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PrintableI'm still leaning towards intercourse, with the consent of both parties.
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ZombieKitten said: Darwintheorgangrinder said: Riding a bicycle can be a hymen breaking event. So does that count? I don't remember ever having a hymen  hussy!  | |
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Flowers2 said: meow85 said: We don't all have that though. To a degree, yes, but I've got to wonder how much of it has been social conditioning and how much is truly because of our hormones. I'm walking, talking proof that women need not fall in love with everyone they've been with. all women have the hormone for the bonding.... now how that hormone operates in different women is another can of worms.... but all women have it.. We all do to a degree, like I said, but it's not the same for everyone. I have been in love with someone, but I can honestly say sexual bonding isn't what did it for me. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Darwintheorgangrinder said: paintedlady said: If the vibrator or dildo is large enough to cause bleeding thereby breaking the hymen then yes. Tampons don't make you lose your virginity... so that's the technical explanation. But the mental/emotional knowledge of knowing how to climax is a whole other can of worms. Riding a bicycle can be a hymen breaking event. So does that count? Or in my case, falling out of a tree. If breaking one's hymen is the marker of losing one's virginity, I gave up my V-card to a maple when I was 7.  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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ZombieKitten said: Darwintheorgangrinder said: Riding a bicycle can be a hymen breaking event. So does that count? I don't remember ever having a hymen Me either.  | |
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I think "being a virgin" for a woman doesn't mean having an "undamaged" hymen (because that can even happen with running and stuff like that, of course), but rather something symbolic. Of course you participate in a sexual activity by having oral sex, but still you're the "closest" by inserting your penis, physically and mentally, in my opinion and that's what "being a virign" is about. | |
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shanti0608 said: ZombieKitten said: I don't remember ever having a hymen Me either. 
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ZombieKitten said: shanti0608 said: Me either.
I thought I might be able to find you one on eBay... ...but all I came up with was this guy with a very unfortunate name 
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Dic...240%3A1318   I have a firm grip on reality...Maybe just not this reality   | |
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"ouch"... that's it. | |
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Steadwood said: ZombieKitten said:
I thought I might be able to find you one on eBay... ...but all I came up with was this guy with a very unfortunate name
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Dic...240%3A1318  | |
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this thread is a classic
so have we decided that girls who get finger banged but have not yet had a ding a ling in em are still virgins or what? To Sir, with Love | |
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This thread left me throughly confused!!  If you will, so will I | |
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I define it as - consuming copious amounts of alcohol and waking up the next day deflowered.
Or maybe that’s just me. | |
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JustErin said: I define it as - consuming copious amounts of alcohol and waking up the next day deflowered.
Or maybe that’s just me. deflowered  Who are you Monica Geller? | |
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Dave1992 said: I think "being a virgin" for a woman doesn't mean having an "undamaged" hymen (because that can even happen with running and stuff like that, of course), but rather something symbolic. Of course you participate in a sexual activity by having oral sex, but still you're the "closest" by inserting your penis, physically and mentally, in my opinion and that's what "being a virign" is about.
I agree. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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baroque said: to me virginity is somewhat a state of mind.It is a concept thought to us based on our cultural norms, religious norms, etc. but is virginity real? In my opinion, its totally irrelevant. certain people use this concept known as virginity to make people who are more comfortable with their sexuality feel bad about themselves. others make fun of those who are still virgins. then there is a thing called virgin worship, which i find disturbing. the concept of virginity should not be used.
And what if one of those virgin worshippers got raped? Will they deny the fact? grammar edit [Edited 2/17/09 14:28pm] Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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JayJai said: To add to everything that was said
I always thought virginity was lost once mr lil' man or a finger or a dildo got inside, but now I'm not so sure
I lost my virginity by force 
For me, there has to be an emotional something there to make me even want to do the nasty wit u in the first place. I just can't see it happenin if I'm not attracted to u beyond jus physical. Sometimes I wonder how the hell people do that?  | |
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Losing my virginity was a big deal--the only bad sex I've ever had!
Actually it caused me an incredible amount of anxiety, mixed with good feeling because of the fact that I really really liked the girl, and had never even kissed her before that night. My Legacy
http://prince.org/msg/8/192731 | |
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I'm a virgin 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Breakthrough.
The end.  | |
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JustErin said: I define it as - consuming copious amounts of alcohol and waking up the next day deflowered.
Or maybe that’s just me.
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I'm pretty sure you can't lose your virginity by yourself. Another person would have to be involved. I'm just saying...some of the stuff I'm reading in this thread is weird. | |
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lameless said: I'm pretty sure you can't lose your virginity by yourself. Another person would have to be involved. I'm just saying...some of the stuff I'm reading in this thread is weird.
Technically I lost my virginty to my then bf's hands. So why couldn't it have been my own hands too for example .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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violator said: JustErin said: I define it as - consuming copious amounts of alcohol and waking up the next day deflowered.
Or maybe that’s just me.
You too? | |
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Serious said: lameless said: I'm pretty sure you can't lose your virginity by yourself. Another person would have to be involved. I'm just saying...some of the stuff I'm reading in this thread is weird.
Technically I lost my virginty to my then bf's hands. So why couldn't it have been my own hands too for example .So, do males lose their virginity when they masturbate? | |
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lameless said: Serious said: Technically I lost my virginty to my then bf's hands. So why couldn't it have been my own hands too for example .So, do males lose their virginity when they masturbate? I said technically. And as I said above in another post I define losing the virginity by the first vaginal penetration no matter if you already had your hymen "damaged" before. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: lameless said: So, do males lose their virginity when they masturbate? I said technically. And as I said above in another post I define losing the virginity by the first vaginal penetration no matter if you already had your hymen "damaged" before. I get ya. I was just confused by some of the logic in the original post and beyond. The concept of a man needing a partner to lose his virginity and a woman being able to lose hers on her own. If a woman can lose her virginity to a finger or a dildo, a man can lose his virginity to his hand greased with vaseline or a blow-up doll with an orifice or two pillows pushed together. If someone believes that--fine. But, if one is true, so is the other. I don't believe men and women have two different standards of virginity and 'losing' it. | |
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lameless said: Serious said: I said technically. And as I said above in another post I define losing the virginity by the first vaginal penetration no matter if you already had your hymen "damaged" before. I get ya. I was just confused by some of the logic in the original post and beyond. The concept of a man needing a partner to lose his virginity and a woman being able to lose hers on her own. If a woman can lose her virginity to a finger or a dildo, a man can lose his virginity to his hand greased with vaseline or a blow-up doll with an orifice or two pillows pushed together. If someone believes that--fine. But, if one is true, so is the other. I don't believe men and women have two different standards of virginity and 'losing' it. I agree.With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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mdiver said: JustErin said: I define it as - consuming copious amounts of alcohol and waking up the next day deflowered.
Or maybe that’s just me. deflowered Who are you Monica Geller? That's what I was thinking! "Cocaine is God's way of tellin' you, you're making too damn much money!"~Robin Williams | |
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If a penis has tickled your tonsils...
If your lips have kissed lips that aren't on a face... If someone's jizz or vag juices have dripped from any part of your body... NOT A VIRGIN. I don't even want to hear it. [Edited 2/25/09 21:13pm] | |
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