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Reply #90 posted 01/13/09 7:26pm

ZombieKitten

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:



my dad had an explanation to this:
he said they need to know how good it is and the way to find out, is by gauging bad it feels once they don't have it any more

err

I've had 2 boyfriends do exactly this, my dad said the second was just making sure that I was the one he was going to marry. I was like WTF!!! what a HORRIBLE way to do that! My dad was right about this particular case eek


I just don't get that mentality at all. A guy I know and had hooked up with a few times, asked me out, then acted like he wanted to spend the night together but then totally rejected me at the 11th hour. He later confessed that he was dating someone and wanted to test himself to see if he liked her enough to not cheat on her. Thanks, fucker. mad

That kinda shit...I don't get AT ALL.


idiot mad
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Reply #91 posted 01/13/09 7:39pm

Amaxx

ZombieKitten said:

Here's what I don't understand really, why do men want to be with women - like live with them and stuff? suckers for punishment if you ask me eek
like really, why choose a mate who likes talking when you hate listening? confuse

The answer 2 this would be "SEX"!
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Reply #92 posted 01/13/09 7:48pm

ZombieKitten

Amaxx said:

ZombieKitten said:

Here's what I don't understand really, why do men want to be with women - like live with them and stuff? suckers for punishment if you ask me eek
like really, why choose a mate who likes talking when you hate listening? confuse

The answer 2 this would be "SEX"!

so why on earth are you still sticking around then rolleyes
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Reply #93 posted 01/13/09 8:03pm

Amaxx

ZombieKitten said:

Amaxx said:


The answer 2 this would be "SEX"!

so why on earth are you still sticking around then rolleyes

I kinda not 2 bright! That's why! Plus a viable replacement isn't available! bawl
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Reply #94 posted 01/13/09 8:13pm

ZombieKitten

Amaxx said:

ZombieKitten said:


so why on earth are you still sticking around then rolleyes

I kinda not 2 bright! That's why! Plus a viable replacement isn't available! bawl

sigh comfort
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Reply #95 posted 01/13/09 8:21pm

Amaxx

ZombieKitten said:

Amaxx said:


I kinda not 2 bright! That's why! Plus a viable replacement isn't available! bawl

sigh comfort

Oh yeah! Woe is Me! lol
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Reply #96 posted 01/13/09 10:49pm

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SCNDLS said:

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I'll buy the book just to burn it. No interest whatsoever in sports lol I'm with Paisley rolleyes

lol That's YOU but many women, who want to "understand" their men, really want to learn the game.


When my man will sit and watch Project Runway with me every week and be truly interested, then I'll watch football with him. Turn about is fair play. razz




btw, I know the game. But, will my man let me teach him to design a dress? wink cool lol
[Edited 1/13/09 22:57pm]
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Reply #97 posted 01/14/09 2:46am

Flowers2

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

SCNDLS said:


lol I can relate and growing up my best friends were always guys. However, I've since been blessed with an awesome circle of sistafriends. We've been cool for almost 15 years with nary an argument and ZERO drama. woot! So, it's possible.


that's probably only because it's mutually assured destruction if one of you throws nukes on the other lol


falloff falloff
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Reply #98 posted 01/14/09 3:18am

Flowers2

pplrain said:

ehuffnsd said:


i've heard this saying, not 100% true but close

Women need love to have sex, and men need sex to be in love.


The sad truth.


[Edited 1/13/09 17:32pm]



yep, a sad reality... some men just don't get it..
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Reply #99 posted 01/14/09 4:40am

Ottensen

I don't understand why they can't wipe a damn kitchen counter clean after they go cooking and destroying my kitchen lol
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Reply #100 posted 01/14/09 5:12am

lascantas

Men are mysteries to me! But I like it that way.. lol lol

I like not understanding every. single. thing. I like the mystery and differences as much as I like the similarities.

I do not really think about it all that much. lol

I just like to have fun and not worry so much.

P.S. I am female, btw, but I love sports! I love boxing, tennis (Rafa Nadal yum, yum lol ) football is OK... let's see. Oh, I like the Olympics..

However, I have been to ultimate fighting matches and kick boxing matches with my husband (but we go to boxing matches more), and I not so much a fan of ultimate fighting. I prefer boxing, actually. I love athletes, actually. I love they are so physically fit.. And I love they are so focused when they are in the "zone." I love the intensity of it all.

I really love men!

Now, I love women, too, but I like the company of both men and women. I just do not analyze too much unless there is a problem--something to where I am in the position of analyzing. But on a daily basis, no,... I just do not think about it. lol
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Reply #101 posted 01/14/09 9:34am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


That's not what's being said. Men love through their dicks. I honestly question if men are capable of loving the way I know it in myself. I guess they're out there but they're hidden from my view pout
Maybe I'm confused: is she not saying a woman has to love a guy to fuck him?


Most women feel strongly about a guy before they screw them. Studies have shown that. Of course there are exceptions to the rule. I have been in a one man relationship for the past 14 years so I don't know really.
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Reply #102 posted 01/14/09 10:37am

gyro34

Why do men demand that their wives overwork themselves by taking over where their moms left off? I mean...before a woman marries, she has her job and parents to attend to. After she marries, she becomes a mommy to her husband because he simply refuses to do simple things like wash his own clothes.
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Reply #103 posted 01/14/09 10:44am

NDRU

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I also don't really get the whole date hot, sexual chicks but settle down with the drab, almost cold fish girl. The whole Madonna/whore thing that men have is something I don't understand.


I don't think the first part is any mystery, dating a hot sexual chick, right? Obvious.

As for the settling down part, I am with a girl that some people might see as cold or dull, but in fact she's just shy & not an attention whore or consumed with "being hot." With me she's a great companion, and not ditzy, not demanding, not crazy (relatively speaking, of course), not a supermodel but still very attractive. In short, she's a lot like me.

A "hot girl" certainly has her appeal, but some of them are difficult to be around for very long because they are more superficial, and not good companions except to superficial men.
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Reply #104 posted 01/14/09 10:46am

NDRU

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gyro34 said:

Why do men demand that their wives overwork themselves by taking over where their moms left off? I mean...before a woman marries, she has her job and parents to attend to. After she marries, she becomes a mommy to her husband because he simply refuses to do simple things like wash his own clothes.


because women let them? I cook & wash my own clothes!
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Reply #105 posted 01/14/09 10:50am

gyro34

NDRU said:

gyro34 said:

Why do men demand that their wives overwork themselves by taking over where their moms left off? I mean...before a woman marries, she has her job and parents to attend to. After she marries, she becomes a mommy to her husband because he simply refuses to do simple things like wash his own clothes.


because women let them? I cook & wash my own clothes!


You are an exception. I know of women that have tried to get their husbands to wash their own clothes without any success. But then, there are those like my mother. She spoils my dad.
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Reply #106 posted 01/14/09 10:52am

kimrachell

i don't understand why so many men love GIANT breast implants??? confused
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Reply #107 posted 01/14/09 11:01am

NDRU

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i don't understand why so many men love GIANT breast implants??? confused


I'm not sure we actually do. I think because men have a kneejerk reaction to look at big breasts, and that men obviously like breasts in general that some women think that men like big fake breasts.

maybe some men actually do like them but I don't understand it either
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Reply #108 posted 01/14/09 11:03am

NDRU

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gyro34 said:

NDRU said:



because women let them? I cook & wash my own clothes!


You are an exception. I know of women that have tried to get their husbands to wash their own clothes without any success. But then, there are those like my mother. She spoils my dad.


well i think it goes both ways. Maybe some people are raised to believe that women do that kind of work. The man has to believe it and not wash his clothes, and the women has to enable that belief by washing the clothes for him

If a woman stops spoiling her husband, he'll figure out how to use a washing machine. But some men may be harder to convince than others.
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Reply #109 posted 01/14/09 11:10am

DanceWme

why are y'all scrotums so wrinkly?
disbelief
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Reply #110 posted 01/14/09 11:12am

SupaFunkyOrgan
grinderSexy

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DanceWme said:

why are y'all scrotums so wrinkly?
disbelief

the balls are too small for the sack. IF they were bursting at the seams the skin would smooth out biggrin
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Reply #111 posted 01/14/09 11:12am

NDRU

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DanceWme said:

why are y'all scrotums so wrinkly?
disbelief


lol or better yet, why would god give us such an achilles heel? a six year old can easily take down the strongest man in the world--I've seen it on America's Funniest Videos!
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Reply #112 posted 01/14/09 11:15am

DanceWme

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

DanceWme said:

why are y'all scrotums so wrinkly?
disbelief

the balls are too small for the sack. IF they were bursting at the seams the skin would smooth out biggrin

botox



Chappelle said that lol
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Reply #113 posted 01/14/09 11:15am

DanceWme

NDRU said:

DanceWme said:

why are y'all scrotums so wrinkly?
disbelief


lol or better yet, why would god give us such an achilles heel? a six year old can easily take down the strongest man in the world--I've seen it on America's Funniest Videos!

falloff
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Reply #114 posted 01/14/09 11:16am

SupaFunkyOrgan
grinderSexy

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DanceWme said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


the balls are too small for the sack. IF they were bursting at the seams the skin would smooth out biggrin

botox



Chappelle said that lol

spit Considering it's a paralyzing agent, not so sure about that one lol btw, I love smoothing out the wrinkles batting eyes
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Reply #115 posted 01/14/09 11:17am

DanceWme

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

DanceWme said:


botox



Chappelle said that lol

spit Considering it's a paralyzing agent, not so sure about that one lol btw, I love smoothing out the wrinkles batting eyes

me too excited
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Reply #116 posted 01/14/09 7:27pm

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NDRU said:

JustErin said:


I also don't really get the whole date hot, sexual chicks but settle down with the drab, almost cold fish girl. The whole Madonna/whore thing that men have is something I don't understand.


I don't think the first part is any mystery, dating a hot sexual chick, right? Obvious.

As for the settling down part, I am with a girl that some people might see as cold or dull, but in fact she's just shy & not an attention whore or consumed with "being hot." With me she's a great companion, and not ditzy, not demanding, not crazy (relatively speaking, of course), not a supermodel but still very attractive. In short, she's a lot like me.

A "hot girl" certainly has her appeal, but some of them are difficult to be around for very long because they are more superficial, and not good companions except to superficial men.


Ah yes, the old "hot girls are superficial, lacking in personality and are crazy and the run of the mill girls are chalk full of awesome personality' line.
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Reply #117 posted 01/14/09 9:26pm

uPtoWnNY

NDRU said:

We're programmed to like the female form, and goddammit I do!

Women's bodies feel very nice, though. All soft, smooth and round!



Hell yeah! There's nothing more beautiful than a woman who's got it together.


Boobs are nice, but I'm more attracted to a woman with a fine bubble ass.
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Reply #118 posted 01/15/09 9:43am

NDRU

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JustErin said:

NDRU said:



I don't think the first part is any mystery, dating a hot sexual chick, right? Obvious.

As for the settling down part, I am with a girl that some people might see as cold or dull, but in fact she's just shy & not an attention whore or consumed with "being hot." With me she's a great companion, and not ditzy, not demanding, not crazy (relatively speaking, of course), not a supermodel but still very attractive. In short, she's a lot like me.

A "hot girl" certainly has her appeal, but some of them are difficult to be around for very long because they are more superficial, and not good companions except to superficial men.


Ah yes, the old "hot girls are superficial, lacking in personality and are crazy and the run of the mill girls are chalk full of awesome personality' line.


chalk, huh? such a hot girl wink

hey, if you know what the answer is, then don't ask the question! lol

Obviously there are great hot girls & lame plain janes, too, but think about it. Why else would a man want to settle down with someone "plain & boring" unless she's a great companion? And why would a man want to date hot girls except that they're beautiful on the outside? It's pretty obvious.

Also, remember from another thread that I have a different view of hot girls than you. I think hot girls are not necessarily prettier than plain janes, but they are superficially hotter (ie hair, makeup, clothes, attitude). So my definition of a hot girl is based on superficial qualities.

Besides which, I look around and there are plenty of hot young wives, and they marry very successful men, so everyone's happy.
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Reply #119 posted 01/15/09 1:06pm

reneGade20

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pplrain said:

ehuffnsd said:


i've heard this saying, not 100% true but close

Women need love to have sex, and men need sex to be in love.


The sad truth.


[Edited 1/13/09 17:32pm]



I'm the latest to call bullshit on this one, because I've had plenty of sex with women who were screaming "I Love You" at the top of their lungs after having just met me earlier that very evening....hell, I had one who offered to have my children after knowing me all of 4 hours....
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot)

the video for the above...evillol
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