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PrintableJustErin said: Slave2daGroove said: Glad mine's not like that, it would've been over by now... I would hope so. I wouldn't be able to fucking handle that shit. Living a lie like that would be harder than cheating on someone and trying to keep that lie to yourself. I've never been able to lie... [Edited 1/16/09 12:46pm] | |
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Slave2daGroove said: JustErin said: I would hope so. I wouldn't be able to fucking handle that shit. Living a lie like that would be harder than cheating on someone and trying to keep that lie to yourself. I've never been able to lie... [Edited 1/16/09 12:46pm] From personal experience, neither is easier than the other....trust me....  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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Flowers2 said: SirPsycho said: WHY, AT TIMES, IS A MAN EXPECTED TO READ A WOMANS MIND (SEE: "YOU SHOULD JUST KNOW") IN ORDER TO SUSTAIN A "GOOD" RELATIONSHIP?? AND WHY DO WOMEN HOLD ON TO SOMETHING THEIR MAD ABOUT UNTIL THEY EXPLODE? INSTEAD OF SPEAKING UP WHEN THEY FIRST FEEL/FEL UNCOMFORTABLE?
..because if you're in a relationship, women want you to understand their vibe and understand their connection... it's a bond that women want men to get in touch with ... therefore, you are 'suppose' to just know how she is feeling lol.... | |
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SirPsycho said: WHY, AT TIMES, IS A MAN EXPECTED TO READ A WOMANS MIND (SEE: "YOU SHOULD JUST KNOW") IN ORDER TO SUSTAIN A "GOOD" RELATIONSHIP?? AND WHY DO WOMEN HOLD ON TO SOMETHING THEIR MAD ABOUT UNTIL THEY EXPLODE? INSTEAD OF SPEAKING UP WHEN THEY FIRST FEEL/FEL UNCOMFORTABLE?
In my experience, I already told him several times and the reason I am mad is becomes increasingly more apparent that although you may be looking right at me, what I say is not registering. You SHOULD know, cause I already told you!!! Several times probably! 
ALSO, WHY IS IT WHEN WOMEN GET OLD (THO I KNOW A FEW YOUND WOMEN WHO DO THIS) YOU CANT GET THEM TO SIT DOWN? BOTH MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER WILL WASH DISHES, COOK GREENS, MOP THE FLOOR, MOVE FUNITURE, ETC. ETC. ON A DAY WHEN THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO BE RELAXING- ALL THE WHILE CURSING TO THE HEAVENS ABOUT HOW "THEY WISH THEY DIDNT HAVE TO DO THIS SHIT"
EX: (1) MY GRANDMOTHER WOULD NOT SIT DOWN TO EAT AT THANKSGIVIN, EVEN THO THE REST OF THE FAM WAS SERVING THEMSELVES AND EACH OTHER SHE HAD TO MAKE SURE EVERYBODY HAD BUTTER FOR THEIR ROLL, AND CHECK TO MAKE SURE THE GRAVY LADELS MACHED THE BOWLS...
 (2) MY MOTHER [ON CHRISTMAS] WOULD NOT JUST SIT AND ENJOY OPENING HER PRESENTS, SHE HAAAAD TO -WATER THE PLANTS -CHANGE LIGHTBULBS ...YOU GET THE PICTURE...NOT SAYING THIS STUFF DOESNT HAVE TO BE DONE...BUT IT COULD'VE WAITED, AND THEY DEF COULD'VE RELAXED
They are probably agitated. Agitated the men folks do NOTHING. When I am angry or irritated or pissed off, I start doing stuff like that. It's all very well to say "Sit down! Relax! You don't need to do this now" but unless the person saying it is actually getting up to help, it's not going to do itself and might as well do it now instead of later when I'm too tired. So there. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: 389 fucking posts and not once has the question been asked...
If you know your hormones have an effect on your moods and you know this roller coaster ride happens monthly, why can't you accept it/acknowledge it for what it is? To clarify, if it makes you crabby (the pain alone would make me crabby) or irritable, just say "this isn't about you but I'm really on a short fuse today, keep your distance". Rather than thinking guys are just being assholes by mentioning it when we have to endure what seems like crazy-bitch mode in silence. It would really make everyone's lives easier with a little communication. Other than that, I get why women are like they are and that's why I love them. I really love my wife but I love all women. Their subtle differences and their perspective as women to babies, puppies and warm fuzzy things make me want to give them a hug. Some, fuck the hell out of but that's another conversation... [Edited 1/16/09 9:15am] you know that the hormones give us an incredible bullshit detector at certain times of the month. We can hear the condenscension in your voice when you ask if we have PMS or getting our period soon, even if YOU don't even realise it's there! It's truly amazing! So I ask you in turn, if you know how enraged asking us that makes us, why do you ask?  (knowing that he knows the outcome but still insists on going there, would make me punch a guy!  )
And if you are that wonderful guy that suffers in silence, know this - don't take it too personal, BUT on the other hand, that is the time of the month when I am MOST the person I really am, and MEAN what I say
I only recognise an episode of PMS or whatever in hindsight - during the moment all I know is I see things, hear things, and feel things in a way that is CLEAR as if the fog lifts and I see things for what they really are. That is why that week I do the debt collecting | |
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The best one is "Do I look fat in this?" you say the truth she hates you. If you say no she goes out and a friend tells her guess what she also hates you.  | |
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reneGade20 said: Flowers2 said: ..because if you're in a relationship, women want you to understand their vibe and understand their connection... it's a bond that women want men to get in touch with ... therefore, you are 'suppose' to just know how she is feeling lol....  well if that be the case, matey, then why isn't the reverse true? Most women could care less what their man's vibe is or whats on his mind if its not HER 24/7/365....'splain please!!
no no no ... I believe in equality and respect goes both ways... a woman gotta take care of her man, understand his vibe and treat him like the king he is.... yes, you do have women who could care less of their men's vibe and treat their men not so great...and they feel the man should be doing everything to treat her like a queen, but see that's where those women mess up taking him for granted (and then another woman will just come along and say stuff to him and WILL take care of him good) ... no, I believe in taking care of a man and understanding his vibe just like he should know her vibe .. both have to respect each other (and give each other space too).. | |
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SirPsycho said: Flowers2 said: yes, your gf is right.... if the guy and girl are constantly communicating, he'll know her and all her ways... ...you know thats just wrong us women want the world lol .. | |
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