My first boyfriend, way back in the day when i was 15, was effeminate...is it because of that that i have an attraction to gay men??? is that unusual????


seriously, i love gay men, the ones i have met are handsome, articulate, witty, attentive, poised, just like me.....can i have one for my own??? please???

myfavorite said:

Oh no. I can't meet you. I'm none of the above.

who hasn't had the hots for a gay man?
I seem to just in general be drawn to unavailable/uninterested men, period.

thekidsgirl said:

Me too

Wouldn't that be the reason you like them?

thekidsgirl said:

there's quite a few hot ones around here... too bad, I can't use my feminine wiles on them lol (and 2 caught my eye lol )

i seem to be attracted to gay men as well.

ehuffnsd said:

I, alas, am attracted to straight men. It sucks.

HamsterHuey said:

It does.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

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thekidsgirl said:

oh well...

Mars23 said:

care to elaborate???

ehuffnsd said:

what a sick thread, huh??? ...

myfavorite said:

yeah, it's disgusting if you think about it. You (me too btw) like men who take care of themselves, smell good, look good, are sensitive (so important), funny etc and what do they do? They share themselves with another man?!?!?!?!?!?

How can they do that to us

myfavorite said:

You know, birds of a feather and all that...I'm attracted mostly to guys with the same personality as I am. Chicks too!

My first boyfriend was a crackhead

CJanssen said:

I can't find it on youtube but Margaret Cho had joke where she said she prayed to god to be surronded by attractive and senstive guys, but she forgot to include that she wanted to be able to sleep with them.

CJanssen said:

My first boyfriend was gay. It was sort of a good thing. We watched MTV's House of Style and went shopping together. He never pressured me sexually because he wasn't interested. We had a great deal of fun together but I loved him too much.

He had a very controlling religious mother who almost seemed to be losing her mind. I think she was a huge reason he stayed in the closet as long as he did.

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myfavorite said:

i wouldn't say you like gay men exactly, you just like a less macho/more metro guy. i'm the same way, my friends give me shit for it but i don't give a fuck. they're hot

ehuffnsd said:

Listen, how can I tell you that I was THE EXPERIMENT. I was the GIRLFRIEND the one they could do things with. I brought Most OUT and then I LOST THEM. I think they were all BI-SEXUAL ACTUALLY. I would have Gay guys as FRIENDS ALWAYS,but nowadays I DON'T NEED Them to SLEEP WITH ME. We are ALWAYS ATTRACTED to SENSITIVE,FASHIONABLE MEN. I would do ANYTHING to help with their ISSUES. I SUPPORT GAY MEN and WOMEN FOREVER....

dawntreader said:

....wow, i've heard that term before.

MRGee said:

However, I think (my opinion) that bi-sexual men are the worst. I'm not saying being bi-sexual is bad (would be hypocritical) but bi-sexual men are creepy because they act as if they care about women, sleeping with them but at the same time they are very stimulated to stick it somewhere dark and smelly, after that they stick it back to you, just plain gross. A gay man sticks with a gay man at least.
I dated a bi-sexual guy (1993). First I didn't know. He acted all though and cool, trying to get me in bed. I had my wonders why every woman we met when going out said "girl, you've picked the best man in the world" sentences like that make me AND very suspicious.
Turned out I was right, that ass was a woman hater to the max. He would watch football and then suddenly hit me in the face with his elbow, not even reacting or appologising. He was always watching movies with themes like men who dressed up like women to get a girl etc. Then after a few weeks he asked me, sitting cosy in a bar.... if I liked Tom Cruise because he did and I suddenly knew he was gay like hell. He said he was bi and went to gay bars but it didn't mean anything..... He really wasn't that sensitive, or funny or whatever that lots of gay men are. But I'm sure not all are like that ass I dated.

and you know what??? How can a guy be shrewd, charming .....and nasty.


NO POO POO PETUNIAS PLEASE...thank you.

myfavorite said:

...there are some straight men with poise yaknow..


and i know plenty smelly, ig'nant, hoe-ass gay men as well so...


maybe you just like good people, and hang out in gay places. (note: i have no idea if there is such a thing as a gay place- i'm assuming someone will verify or correct. )

SirPsycho said:

...except san francisco...i'm told san fransico is preeeeetty gay.
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