Mach said:

i used to put stuff in a purse, and very soon it would be in my pockets...
it was only a year or so ago that i started using wallets...
it keeps the cheaply made Florida driver's licenses from breaking...

Ok...here is what I've never understood about some women....

SCENARIO: Woman meets man, who on a good day would be called SirDawg...
Woman KNOWS that SirDawg is only out for self...Woman also notices that when SirDawg walks into a Red Lobster, the lobsters in the tank stop moving around...they see SirDawg eyeballin' and flirtin' with any skirt that passes by, and roving eye syndrome easily qualifies as an UNDERSTATEMENT OF EPIC PROPORTIONS!!!

QUESTION: Why do some women decide, in the depths of their souls, to not only get with him, but that THEY will be the one to get this leopard to change his spots.....?

Could someone please explain this one, because I don't get it....especially when SirDawg does SirDawg and said woman gets MAD!!!

reneGade20 said:

Women think their coochies are magic.

reneGade20 said:

.. it's an ego thing for women Renegade.... they feel they are the 'ultimate one' who will win to change him over.. and find out otherwise later..

reneGade20 said:

don't know...
don't waste my time with sirdawg....is this the same sirdawg that believes he can have any woman he wants??
maybe that's his brother...

Vendetta1 said:

wowwwww... magic coochie!!! ahem....errr, I mean WHATTT?!?!

Lammastide said:

I go bagless pretty often, if I'm wearing jeans and a coat with big pockets. But I always need to have, at minimum, my wallet, iPhone, keys, a hair tie, and lip balm. That stuff alone is a lot to weigh pockets down with, and as Carrie said, a lot of girl clothes don't have good pockets. Then if I'm wearing makeup I need to carry at least a powder compact and a lipstick for touch-ups. And I tend to be chronically early, so I like to carry a book or magazine and headphones as well.

So, if not "necessary", it sure helps!

Flowers2 said:

Well, I guess the part I don't get is that the dude gets pilloried for being what he was from the get-go....but y'all very seldom take the girl to task for trying to write checks her coochie can't cash...

peb319 said:

Yep...that would be him, indeed!! But that type of personality trait only comes about, IMHO, because of the girls and women who have fed that ego until it has a life of its own....

Vendetta1 said:

So kind of like a vicious circle of self-hatred that allows women to play victim?

Not putting words in your mouth, asking. Because It's a subject I really don't get. I really believe that women could TOTALLY take a lot more control of this if they wanted.

Vendetta1 said:

People gossip because they've got nothing going on in their own lives.

Vendetta1 said:

Naw, man...it's more than that. Most women are looking for validation from others. To get a man to change to what they want them to be is the ultimate validation.

"I did it when you couldn't. Look at me, I'm special".

reneGade20 said:

hmm .. she got much ridicule for trying to be the 'ultimate one' lol

reneGade20 said:

that explains the 'selective language barrier' NO!! WHAT YOU MEAN NO!!

JustErin said:

exactly .. there ya go

Vendetta1 said:

Everybody has their thing that they will happily spend exorbitant amounts of money on. And exorbitant and expensive are relative terms and personal to each person IMO. I have a guy friend that spends $1000s on rims for his various cars and he changes them out frequently. Like how I change shoes. I don't get that but I don't criticize him for it either. It's his thing.

johnart said:

Yeah, pretty much. But also, a lot of women aspire to those unrealistic standards of beauty. They see it, they want to be like it.

Vendetta1 said:

Mine IS magical. It doesn't shoot confetti or nuthin' like PaintedLady's but it's pretty darn spayshul. As for the dude Gade is talking about, I'd NEVER want a relationship with his ass. BUT depending on my mood, his looks, and whether I'm feeling him or not I MAY elect to make sport outta him and keep it movin'. I find that guys like this can't deal when a woman gets her jollies and doesn't want anything else from them. It's kinda funny.

SCNDLS said:

You.are.hilarious.

SCNDLS said:

that IS funny as heck! lol .. and I gotta go back and quote Renegade on something.. (cause I thought about it)

SCNDLS said:

First off, do I even have to say the words...?? (hint...outtacontrol... ) Next, you're right in that men are very likely to fall head over heels for a woman that gets her jollies at their expense....why, I couldn't tell you....but to me, its kinda my scenario in reverse....

Lastly...did I mention yo' ass is outtacontrol?? just checkin'....

Vendetta1 said:

Flowers2 said:

Yeah...but she should serve as a cautionary tale for those who try to be the ultimate one...cuz she went shortly thereafter....

SCNDLS said:

I'm not criticizing. I just don't get it.

I live at Best Buy.

reneGade20 said:

The difference between me and SirDawg, if I understand correctly, is that he's gonna string this woman along, make promises he has no intention of keeping, tell her dumb, hopeful ass everything she wants to hear, then he's going to fuck around on her. Guys like SirDawg get off on keeping a lot of chicks on their line. I don't do ANY of that. Matter fact, if you're in the sport category, depending on where my head is at, you're prolly not getting a callback much less all that other stuff. That's too much damn energy.

Vendetta1 said:

Seeeee. . . Another one of my things that my friends think I'm crazy for is going to see Prince in Vegas so many times.

reneGade20 said:

I thought about it.. yes, we do take the chick to task... she'll get a bunch of this .. why? cause she ignored all the signs, warnings, and all the advise others were trying to warn her about the truth... she completely walked in denial.... hey, a chick wants to walk in the fire, she'll get burnt..

SCNDLS said:

I plopped down a coupla G's to see Prince NYE in 2006.

reneGade20 said:

Because I really don't give a fuck what some other chick does.

Vendetta1 said:

^^^^^
Does not compute. Would never happen.