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PrintableSteadwood said: A little early in the convo...
...but is judging someone a bad thing?  No often times it is a positive thing Humans make judgements on LOTS of things in life | |
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ZombieKitten said: Not always are our first impressions right or do people neatly fit into our expectation. If we assume things because we think that goes according to type, we can be so wrong, yet at other times sooooo amazingly right it isn't funny, or maybe it IS funny
I have a friend who fits into an "aussie" stereotype so much so, when I described her to my husband, he said let me guess what her 2 children are called, and he got it right without ever having met any of them. Roo and Wala? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Mach said: Steadwood said: A little early in the convo...
...but is judging someone a bad thing? No often times it is a positive thing Humans make judgements on LOTS of things in life What if someone deserves a negative judgement. Is that still judging or is it something else? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Mach said: Vendetta1 said: God yes. I really tried not be. I used to think I was the most openminded person in the world. I'm still pretty open but some stuff I just can't tolerate. I think we all have to make judgments at some point.
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Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Mach said: No often times it is a positive thing Humans make judgements on LOTS of things in life What if someone deserves a negative judgement. Is that still judging or is it something else? You'll have to make that judgement yourself Mr. 
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no usually I am the defendant and I stand before the judge. To Sir, with Love | |
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Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
Sometimes, yes | |
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Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
 yep... the saying says 'it takes one, to know one'.. what you 'try' seeing in somebody else.. you are really seeing in yourself... | |
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Mach said: Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
Sometimes, yes Why sometimes? I have a firm grip on reality...Maybe just not this reality |
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Try not too, but yeah... it happens.  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Yes! | |
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Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
No. | |
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Is judgement of others part of survival?
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: ZombieKitten said: Not always are our first impressions right or do people neatly fit into our expectation. If we assume things because we think that goes according to type, we can be so wrong, yet at other times sooooo amazingly right it isn't funny, or maybe it IS funny
I have a friend who fits into an "aussie" stereotype so much so, when I described her to my husband, he said let me guess what her 2 children are called, and he got it right without ever having met any of them. Roo and Wala? Lachie and Joshie actually | |
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JustErin said: Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
No. Why? I have a firm grip on reality...Maybe just not this reality |
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Flowers2 said: Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
yep... the saying says 'it takes one, to know one'.. what you 'try' seeing in somebody else.. you are really seeing in yourself... Which is why our reactions are so visceral 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Steadwood said: JustErin said: No. Why? Because sometimes it just isn't 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Steadwood said: Why? Because sometimes it just isn't Does this mean you have contradicted yourself?  
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Steadwood said: Should we consider our judgement of others and ourselves be considered as a reflection on ourselves?
sometimes, yes. considering most people (probably) judge others based on their own belief system, it's difficult to say for me to say judgments aren't a reflection of ourselves in a way. i've also noticed sometimes i am irritated by behavior in others that i exhibit myself (or would like to ), which i've long thought of as my worst trait, or one of them.
sometimes, though, i think we just judge and it means nothing essential about us other than what we think of another person.  HE'S COMING AGAIN | |
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Steadwood said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Because sometimes it just isn't Does this mean you have contradicted yourself?
all the time 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Steadwood said: Is judgement of others part of survival?
Absolutely. | |
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Yes, I do... but with ever-increasing caution. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Is Judgement bad if we have done it internally, and then checked ourself for being ridiculous and the person never knew the wiser? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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PEJ said: no usually I am the defendant and I stand before the judge.
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There is a lot of reflection and self analysis going on in this thread
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Steadwood said: There is a lot of reflection and self analysis going on in this thread
Surprised aren't you? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Steadwood said: There is a lot of reflection and self analysis going on in this thread it's a great thread.
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Do you feel guilty for judging others?
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