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I have a really good understanding of men - I want my men to be MEN - not convert them into my best girlfriend




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Mach said:

Listen lady, I'm only trying to create good will and understanding in the straight community!

Mach said:

you just TOTALLY RUINED a really great Prince song for me...

i keed, i keed...

RenHoek said:

Mach said:

what makes a man a man? what is masculine?

" ... baby can i dress you? i mean help you pick out your clothes... before we go out! "

RenHoek said:

that's one of my favorite Prince songs, too.

JasmineFire said:

i only like live versions of it.

ehuffnsd said:

That song blew me away when I FINALLY "got" it... at first I was like then I was and then I was like now I'm all ...

RenHoek said:

how long was it before you feel you finally understood the song?

Mach said:

A woman after my own heart.

I mean...really. What is there to understand? Feed 'em, fuck 'em, let 'em watch football.

Mach said:

I love you Mach!!!!!

Genesia said:

This is why I'm single.

I'm not confused by men at all, they are pretty simple creatures IMO.

What is there fascination with boobs. I have them,and I don't see what the big deal is.

I don't understand the propensity towards violence or competition.

CarrieMpls said:

It's called testosterone.

Genesia said:

maybe you should get some pills from the doctor?

CarrieMpls said:

I'm with you Carrie Gay guys go wild and crazy over that ultimate fighting and the shit makes me want to literally throw up

EmeraldSkies said:

I do find it amazing that a man can get a boner over them But I get a boner over boners so I'm sure they're just as flumoxed

I'm trying to think of something!!

JustErin said:

I'm not a woman but since I date men I'll throw one out there.

How can I know every inch of my partner but he can't remember shit about anything that makes me tick and it's like he's having a conversation with a stranger after 5 years? DO. NOT. UNDERSTAND

SCNDLS said:

can you help me than... i'm hella confused!

Ok we can plan a trip somewhere i give you make up tips you give me men tips.

ehuffnsd said:

Sounds like a plan.

But I'm not sure if my understanding of straight men applies to the gays. I mean, I can always confuse or distract a straight dude with the pussy. See, simple. Gay men might prove a bigger a challenge to my analytical skills. They're a wily sort.

CarrieMpls said:

Competition goes right back to getting a mate. Every competition is like proving yourself a worthy mate to a female, even if women are bored by us winning at ping pong.

Violence comes from testosterone. It's hard being a man, and we are filled with rage. That said I have never been a violent person because I believe we can make the right choices despite what we feel.

EmeraldSkies said:

I don't understand it either, nor ass, nor face for that matter. We're programmed to like the female form, and goddammit I do!

Women's bodies feel very nice, though. All soft, smooth and round!

Actually, one thing about boobs is that they are one of the most obvious differences between men & women. Like a beard on a man, it's something that is an obvious indicator of sex. I've noticed boobs on women for much longer than I've noticed ass, legs, necks, bellies, lower back, etc.
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I guess this could go for women as well, but it is mostly men. I can not understand for the life of me, how my husband can watch a whole football game, and quickly switch over to the next channel and watch another game...in progress. Drives me nuts! He is the ultimate sports junkie, he knows I have no interest in the games, but I'll still sit in the room with a good book or magazine, just to keep him company...and even though, I have no idea, NO IDEA about football, he insists on giving me a running comentary on what's going on. God love him. and this is me. followed by and eventually this

SCNDLS said:

i'm thinking Nice or Monoaco and i think you may be right.