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PrintableVendetta1 said: SCNDLS said: Seeeee. . .  Another one of my things that my friends think I'm crazy for is going to see Prince in Vegas so many times.   Shut the FUCK up! I was there that night!  So worth it, and it was the beginning of my Vegas Odyssey. Sooooo worth it. MOST of my friends think that was a waste of money.  | |
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Flowers2 said: reneGade20 said: but y'all very seldom take the girl to task for trying to write checks her coochie can't cash... I thought about it.. yes, we do take the chick to task... she'll get a bunch of this  .. why? cause she ignored all the signs, warnings, and all the advise others were trying to warn her about the truth... she completely walked in denial.... hey, a chick wants to walk in the fire, she'll get burnt.. ok..I may have been a bit TOO general with that statement...but in my experiences with my female friends (no, I mean the ACTUAL friends...  ), they have always gone the route of the pity party for the one who thought she could turn a hoe into a husband....
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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SCNDLS said: Vendetta1 said: Women think their coochies are magic.
 Mine IS magical. It doesn't shoot confetti or nuthin' like PaintedLady's but it's pretty darn spayshul. As for the dude Gade is talking about, I'd NEVER want a relationship with his ass. BUT depending on my mood, his looks, and whether I'm feeling him or not I MAY elect to make sport outta him and keep it movin'. I find that guys like this can't deal when a woman gets her jollies and doesn't want anything else from them. It's kinda funny. i was gonna say that....   'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..'
in a line from my dream, I heard a voice and saw a silhouette in a chair.. | |
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reneGade20 said: Flowers2 said: I thought about it.. yes, we do take the chick to task... she'll get a bunch of this .. why? cause she ignored all the signs, warnings, and all the advise others were trying to warn her about the truth... she completely walked in denial.... hey, a chick wants to walk in the fire, she'll get burnt.. ok..I may have been a bit TOO general with that statement...but in my experiences with my female friends (no, I mean the ACTUAL friends... ), they have always gone the route of the pity party for the one who thought she could turn a hoe into a husband....
Not my sistafriends. The rule is: If you don't want us to comment on the dumb shit you do, you better preface whatever you're about to say with a Just Listen Disclaimer. Otherwise, we're gonna talk about your ass, with all Christian love and kindness, though. | |
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SCNDLS said: reneGade20 said: First off, do I even have to say the words...?? (hint...outtacontrol... ) Next, you're right in that men are very likely to fall head over heels for a woman that gets her jollies at their expense....why, I couldn't tell you....but to me, its kinda my scenario in reverse....
Lastly...did I mention yo' ass is outtacontrol?? just checkin'.... 
The difference between me and SirDawg, if I understand correctly, is that he's gonna string this woman along, make promises he has no intention of keeping, tell her dumb, hopeful ass everything she wants to hear, then he's going to fuck around on her. Guys like SirDawg get off on keeping a lot of chicks on their line. I don't do ANY of that. Matter fact, if you're in the sport category, depending on where my head is at, you're prolly not getting a callback much less all that other stuff. That's too much damn energy. SPEAK IT!  | |
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SCNDLS said: reneGade20 said: First off, do I even have to say the words...?? (hint...outtacontrol... ) Next, you're right in that men are very likely to fall head over heels for a woman that gets her jollies at their expense....why, I couldn't tell you....but to me, its kinda my scenario in reverse....
Lastly...did I mention yo' ass is outtacontrol?? just checkin'....
The difference between me and SirDawg, if I understand correctly, is that he's gonna string this woman along, make promises he has no intention of keeping, tell her dumb, hopeful ass everything she wants to hear, then he's going to fuck around on her. Guys like SirDawg get off on keeping a lot of chicks on their line. I don't do ANY of that. Matter fact, if you're in the sport category, depending on where my head is at, you're prolly not getting a callback much less all that other stuff. That's too much damn energy. to an extent, you're right on it....but I'm moreso focusing in on the woman who, knowing in her soul that the guy is exactly as you describe, will soldier on in the hopes of trying to "CHANGE" him....or as I just said in my response to Flowers, she's trying to turn a hoe into a husband.... ...and it has been my experience, both personal and by extension, that when the sex is good (on either end) it will always take too much energy... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: SCNDLS said:
The difference between me and SirDawg, if I understand correctly, is that he's gonna string this woman along, make promises he has no intention of keeping, tell her dumb, hopeful ass everything she wants to hear, then he's going to fuck around on her. Guys like SirDawg get off on keeping a lot of chicks on their line. I don't do ANY of that. Matter fact, if you're in the sport category, depending on where my head is at, you're prolly not getting a callback much less all that other stuff. That's too much damn energy. to an extent, you're right on it....but I'm moreso focusing in on the woman who, knowing in her soul that the guy is exactly as you describe, will soldier on in the hopes of trying to "CHANGE" him....or as I just said in my response to Flowers, she's trying to turn a hoe into a husband.... ...and it has been my experience, both personal and by extension, that when the sex is good (on either end) it will always take too much energy... Okay, that's easy: She's a dumbass.
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purplekitty said: reneGade20 said: Okay, that's easy: She's a dumbass.
well, see....thats all y'all had to say from the get-go.....  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: to an extent, you're right on it....but I'm moreso focusing in on the woman who, knowing in her soul that the guy is exactly as you describe, will soldier on in the hopes of trying to "CHANGE" him....or as I just said in my response to Flowers, she's trying to turn a hoe into a husband....
...and it has been my experience, both personal and by extension, that when the sex is good (on either end) it will always take too much energy... clear case of denial | |
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Flowers2 said: reneGade20 said: clear case of denial which goes back to what Vendetta alluded to earlier...."magic coochie-itis"... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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johnart said: Vendetta1 said: I plopped down a coupla G's to see Prince NYE in 2006.
^^^^^ Does not compute. Would never happen. | |
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purplekitty said: Vendetta1 said: I plopped down a coupla G's to see Prince NYE in 2006.
Shut the FUCK up! I was there that night! So worth it, and it was the beginning of my Vegas Odyssey. Sooooo worth it. MOST of my friends think that was a waste of money.
Morris Hayes stopped to laugh at us. | |
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Vendetta1 said: johnart said: ^^^^^ Does not compute. Would never happen. Girl, don't hold it against him you know that nucca is EXTRA spayshul.  | |
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purplekitty said: Vendetta1 said: Would not happen now. Especially after THAT interview.
Girl, don't hold it against him you know that nucca is EXTRA spayshul. 
I also gotta have some assurances that I will not be sitting through a greatest hits revue again. go, go, go my ass.  | |
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Vendetta1 said: purplekitty said: Girl, don't hold it against him you know that nucca is EXTRA spayshul.
I also gotta have some assurances that I will not be sitting through a greatest hits revue again. go, go, go my ass. That DID get tide after awhile. | |
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markpeg said: What I don't understand about women is why they gossip so much.
Forgive my tardiness. 
I don't consider myself a gossip, nor are my female friends. There are plenty of other things to discuss, rather than dwell on talking about other folks. We talk about politics and local news mostly. I think it really depends on the person. Male or female. The two biggest busybodies and nosiest people I know are both men. People gossip, some more and some less. The men just get to call it bullshitting. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: markpeg said: What I don't understand about women is why they gossip so much.
Forgive my tardiness.
I don't consider myself a gossip, nor are my female friends. There are plenty of other things to discuss, rather than dwell on talking about other folks. We talk about politics and local news mostly. I think it really depends on the person. Male or female. The two biggest busybodies and nosiest people I know are both men. People gossip, some more and some less. The men just get to call it bullshitting. | |
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Vendetta1 said: noimageatall said: Yeah but men don't talk about other men like women talk about women. Thankfully, it's not something my closest girlfriends do. uhhh...yeah....I beg to differ...when men do dumb shit, other men give them the dogs life....and trust me when I tell you, men are just as catty as women when it comes to gossip concerning relationships....granted we could give a rats ass what another guys ass looks like in a pair of jeans (unlike y'all.. ), but if he's being played like monopoly by a woman, he might as well never come around again.....He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: Vendetta1 said: Yeah but men don't talk about other men like women talk about women. Thankfully, it's not something my closest girlfriends do. uhhh...yeah....I beg to differ...when men do dumb shit, other men give them the dogs life....and trust me when I tell you, men are just as catty as women when it comes to gossip concerning relationships....granted we could give a rats ass what another guys ass looks like in a pair of jeans (unlike y'all.. ), but if he's being played like monopoly by a woman, he might as well never come around again..... | |
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reneGade20 said: Vendetta1 said: Yeah but men don't talk about other men like women talk about women. Thankfully, it's not something my closest girlfriends do. uhhh...yeah....I beg to differ...when men do dumb shit, other men give them the dogs life....and trust me when I tell you, men are just as catty as women when it comes to gossip concerning relationships....granted we could give a rats ass what another guys ass looks like in a pair of jeans (unlike y'all.. ), but if he's being played like monopoly by a woman, he might as well never come around again.....I've seen that myself ... dudes raggin' on another dude cause his woman seems to control in the relationship or they're gossiping about some chick who has a reputation .. | |
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reneGade20 said: Vendetta1 said: Yeah but men don't talk about other men like women talk about women. Thankfully, it's not something my closest girlfriends do. uhhh...yeah....I beg to differ...when men do dumb shit, other men give them the dogs life....and trust me when I tell you, men are just as catty as women when it comes to gossip concerning relationships....granted we could give a rats ass what another guys ass looks like in a pair of jeans (unlike y'all.. ), but if he's being played like monopoly by a woman, he might as well never come around again.....I think Supa, et al, would disagree here.  "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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Vendetta1 said: noimageatall said: Forgive my tardiness.
I don't consider myself a gossip, nor are my female friends. There are plenty of other things to discuss, rather than dwell on talking about other folks. We talk about politics and local news mostly. I think it really depends on the person. Male or female. The two biggest busybodies and nosiest people I know are both men. People gossip, some more and some less. The men just get to call it bullshitting. 
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Psst: Men gossip, too, studies say Monday, May 28, 2007 3:32 AM By Gail Rosenblum Minneapolis Star Tribune
Men, you can deny that you engage in what you call shop talk, networking or locker-room banter. But the truth is, you gossip just as much as women do. That juicy tidbit is offered by the Social Issues Research Centre, a nonprofit think tank in England that recently interviewed 1,000 people about how they use their cell phones for gossip and how gossip affects their lives. Many male participants initially denied that they gossip, according to the study, while almost all of the women admitted doing so. The study found, however, that 33 percent of men indulge in gossip every day or almost every day -- compared with 26 percent of women.
It quoted definitions of gossip as "chatty talk among friends" and "the process of informally communicating value-laden information about members of a social setting." Other findings: • Men gossip more often with work colleagues, love partners and female friends; women prefer to dish primarily with female friends and relatives. • Men gossip about work, politics or other highbrow topics less than 5 percent of the time -- except around women, in which case the proportion devoted to sounding impressive increases to 15 percent to 20 percent. 
• Men talk much more about themselves than do women. Other studies -- including those at Northeastern University in Boston, the University of Virginia and the University of Wisconsin -- confirm the idea that gossip is universal. Gossip isn't all bad, however: To plenty of scholars, it fulfills an important role in daily interactions. Gossip can unite us, calm us and entertain us. Sometimes, gossip leads us to improved livelihoods ("Did you hear about the new job postings?") or home situations ("I heard your new neighbor does in-home day care"). Gossip can warn us about bad behavior, bad weather or, worse, bad people. It can even be deadly dull. ("So, that cashier -- you know, the one who likes bright pink lipstick -- well, she's moving into a bigger house with a basement apartment so her mother- in-law, the one with the bad heart, can move in, but not until she sells her house. . . .") Mostly, though, this form of banter gives us something we never think we have enough of: power. "Gossip," said Ken Stewart, a St. Paul, Minn., marriage and family therapist, "is the mutterings of the powerless." While women historically have drawn the short stick when it comes to power and control, Stewart said men have plenty of insecurities. Gossip is a way to try to regain control. Gossip wasn't always viewed as naughty. For primitive societies, it was a survival skill used to discredit the reputation of rivals. Later, the Old English term God-sibb literally meant "Next-Sibling," and typically referred to a woman's close female friends during the birth of a child. Through gossip, people learned about the good works of others that they could try to emulate. Only later did it lose its saintly status and come to mean the chatty talk about an unwitting third party. "Girl talk," said Jack Levin, with tongue planted in cheek. The professor of sociology and criminology at Northeastern University in Boston has been interested in the gender differences of gossip for decades and wrote a book about it in the 1980s. He suspects that "gossip-mongering," as he calls it, became associated with females as a way for men to discredit them. (And now we do it to each other)
"Women would stay at home and talk about men. Those men got very nervous. It was a way of belittling them." But his research also found that men -- from teenage boys talking about girls to middle-aged businessmen trashing sports stars -- gossip plenty. Yet, if Levin's research and the Social Issues Research Centre study are to be believed, only 5 percent in the research-center study -- and about 33 percent in Levin's work -- is critical or negative, the stuff we can't wait to read about in the checkout lines. Most of us indulge largely for a less cynical reason: We're genuinely interested in people. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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Vendetta1 said: I shoulda known your ass was gonna post an article.
  "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: Men gossip more often with work colleagues, love partners and female friends; women prefer to dish primarily with female friends and relatives[/b] [/quote]
so men hate that women gossip because they won't do it with THEM!!! | |
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reneGade20 said: Ok...here is what I've never understood about some women....
SCENARIO: Woman meets man, who on a good day would be called SirDawg... Woman KNOWS that SirDawg is only out for self...Woman also notices that when SirDawg walks into a Red Lobster, the lobsters in the tank stop moving around...they see SirDawg eyeballin' and flirtin' with any skirt that passes by, and roving eye syndrome easily qualifies as an UNDERSTATEMENT OF EPIC PROPORTIONS!!! QUESTION: Why do some women decide, in the depths of their souls, to not only get with him, but that THEY will be the one to get this leopard to change his spots.....? Could someone please explain this one, because I don't get it....especially when SirDawg does SirDawg and said woman gets MAD!!! What he said.
Woman typically follows up this episode by: Declaring loudly and repeatedly that there are no good men left in the world. And, upon finding a good man, making him pay for the mess that SirDawg left behind... | |
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ZombieKitten said: Lammastide said: That's another thing I don't get! No matter how big a purse a woman has, there's the need to pack it until the stitches are about to pop! What on earth do you carry in those things!?!did you read my very carefully written response?  Of course! But I think I asked before you went through your inventory. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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ThreadBare said: Declaring loudly and repeatedly that etc..
And, upon finding a good man, making him pay for the mess that SirDawg left behind...
that's the messed up part.. | |
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1- why is it women don't like to acknowledge they're pimping when they clearly are? (see: pimping= getting over on a male associate)
2-why must you say your not hungry when asked, only to pick off your man's plate at least 3 times? 3-why do you find a man more interesting once he shows no interest in you or (even more confusing) when he is taken, or is possibly involved with multiple others? 4-why do many of you insist you have no options, or no one wants you, when you can admit to knowing at least 3 men who want you but you dont deem them worthy? thats all i have for now... | |
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Lammastide said: ZombieKitten said: did you read my very carefully written response? Of course! But I think I asked before you went through your inventory.  | |
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