made that decision I'm full force ahead with it

Make your decisions or life will make them for you.

Hi, Nat.

Vendetta1 said:

Look at the woman going all wise on us... next you'll sit on a mountain somewhere saying "ooooohm" and giving cryptic advice to pilgrims.

Teacher said:

I just did a lot of growing up and hang out with some pretty smart people.

Vendetta1 said:

Good advice!! and Hi Vandetta

I'm getting much better. When I was married my husband made many of the decisions. Now that I'm on my own I've been forced to be the decision maker. I'm sure I'll make some mistakes, but it feels really great to be my own boss so to speak. I'm learning I'm a lot better at making decisions than I thought!

One of the best decisions I've made is to go back to school and become a nurse. It's a job that I'll love and it suits me really well.

Natisse said:

so sorry, Vedetta1 typo lol

Natisse said:

you know me better as Ivy.

Vendetta1 said:

Ivvvvvy!!!

Vendetta1 said:

You and me both

Natisse said:

hello beautiful.

hokie said:

Add to that that you're dating one of the most indecisive people I've ever met ("so what you wanna do today?" "I don't know"), sound familiar? Then you HAVE to make the decisions.
But you're right, being on your own you have no choice - sink or swim.

Vendetta1 said:

I miss you! every time I see Chicago I think of you and Chris

Natisse said:

I miss you, too.

ha! yes I am

ZombieKitten said:

You've got 500 kids, you have to be.

Teacher said:

I have a problem with my SO that if he says what you wanna do today, if I say "look at planes!" or "visit my sister!" or "ice-cream at the beach!" he doesn't want to so I usually leave it up to him.

ZombieKitten said:

Let me guess... he wants to do "lie on the couch", "nothing" or "whatever"?

Teacher said:

no, he's mr productive
he always has little cards with lists on them
if we can do something that achieves some of those things then we're in business

ZombieKitten said:

I'm a list maker too

ZombieKitten said:

like for example of he has to drop a drum kit off to the drummer in the band (who lives with my sister) then a visit to my sister is an option and we can go past the sound guy's place to pick up the PA or something on the way. He will make me drive so he can make 10 phone calls.
In the end, I rather just stay home

ZombieKitten said:

What are you, his driver?

You should go "_I_ am doing this today - what are you going to do?" It's what I did with my ex when I got tired of asking him what he wanted to do.

Teacher said:

if I did that, I would never see him

Teacher said:

You could say Ariel is indecisive or how I choose to see it is that he is determined to please me and make me happy.

hokie said:

It's better to see it that way or you'd go mad

Seriously though, I'm so happy for you guys I can't even decribe it. Said it before but still.

Sorry Nat, I will stop jacking your thread now. That's a decision!

Teacher said:

I'm not sure if I'm indecisive. I think I'm not.

Teacher said:

Thanks.

I'm really happy.